MastersControl
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ORIGINAL: Sllim1973 The posts went on to discuss this male sub thing, this 'me-me-me' thing and how normal, plentiful and unapealing it must be. This leads me to ask a really, really important question. You Misstresses out there, what exactly do you look for your subs to be offering you? So am I on the right track? Have I earned the title of 'Having a clue'? Remember to submit to a Dom/Domme, you must desire to want to serve their needs and wants, and want to do it from the heart, not from the second head or gut. Many subs look at it as a way to get attention or sex, but it comes down to the desire to serve, and the sub that can open him/herself up to a Dom/Domme unconditionally is where the true gift is shown, not a list of me, me, me's. If you can ask "how can I serve you" without asking "what is in it for me", you have come a long way as a sub. When I consider a sub, I look at how they percieve life in the lifestyle, and not what they want, because the later will come, but the paradym is what is more important from both sides. Remember to be yourself, and if you really desire to serve, show her, don't just tell her. Your actions really do speak louder than words. Now I will get off of this soapbox....lol MC
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A Master is not a title, it is what a slave calls her trusted Dom. The true Masters of the past were trained, and given the name, not given the title by self-proclamation.
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