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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strap-On Prep (11/30/2008 7:25:56 PM)

<wishes she had a bidet>




DelilahDeb -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 1:30:11 AM)

Strap-on prep? No one yet has mentioned the gloves and lube!
There is no such thing as too much lube…unless you step on the bottle.




SteveAndJaz -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 1:55:18 AM)

It depends on the size of the dildo!

When I was a pro Mistress I would get guys pointing to the biggest cock on my shelf saying 'I want that one'. I would bend them over, glove up and lube before inserting a finger, at which point they would often squeel and pant and I would say 'good boy your taking it all!!'





IntellectualPro -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 1:57:10 AM)

From personal experience, width seems to be something you can get used to. Is this also true with depth, especially given the motion involved?




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 8:36:58 AM)

Depth is much trickier, due to the physical layout of the large intestine.  I would advise NOT forcing depth, but going very very gradually, and if it doesn't want to go further, leave it be for that session.  I think that 6-8" is plenty deep for the person who is not say, Mal [:D] or a porn actor!

{hugs Mal--you know I am only teasing!}




PeonForHer -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 10:09:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Depth is much trickier, due to the physical layout of the large intestine.  I would advise NOT forcing depth, but going very very gradually, and if it doesn't want to go further, leave it be for that session.  I think that 6-8" is plenty deep for the person who is not say, Mal [:D] or a porn actor!

{hugs Mal--you know I am only teasing!}


Perhaps one should practise on one's own beforehand, Lady Hib.  In order to get used to one's dimensional limits, shall we say? 




bratb -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 10:56:22 AM)

Hello,
 
Thank You for the info lol !
 
Respectfully,
girl


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Enema play is way fun.  My former slave had one of those gizmos attached to the shower head...  LOL!  Start slowly, bratb, there's a whole range of enemas, not everything is a high colonic.  [8D]




malloves69 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 1:05:12 PM)

the widest thing i ever had was the bam 14 in strapon and at first getting the head in was a trick [:)] but i can now take the whole thing [:)] going in deeper has to be when my mistress fist me [:)] she says alot of twists and turns up in there and the opening gets smaller until she explores virgin territory [:)] last week her elbow was in and that felt amazing indeed [:)]her wrist and arm is not nearly as thick as the bam is but gawd when she is that deep you sure do feel it thickness or width you feel more fuller ...length is fun too ecspecially being fisted [:)] anyone try the 20 in mr ed horse cock ? wonder what that would feel like allin [:)] some great videos on yuvutu.com ..under strapon of course [:)] in one video there is a guy that can take the whole mr ed while his mistress uses it on him pretty relentlessly [:)] lucky guy indeed to share something like that with his lady ..always wonder how messed up his intestines are though from such length ..have fun and hi Ms Lady  H [:)] mal




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 2:18:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


Perhaps one should practise on one's own beforehand, Lady Hib.  In order to get used to one's dimensional limits, shall we say? 


Oh, honey, you have no idea! [;)]




FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 2:59:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DelilahDeb
Strap-on prep? No one yet has mentioned the gloves and lube!
There is no such thing as too much lube…unless you step on the bottle.
I was going to say, all you need for strap on prep are gloves, very good lube, and the awareness that you and your Ms need to pay attention to your body, and only go as far as it is safe to go.    M




AlexandraLynch -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 7:17:42 PM)

No indeed!

Plenty of stretching and lube.

I will also add that it is a good idea to take more time to stretch than you think you need. Being a lady who likes such things myself, I have occasionally forgotten that the strained tissues involved will take longer to heal up than the endorphins will last, and have wound up sitting down very very carefully for several days, which is not any fun. What doesn't hurt may not hurt because you're high at the moment, not because you really don't hurt.




DavanKael -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/1/2008 10:26:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

rustic experience  - an admirable turn of phrase, Davan. [:D]  I think you're a couple of hundred miles out regarding the prevalence of bidets, however.  They're widespread in France and Spain, so I hear, but not in the UK.  I'm sure I can rustle up the imagination to improvise, though.


Lol, thanks!  :>  Ah, see, here I was thinking they were all over Europe and being envious.  I may miss that bidet more than I miss that bf, lol!  The bf I had with one lived right here in the states but told me he'd gained his appreciation for them in Europe.  There are insertable attachments to shower/faucets that do something similar but I can't sing their praisesor say they suck as I haven't tried either.  My advice: when the opportunity, er, arises, go for it!  :> 
Davan
P.S.--I love Mal's enthusiasm about strap-ons!  :>  Rock on, Mal! 




SthrnCom4t -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/2/2008 12:45:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
The only thing that makes me a little edgy about strap-on playtime is the possible yakkiness.  I wouldn't want 'her' to see that.


Hun, if she's back there with a strap-on, she's probably familiar with the many possibilities. She can also request you do the enema, or give it to you, Herself.

Part of the *yakkiness* is your humiliation....take a deep breath and give it to Her. We Girls tend to get off on taking you to the edge of your comfort level, for our Pleasure.




AStudyInScarlet -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/5/2008 8:55:01 PM)

enemas hmm? so you're saying i shouldn't surprise him in the middle of a scene?




FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/5/2008 9:53:12 PM)

You can absolutely surprise him (without pre enema)  if it's something you like, as long as you don't mind things might get dirty...
I'm with whomever said sex is only dirty if done right. [;)]   M




chaos9071 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/5/2008 10:19:57 PM)

The femdoms who responded to this have collectively turned me on. 




FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/6/2008 12:58:49 AM)

It's a gift Chaos.
Welcome to the boards.[:D]  M




RichieB -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/7/2008 6:25:02 AM)

Here's another site with strapon info.


http://www.take-it-like-a-man.com/index.html


Diane




HunterS -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/13/2008 7:44:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1

It's a gift [:D]  M


Points to the place where I would appreciate your gift.[;)]
Christmas is not that far away.  Now you know what is on my wish list.
 
H.




FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Strap-On Prep (12/13/2008 12:59:14 PM)

[sm=passthelube.gif] 
Somebody's acting like a slut. [8D]    M




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