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ORIGINAL: MasterChip2008

I am growing deeply concerned about the sub's and slave's that do not ever reply/respond to message's sent to them by Masters/Mistreess's, not even a polite 'Thanks, but no thanks' would be nice. However, increasingly, I find that its virtually impossible to receive a response from sub's and slave's when they are contacted thru here. A sub/slave's 'duty' is first and foremost 'to serve', this includes, but is definitely not limited to, responding when a Master/Mistress say's something to them...even if the response is in the 'negative'. And yet...there are so very many who just never reply/respond or react in any way whatsoever.

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Another matter, on a different subject is...there has been a huge outbreak of 'supposed' subs/slaves sending message's to Masters and Mistresses from out of the USA, from Ghana for example. They claim they want a 'owner', but then go  on to 'demand' extreme funds for plane tickets, visa's, and passports, making claims that all can be had within 72 hours time, IF they have the money. I have, personally, checked this out....the shortest time anyone can get a passport/visa from Ghana, or most anywhere else is actually 6 months or more, and even then, some governments require that the person requesting thses documents have a large bank account balance and real property in they're country, there-by assureing thery're return. I have not found any country willing to grant visa's and passports within 72 hours, and normally there is a long and detailed process by which said items are gotten anyway

My advise to all Masters and Mistresses, if you get a message from someone outside of your own country, simply do not reply, its most likely a 'con-game' to simply get your money. And for those who receive message's from those in your country, be sure that if you assist with transportation for these subs/slave's, you pre-pay for the ticket, so you can get a refund if the ticket is not used and it cannot be cashed in by anyone else...

A pretty cool warning.  There are warnings and postings all over this site and yet I am surprised how many people still fall these scams.  Another warning/reminder cannot hurt, so kudos for that.

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On a final note, I hope everyone here, Masters,Mistresses, slaves and subs have a wonderful day and night!!

We (Darcy and I) will - and have a great one yourself.  Pretty much ignore the baptism by fire (usual generic postings to pick on the new posters) and take the constructive comments by the few.  Don't feel singled out, it happens to (almost) all new posters so it's no biggie.  Just feel the 'warmth' of the welcome to the forums.
 
the.dark.

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RC&dc

love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

(in reply to MasterChip2008)

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ORIGINAL: Kindandcruel
This has little to do with if you are a slave or not... it has everything to do with common curtesy which is no longer so common. How much does it take to go into the reply area and select a pre-written answer like "No thank you" This is nothing more than a show of the attitudes of the majority of slaves/women here that are focused on me me me and don't care about anybody else. The standard woman is only interested in laying around the house and being sexually available, they don't want to serve, they don't want to do any housework, they are totally worthless as submissives or slaves. They are selfish as well as self centered. Then they complain endlessly about getting one liners and cut and past letters... Duh! Why should I spend hours on a letter to a woman that will most likely be rude or most likely not even answer? The women on this board are definately not worth the time and effort because of their low caliber and lack of integrity. But in case one does return a letter, I will go to the max in sharing communications and making shre she is aware of what she is getting into. That is usually when they dissappear and don't bother to say a word... agan how much does it talk to show a little bit of good character by saying "Sorry this isn't what I am looking for?"

Apparently it is far more integrity than the women here can attain.

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ORIGINAL: KobudoKnight
Respect is earned, not demanded.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

:X

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

If it's a polite email. I'd say yes. Works on both sides as far as I'm concerned.

so, Icarys.. have you missed the posts about even a polite "thanks, but no thanks" response getting vitriolic responses?

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ORIGINAL: Kindandcruel
This has little to do with if you are a slave or not... it has everything to do with common curtesy which is no longer so common. How much does it take to go into the reply area and select a pre-written answer like "No thank you" This is nothing more than a show of the attitudes of the majority of slaves/women here that are focused on me me me and don't care about anybody else. The standard woman is only interested in laying around the house and being sexually available, they don't want to serve, they don't want to do any housework, they are totally worthless as submissives or slaves. They are selfish as well as self centered. Then they complain endlessly about getting one liners and cut and past letters... Duh! Why should I spend hours on a letter to a woman that will most likely be rude or most likely not even answer? The women on this board are definately not worth the time and effort because of their low caliber and lack of integrity. But in case one does return a letter, I will go to the max in sharing communications and making shre she is aware of what she is getting into. That is usually when they dissappear and don't bother to say a word... agan how much does it talk to show a little bit of good character by saying "Sorry this isn't what I am looking for?"

Apparently it is far more integrity than the women here can attain.

Hey GT... see this 10ft barge pole?  Not touching that last post quoted with it.

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

This lifestyle is not a special place where the elite gathers.
In real life you don't get normal responses all the time , so don't expect it here.
Just don't get tempted to reply impolite also...to keep the honour to yourself

(just a remark in general  lol)

Pffft, D - ya suggesting I ain't special!!!!!!!!

I'm hurt I say.  Hurt.
 
the.dark.


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love isnt gazing into each others eyes - it's looking forward in the same direction

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

This lifestyle is not a special place where the elite gathers.
In real life you don't get normal responses all the time , so don't expect it here.
Just don't get tempted to reply impolite also...to keep the honour to yourself

(just a remark in general  lol)

Pffft, D - ya suggesting I ain't special!!!!!!!!
I'm hurt I say.  Hurt.
 
the.dark.

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

This lifestyle is not a special place where the elite gathers.
In real life you don't get normal responses all the time , so don't expect it here.
Just don't get tempted to reply impolite also...to keep the honour to yourself

(just a remark in general  lol)

Pffft, D - ya suggesting I ain't special!!!!!!!!
I'm hurt I say.  Hurt.
 
the.dark.

Nah... You're very special. Pretty much the only person on this forum to post consistenly in italics!

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

:X

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

If it's a polite email. I'd say yes. Works on both sides as far as I'm concerned.

so, Icarys.. have you missed the posts about even a polite "thanks, but no thanks" response getting vitriolic responses?

Nope sure haven't.

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness

This lifestyle is not a special place where the elite gathers.....  with the occasional exception...of the select few
In real life you don't get normal responses all the time , so don't expect it here.
Just don't get tempted to reply impolite also...to keep the honour to yourself

(just a remark in general  lol)

Pffft, D - ya suggesting I ain't special!!!!!!!!
I'm hurt I say.  Hurt.
 
the.dark.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

:X

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

If it's a polite email. I'd say yes. Works on both sides as far as I'm concerned.

so, Icarys.. have you missed the posts about even a polite "thanks, but no thanks" response getting vitriolic responses?

Nope sure haven't.

and you stand by your assertion that we're rude asses if we don't respond?

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:ORIGINAL: ShatteredSoul123 The fact is, you should take the lack of response to mean exactly what it does mean - that by your definition the person not replying is not a real sub or slave. Thats fine... move on.

please universally define what a real submissive/slave is for us then so we might follow your "wise" teachings.  also it's his predefined notion that will never land him that special submissive/slave he so desires.

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Icarys.. I've gotten polite emails.. responded with a thanks, but I'm not interested... and in return have received variations of "your a fat pig/a man/a fake/etc that is worthless/a fucking cunt/ etc"

why should I deal with that?

No response IS a response.