AliyaLuna
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer With every (nominally vanilla) partner I've had, the conversation's ended up turning to power play. I've always - eventually - talked about wanting to be a sub to a woman's Domme. Each vanilla partner - and there've been over 30 - has loved the idea of power-play. Yet, it's always ended up with me as the "Dom". Why? Obviously because, as a deep-down sub, I know exactly what'll turn them on. I know exactly how their submissive, passive, need-to-be-put-in-their place buttons can be pressed. I used to quite enjoy that - it was fun. But it didn't hit the depths for me as it did for them. I found switch females too selfish (LOL at the irony of it all). When it came to my turn to be the servant, the slave and the abused, they'd always make a feeble job of it. Their hearts weren't in it. Moreover, I don't think they even thought they should be expected to do it well, either. Deep down, men are dominant, such supposedly "switch" women have believed, and that's that. I'm afraid I don't believe true switch females exist - they all want to be subs at heart. I'd once have said, 'Show me I'm wrong, I dare you' - but it's too late now. I want a true, no-holds-barred, Domme now. I've gone over to the Dark Side and want to stay here. Moral: if you're a switch, don't be bloody selfish. It might just be an experience thing too. More experienced in one role or another. I know the more I learn about each the more I can bring to the experience. Plus you might also find that someone is more one than the other but still both in one person.
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