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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 5:36:18 AM   
LadyLou


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Status: offline 		 I haven't read all of the responses here, so apologies if I am repeating sentiments.


Some of these guys are going to feel they are entitled to something, because they paid, - that will be a constant and serious problem for the ladies. Coveted guys who have those submissive traits that many femdoms want AND who seek a relationship, are unlikely to pay for it, kind of goes against what they are looking for. So, one is left with the do-me fetishists and bottoms.

Profit margins are likely to be slim, and for someone to go to this kind of trouble, there has to be profit; then it gets into the icky zone of personal relationships and emotions vs business. If one is going to use sex toys, and adult video sponsors, it kind of fills the air of expectation for these guys – and that is what you DON'T need, 100 to 200+ horny guys who have paid hard earned money to be around 10 or so ladies. It's not realistic in my opinion to say to guys, 'hey, have a chance to talk to lovely ladies with an even slimmer chance of finding a relationship – you won't get laid or have a session, but here, have a look at our sponsors porn that we are titillating you with.... and that you'll have to pay even more money to see'.


Then there is the matter of how do you find all of these people. I doubt it would be hard to find the ladies, but to find enough guys to actually go through with it would need a nationwide, or international search. So there is the added expense for these guys in terms of travel and boarding costs on top of their $100 to $500.


One would be dealing with human emotions, and the qualitative issue of chemistry. So, say there is 1 prize man, that the majority of the ladies are lusting after, it turns into cat fight city that would bring down morale, and you've got 199 hurt and dejected guys that nobody wants.


The only guys that I can foresee who will pay a significant sum of money, to be treated like nothing special with a tiny ray of hope and minimal chance of anything positive coming out of it is humiliation junkies.


I think it is a viable idea if it were pros doing it, and the guys would be entertained in some way. Those trying to find those personal D/s relationships many seek here is filled with all kinds of difficulties, I don't think paying for it would make it any easier for the guys who seek those kind of relationships, or the ladies for that matter. I seriously cannot imagine those kind of guys paying for it when they have better odds online or in their BDSM community.


When you boil it down to its core, it's a case of finding 200 or so guys and asking them to pay $100 to $500 plus travel and board, for the a 1 in 10 or a 1 in 20 chance of getting a dommes phone number and going on a date. It could work if there is something else for these guys, otherwise, I don't see it. It's a cool fantasy though :)


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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 5:50:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it is a viable idea if it were pros doing it, and the guys would be entertained in some way.
 
Perhaps the ladies could put on a pantomime.  Cinderella would be good - that's a personal favourite of mine. 

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 5:58:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'll just learn it on my own. How though? And then it came to me. I came across my nephew's toys. And he had one of those alphabet toys where you push a letter of the alphabet and toy says "A for aunt." And so I learned how to say aunt, ball, cat, dog fairly well in a Scottish accent!

No finer example of a perfect rendition of a Brit accent exists than that of Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins, Sea.  Mr Van Dyke's "cockney" is still widely celebrated here decades after people first heard it.  Just rush to your nearest DVD store for a copy and learn to follow his pronunciations meticulously.


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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 6:34:57 AM   
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I think it is a viable idea if it were pros doing it, and the guys would be entertained in some way.
 
Perhaps the ladies could put on a pantomime.  Cinderella would be good - that's a personal favourite of mine. 



PeonForHer, you genius! Yeap! That is it!!!!! That is how this venture would become an all round win-win for EVERYONE! The BDSM version of Cinders. Performed by the 10 Dominas. Hell, I'll pay to see that. Sign me up now!


Instead of Cinders going to the ball.. she goes to the local dungeon to tie up and whip her Prince.


Forget the glass slipper malarchy, lets turn this on its head for the modern era – she saves him. The Prince leaves his strap-on at the dungeon, and Cinders 'rides' through town and country to find the perfect fit.


Uhh, yeah. Got a lil carried away, but still, can someone sign me up please?

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 7:09:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHerNo finer example of a perfect rendition of a Brit accent exists than that of Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins, Sea.  Mr Van Dyke's "cockney" is still widely celebrated here decades after people first heard it.  Just rush to your nearest DVD store for a copy and learn to follow his pronunciations meticulously.


