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manxcat -> RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumber party. (12/5/2008 8:58:39 AM)
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While the idea of being one of the sponsored Dominas at that party appeals, as i am an underemployed student, the majority of responders have said what i would say. If at all, the Dominas should also pay the $100 fee. Speaking of that, how do you choose the Dominas in the first place? Will they be persons already known to you, and if not, how would you screen them? There is as much risk that you will get one that is just looking for a paid vacation, as there is in 'unsuitable' men responding. Will there be a variety of types - redheads, bookish, heavy into bdsm, or less into the physical aspects, etc, or will they all be of similar mold?
I like Peon's idea of an American tour, and would willingly contribute to that. [:D]
I would be willing to bet that there are any number of very nice (suitable) men who would also be candidates for such a trip. There is a man i am currently speaking with who is under-employed at the moment. Why - because he makes me laugh, and has similar interests. While i would like to end up with someone who is financially stable, in the long run i want someone who matches me in other more important areas, not just able to afford a fee. Yes you can fall in love with a rich man as easily as with a poor one, but just as often, or perhaps even more often, when looking at the purse, people end up settling for less than 'perfect' elsewhere.
Another aspect of this get-away is that you will get men who are on their best behaviour. Anyone can do that for a week. Even me ;;-)). Someone could put on a front, but be a psycho. It is in the long run, of screening, and follow-up of getting to know a person, with emails, phone calls, and meetingS that will show who someone really is. Do they follow through, what are they like in the face of adversity, etc. And it will show in the Domina as well, over time. I am a romantic, and can (have) fallen in love at first sight, but with someone local, that has connections to people and places that i am familiar with. I am an excessively tough one to match simply because of my location. I am in the middle of nowhere, with limited job opportunities. Peon, we do have a university ;;-)) Suppose i were to meet someone who would be unemployable where i am? Other will have other limiting factors, such as children, etc.
manxcat
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