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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/19/2006 5:43:36 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: AsianSlave2125

I'm an overweight slave and am not too confident hitting a public scene because of this, any suggestions?


Don't worry about it. I'm overweight (though slimming down for health reasons) and whenever I go out into the public scene and get spanked or flogged or anything else, I almost always have men coming up to me afterwards telling me how sexy I looked up there.

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/19/2006 7:23:30 PM   
MMshappysub


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Status: offline 		i am over weight as well ... but beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/19/2006 7:30:10 PM   
laughterandlove


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Status: offline 		I personally prefer women that have a little more to love that is incredibly sexy!!!

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/19/2006 7:35:06 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		I am a big girl. I don't care if others are big, skinny whatever. If you have confidence in yourself then it shouldn't matter what others think. I stopped caring what others thought of me or anything I do a loooong time ago.

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/19/2006 7:41:25 PM   
mst6762


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Status: offline 		you go girlfriend   i too am a big girl and proud of it...if they don't like it  then look else where!!!!!!

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/20/2006 8:42:25 AM   
ToGiveDivine


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Status: offline 		Get a full length mirror, strip naked, stand in front of it, look at yourself VERY closely ...

... now, keep this in mind; somebody wants what you are looking at - I mean wants it badly, thinks what you are looking at is hot and sexy, wants to touch it taste it, derive pleasure from it ...

... now, get your mind in the same state as what I described.  Your personality and imagination have to exceed your looks, you have to fun, intriguing, silly, serious, humorous, serious, etc.

What is on the outside may be what attracts a person, but it's what is on the inside that keeps him.

There will be people that don't like what you are looking at - that is their preference, not your fault - just be you and find the person that likes YOU.

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/20/2006 8:49:38 AM   
indybbwsubbie


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Status: offline 		This slave's Master likes her........but is still encouraging her in her weight loss efforts.  she has been to numerous public type play parties and functions.  Has been fully nude - altho that did take some time to accomplish.  It is better off to publically scene when blindfolded - so she cannot see who is watching - or not watching for that matter!

Has been difficult a couple times when a couple female slaves/submissives made weight comments to her.  Makes her REALLY not want to get nekkie in public!  Master calls this girl a "work in progress".  And the progress at this point is at the negative 31 lbs.  Which is a FAR way to go in order for her to feel comfortable in her own skin. 

Going to a play party tomorrow - so hoping that it will be easier to do now than in months past!

indy subbie (property of Master Alan)

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/20/2006 7:18:01 PM   
andreaC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DelRey

Your weight will not be an issue, unless you let it become one.


Well said Sir!

andreaC

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/20/2006 8:15:12 PM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

Get a full length mirror, strip naked, stand in front of it, look at yourself VERY closely ...

... now, keep this in mind; somebody wants what you are looking at - I mean wants it badly, thinks what you are looking at is hot and sexy, wants to touch it taste it, derive pleasure from it ....



TGD ~ this is hot! 
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I am a plus-size gal, and can understand your feelings, OP.  However, as Daddy and I discussed then and since, sometimes the sexiest thing a naked person can wear in the dungeon is a collar and cuffs.  I have had several people say very complimentary things to me after Daddy and I play.  (What they think is not important...  as long as Daddy thinks I'm a "hottie," then I am one.) 

I think chemistry is hot to watch.  I have watched people play who were not Ken and Barbie, but were so "in tune" with each other that I was completely drawn into viewing their scene.

Taken from my journal re:  my first public scene this past summer...

"Daddy asked me if i was ready to start and i smiled and said, "Yes, Sir."  He told me to get comfortable, but that some of the clothes needed to go.  i asked Him how comfortable did He want me, and He said that it was my choice this time.  i told Him i was fine however He preferred, so He asked if I was ok "nekkid."  i said sure, and took my stuff off and folded it nicely over the chair and looked into His eyes for focus, and He smiled at me with His eyes and sexy lips."


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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/24/2006 5:57:14 PM   
TxAllieGrl


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Status: offline 		Part of what drew me to the public scene was the acceptance factor - nobody cared what size I was. It boosted my confidence level in a way nothing else did. I felt sexy, I felt good about myself. I could BE myself, no matter who/what that was.


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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/24/2006 6:00:44 PM   
cuddleheart50


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Status: offline 		Taken from my journal re:  my first public scene this past summer...

"Daddy asked me if i was ready to start and i smiled and said, "Yes, Sir."  He told me to get comfortable, but that some of the clothes needed to go.  i asked Him how comfortable did He want me, and He said that it was my choice this time.  i told Him i was fine however He preferred, so He asked if I was ok "nekkid."  i said sure, and took my stuff off and folded it nicely over the chair and looked into His eyes for focus, and He smiled at me with His eyes and sexy lips."


Red, you are sooooooooo lucky to have someone like that, hang on to him...

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/24/2006 6:47:49 PM   
Daddysredhead


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

Red, you are sooooooooo lucky to have someone like that, hang on to him...


Dear Cuddles,
I agree with you.  My Master is amazing and makes me feel treasured.  I adore Him like no other...  *swoons* 

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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/24/2006 7:56:28 PM   
sailorthor


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Status: offline 		I'll admit some trepidation when meeting up with my most-recent-sub-experience friend.  She did not fit the "compact body" that I would normally claim to desire most.

We had a fantastic time.  She has assets such as I have never been able to play with before.  My whole perspective on a woman's weight is changed.


Get out and have some fun.

Enjoy Life,
SailorThor


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RE: Overweight slaves in the public scene - 10/24/2006 9:42:59 PM   
ChelseaSubTS


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Status: offline 		Well i have put on alot of weight in the past few years, and i am a Big Gurl now hehe.  But for every person who might ever have made a bad remark about it, i have had many others who told me i looked good.  I am confident in myself, and i project that in my sensuality.  I am a rather aggressive sub hehe, so believe me i will go after what i want, and i do not think any guys are out of my league.  Either someone will be attracted to you or they won't, the ones who aren't, who cares, it's the ones who are that matter. 

Chelsea

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