Excellent! This suggestion I don't even have to write down. It will remain easily enough in my memory. Thanks ;-)

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 7:11:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyLou
Forget the glass slipper malarchy, lets turn this on its head for the modern era – she saves him. The Prince leaves his strap-on at the dungeon, and Cinders 'rides' through town and country to find the perfect fit.


Very creative! But no glass slipper?

I watched Ever After (the Cinderella story with Drew Barrymore) looking forward to a close up when the slipper was placed on her foot and she had to be wearing that thick gray sock that hid her feet. :(

Maybe we can still find a way to keep the glass slipper in there. What if after finding the perfect fit she goes at it with so much passion that one of her slipper comes off. Upon finishing she says, now put my slipper on and then go get me a cigarette.

;-)

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 8:13:02 AM   
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Forget the glass slipper malarchy, lets turn this on its head for the modern era – she saves him. The Prince leaves his strap-on at the dungeon, and Cinders 'rides' through town and country to find the perfect fit.


Very creative! But no glass slipper?

I watched Ever After (the Cinderella story with Drew Barrymore) looking forward to a close up when the slipper was placed on her foot and she had to be wearing that thick gray sock that hid her feet. :(

Maybe we can still find a way to keep the glass slipper in there. What if after finding the perfect fit she goes at it with so much passion that one of her slipper comes off. Upon finishing she says, now put my slipper on and then go get me a cigarette.

;-)

Cheers,

Sea





Fantastic Undergroundsea, I love it. James Cameron eat your heart out. How about, after all that passionate jiggery-pokery, and the said glass slipper falling off, she gets a well earned foot rub before the placing of that slipper back on? I mean, all that tracking through town and country to find the perfect fit takes it out of a girls feet. Lol.


I hereby declare Undergroundsea the director of the forthcoming production of... Cinderella And Her Magic Strap-on. There's now a few spots for producer and writer, if anyones interested? ;)



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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 8:19:25 AM   
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I'll just learn it on my own. How though? And then it came to me. I came across my nephew's toys. And he had one of those alphabet toys where you push a letter of the alphabet and toy says "A for aunt." And so I learned how to say aunt, ball, cat, dog fairly well in a Scottish accent!

No finer example of a perfect rendition of a Brit accent exists than that of Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins, Sea.  Mr Van Dyke's "cockney" is still widely celebrated here decades after people first heard it.  Just rush to your nearest DVD store for a copy and learn to follow his pronunciations meticulously.



MMMM, nothing like a Docklands accent to attract the chicks.  <snort>

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 8:58:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		While the idea of being one of the sponsored Dominas at that party appeals, as i am an underemployed student, the majority of responders have said what i would say.  If at all, the Dominas should also pay the $100 fee.  Speaking of that, how do you choose the Dominas in the first place?  Will they be persons already known to you, and if not, how would you screen them?  There is as much risk that you will get one that is just looking for a paid vacation, as there is in 'unsuitable' men responding. Will there be a variety of types - redheads, bookish, heavy into bdsm, or less into the physical aspects, etc, or will they all be of similar mold?   
I like Peon's idea of an American tour, and would willingly contribute to that.
I would be willing to bet that there are any number of very nice (suitable) men who would also be candidates for such a trip.  There is a man i am currently speaking with who is under-employed at the moment.  Why - because he makes me laugh, and has similar interests.  While i would like to end up with someone who is financially stable, in the long run i want someone who matches me in other more important areas, not just able to afford a fee.  Yes you can fall in love with a rich man as easily as with a poor one, but just as often, or perhaps even more often, when looking at the purse, people end up settling for less than 'perfect' elsewhere. 
Another aspect of this get-away is that you will get men who are on their best behaviour.  Anyone can do that for a week.  Even me ;;-)).  Someone could put on a front, but be a psycho.  It is in the long run, of screening, and follow-up of getting to know a person, with emails, phone calls, and meetingS that will show who someone really is.   Do they follow through, what are they like in the face of adversity, etc.  And it will show in the Domina as well, over time.  I am a romantic, and can (have) fallen in love at first sight, but with someone local, that has connections to people and places that i am familiar with.   I am an excessively tough one to match simply because of my location.  I am in the middle of nowhere, with limited job opportunities.  Peon, we do have a university ;;-))  Suppose i were to meet someone who would be unemployable where i am?  Other will have other limiting factors, such as children, etc. 

