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stella41b -> RE: Clue Phone for 20-somethings (11/3/2008 10:59:19 AM)
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Candy
Okay, so you're 50, attractive, intelligent, successful, you know what you want, and I'm sure there's a lot of people coming across your profile who would in some way feel attracted to you. Isn't this a good thing?
I can see where you're coming from, I can understand why you need to vent, and I don't see why you shouldn't have a 'whine' if that's what is going to make you feel better. At least you know how to do it and get a decent thread out of it.
However the thing is, how is anyone going to ever find out whether you find them suitable or attractive enough for a relationship without making some sort of contact with you? Hmmm? I mean until they make that contact and reveal their interest in you, how would you know that they are interested in you? And does all contact with you have to lead to a relationship?
I mean let's face it, and I feel this goes for everyone, me included, over 80% of the traffic coming in through our Inbox comes from people we deem in some way unsuitable for what we are looking for (sure there are exceptions, for example tribute dommes etc) but aren't the majority of messages we receive coming from people we find in some way unsuitable for a relationship?
I see only one solution to prevent this and that involves a big black pointy hat, a cauldron, a black cat and a broomstick. Now even if the broomstick would help you get from Jacksonville to Miami quicker there's still no guarantee that you would come up with a spell to deter these young people.
I understand what you're saying and I see your point, but judging by the amount of people who have problems reading profiles, I doubt you're going to find anyone who can read minds.
Just saying..
s.
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