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femaleserver -> Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 5:05:26 AM)

What does a male sub need to do to be prepared for his Femdom Wife strap-on?  When should this done?



RichieB -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 5:16:05 AM)

I sent you a email on the other side.


Diane



UmbraDomina -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 5:33:50 AM)

bend over and take a deep breath?



malloves69 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 6:05:32 AM)

love strapon play [:)] something about a sexy woman wearing a big strapon i just love [:)] gladly bendover for my mistress anytime she wants to fuck my ass [:)] she started me out small ...bought me my first butt plug which was awesome of her to do and i still have that one ....the first strapon she used on me was 6 in ..back then i thought that was a lot to take ..silly me [:)] she would first use her fingers on me to relax and open up for her as she played with my ass ..first 1 finger then 2 ...boy when that lady of mine started playing with my ass she hit gold i must say [:)] been doing strapon play with her now for over 3 plus years and i love when she fucks me ...but the strapons have gotten much bigger ..size does matter [:)]  once her fingers did the trick thats when she introduced the butt plug ..oh yes dont forget the lube ...lube is good [:)]communicate to her and tell her how it feels ..any problems or blood stop ..like any guy i really wanted to please her by taking alot in but you will stretch out so you can take the bigger ones over time [:)] after getting used to the butt plug and feeling what it feels like having something in your ass thats when she took my cherry with the 6 in strapon [:)] oh yes sorry i forgot the enema first ...love being clean for her inside as well as outside makes anal play that much more enjoyable for both of us knowing i am clean for her [:)] must warn you straponplay is addicting and when she finds your prostate and starts playing with that i was hooked ....[:)] with her playing with your prostate and giving you a bj or a good hand job you will cum alot more and it will be more intense ..at least for me it is [:)] my lady knows my ass and prostate well i must say [:)] we have graduated to her fisting me now anally ...boy you think strapon play feels good once your trained try having her fist you [:)] that feeling of her sliding into you for the first time is priceless as far as we are concerned [:)] good luck ..go slow ....lube lube lube ....communicate ...bending over for a woman wearing a strapon can be awesome indeed [:)] after all i believe a woman should have a turn with a mans ass is fair play if he wants to do her too anally [:)] cant believe how wet my mistress gets when she fucks my ass still even to this day [:)] enjoy mal



bratb -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 6:24:47 AM)

Hello femaleserver,
 
Great question , i am a female anal virgin and the thought of anal has always scared me to death although interest me as well .
 
Being in the lifestyle for many years i have never brought limits to the table when serving , except beastiality, children, scat , and brown showers . In the past few months i have done alot of thinking and would like a Mistress to take me analy if She so desires .
 
i feel that this would be something special to offer the right Mistress someday . May i ask how a Mistress would handle introducing this to Her female submissive ?
 
Thank You kindly .
 
Respectfully,
girl from RI



RichieB -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 6:50:40 AM)

I would start with my fingers very slowly. Then slowly over time move up to something a little bigger.



Diane



bratb -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 7:58:26 AM)

Diane ,
 
Hello and thank You for the input .
 
Respectfully,
girl



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 8:07:17 AM)

Truly, I have to say that when it comes to this topic, Mal is the expert! [:D]



RichieB -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 9:43:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Truly, I have to say that when it comes to this topic, Mal is the expert! [:D]




X2

Diane



DavanKael -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 10:12:17 AM)

I really don't think there's much prep to do other than basic hygiene, relax, and enjoy!  :> 
As far as when strap-op play should be indulged: As often as possible!!!  :> 
  Davan



malloves69 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 10:34:45 AM)

thank you Ms Lady H [:)] gawd i love it being done to me [:)] wish i could get it more then once or twice a week from my mistress and guys it can be a awesome thing to share with your lady as she has a turn with your ass [:)] love the loving caring way she gets me ready but once shes in im all hers until she is done with me [:)] have fun enjoy mal [:)] oh yes and theres nothing wrong or gay about it as far as im concerned [:)]



PeonForHer -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 11:07:18 AM)

Mal, do you recommend an enema beforehand?

Edited: of course there's nothing wrong or gay about it.  Who cares?  Life's too short.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 11:15:40 AM)

Oh, I forgot---Carol Queen has this video called "Bend Over Boyfriend", all about strap on play... very well done, lots of helpful hints, and models of various body types.  www.goodvibes.com should have it. 



PeonForHer -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 11:27:28 AM)

I shall have to watch that.  I've got a great little porny video in which the two protagonists try all kinds of positions.  It's Russian, so both make it look as though it's real and are actually enjoying doing it. 

The only thing that makes me a little edgy about strap-on playtime is the possible yakkiness.  I wouldn't want 'her' to see that.



malloves69 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 1:21:10 PM)

yes on the enema before hand as far as im concerned [:)] at least in my case after she uses her strapons on me thats when she fists me next [:)] like i said before for those really into strapon play try having her fist you next ...that feeling is simply amazing once she slides in [:)] she fisted me like 4 times on tuesday ...before and after her strapons ...and that was awesome indeed [:)] being fisted is even better then strapon play [:)] plus once she has my prostate im at her mercy until my she is done with me ..she loves the control she has over me once her fingers find my prostate because then i start dripping out cum from her touch and theres nothing i can do to stop her until i stop dripping out cum [:)] the lady is amazing [:)] mal



RichieB -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 1:38:42 PM)

A good site for beginners

http://mistress160.blogspot.com/2007/08/bdsm-for-beginners-part-11-strap-on-sex.html


Diane



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 2:06:00 PM)

What's "yakkiness", Peon? 



ThundersCry -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 2:14:02 PM)

He may be prepared to...scream...
 
Thats what I remember...the screaming...
 
And then the lambs became....silent...



PeonForHer -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 2:48:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

What's "yakkiness", Peon? 


I see I'm going to have to buy myself a US English/Proper English translator's dictionary at some point.  I think "yakkiness" translates to "ickyness", Lady Hib.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/28/2008 9:17:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

What's "yakkiness", Peon? 


I see I'm going to have to buy myself a US English/Proper English translator's dictionary at some point.  I think "yakkiness" translates to "ickyness", Lady Hib.


Generally I have no problem understanding the various Varieties of English, but since "yakking" is slang for "chatting", here, I just wanted to be clear.  [:)]

Hib, who has a very minimal squick factor for yak, ick, etc



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