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:15:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHerNo finer example of a perfect rendition of a Brit accent exists than that of Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins, Sea.  Mr Van Dyke's "cockney" is still widely celebrated here decades after people first heard it.  Just rush to your nearest DVD store for a copy and learn to follow his pronunciations meticulously.


Excellent! This suggestion I don't even have to write down. It will remain easily enough in my memory. Thanks ;-)

Cheers,

Sea


Hmm.  I feel like this could be one of my jokes that might go dangerously wrong.  

Please don't ever try to emulate Dick Van Dyke's accent in Mary Poppins, Sea.  Speak a few sentences in any East End pub like him and you'd get "a smack in the mahf fer bein' a bladdy septic 'ooze tyking the fackin piss, myte."

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:19:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		Nobody speaks like Dick Van Dyke in the Docklands nor, indeed, anywhere else in the world (except perhaps in Australian lunatic asylums), Lady Hib.  Besides which, there aren't any "chicks" in the Docklands - only "birds" or "totty".

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:31:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		PeonForHer, you genius! Yeap! That is it!!!!! That is how this venture would become an all round win-win for EVERYONE! The BDSM version of Cinders. Performed by the 10 Dominas. Hell, I'll pay to see that. Sign me up now
 
Well, actually, I was thinking of a completely traditional version, LadyLou.  I do feel that the purity of some classic fairy tales should remain unbesmirched by disgusting modern-day overtones *sniff*. 

However, I do foresee a petite problemette: which two of the ten ladies involved are going to volunteer to play the Ugly Sisters?

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:37:52 AM   
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Speak a few sentences in any East End pub like him and you'd get "a smack in the mahf fer bein' a bladdy septic 'ooze tyking the fackin piss, myte."


Even more excellent! Folks sing about West End girls but it seems I should head to East End instead. Say, can you recommend a pub which is frequented by mostly birds so I can try that Dick Van Dyke accent?

;-)

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However, I do foresee a petite problemette: which two of the ten ladies involved are going to volunteer to play the Ugly Sisters?


Were they ugly? I don't even remember that. All I remember is that they were cruel to her ;-)

Cheers

Sea

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:43:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ugly and had big feet; one cut off a toe to fit the shoe, and the other her heel.


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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:43:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I like Peon's idea of an American tour, and would willingly contribute to that.   Er . . . .  that's not quite what I had in mind, Manxy.  I'm a good boy, I am.

I tell you, a dream come true: to get to the US and hire/buy one of those giant Harley Ds to tour as much of it as I could in, say, six months, visiting friends in all the relevant states.  Oh god, that'd be great.  I'm a dab hand at DIY - including masonry, plumbing and electrics, so I could pay for my keep.  I know at least one fine lady whose new home needs fixing up.

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:44:04 AM   
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Nobody speaks like Dick Van Dyke in the Docklands nor, indeed, anywhere else in the world (except perhaps in Australian lunatic asylums), Lady Hib.  Besides which, there aren't any "chicks" in the Docklands - only "birds" or "totty".


Hmph.  Sassmonkey.  You KNOW what I meant.

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:46:08 AM   
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Status: offline 		According to Disney, they were ugly, which was supposed to be the reason they were so mean to her in the first place.

As for who would volunteer to play the ugly part, feel free to sign Me up.  Can we change the story line just a bit so there's some kind of beating for Cinderella when she doesn't do all of the chores on time?  I couldn't care less about getting the prince in the end.  I have one of My own. 


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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:46:31 AM   
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had big feet; one cut off a toe to fit the shoe, and the other her heel.


:O

How can they allow such sacrilege and violence in children's stories?!

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 9:57:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		Even more excellent! Folks sing about West End girls but it seems I should head to East End instead. Say, can you recommend a pub which is frequented by mostly birds so I can try that Dick Van Dyke accent?

Oh well, if you're determined to go down that route, then you should make a beeline for the Blind Beggar on the Whitechapel Road.  That's where the Kray Twins shot dead Jack the Hat McVitie and the bullet-holes are lovingly preserved.  The birds in there wear white stilettos, mini skirts even in mid-winter, and carry knuckle-dusters.  It's a class joint, Sea: highly recommended.

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RE: Femdom "Bachelorrette" - big femdom slumb... - 12/5/2008 10:00:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		Most of them were very violent and scary. Especially Anderson and Grimm Brothers.  The witch eating little children. 

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