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DesFIP -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/4/2008 6:17:00 PM)
A safe gesture when I'm gagged. I open and close my fists. If I'm doing just one slowly then he knows that wrist is going numb. If it's both quickly then he removes the gag so I can tell him what's wrong. But if I've hit an emotional trigger, i can't talk. Then he can tell from my body language that there's a problem. I go rigid, hunch my shoulders, try to huddle inside of my own arms, generally try to hide. It's pretty obvious.

phoenix1heather -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/4/2008 6:25:52 PM)
I like simple with my subs and I always have, so the safeword in our house is safeword. I we're using a gag, I have her hold a bell in her hand she can either ring or drop.

CollaredChicklet -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/4/2008 6:33:13 PM)
... :P Master and I use "Aardvark". his theory is that no matter what, he's bound to lose all sexual arousal after hearing that.. :P "you know your kids have inherited your kink when .... they dont play twister, because they refuse to say "red"." hahaha!! :D

BKSir -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/4/2008 7:12:06 PM)
coleslaw There's only one thing on earth that I will, as they say in professional eating circles, 'have a reversal' if I even see, and that's it, right there. So yeah, if we're in the middle of something, and I hear "Coleslaw", that's an instant stopper, because I flinch and shudder in a bad way and everything just stops, period.

Araven -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/4/2008 10:45:15 PM)
We don't have a safeword, but we do have a hand squeeze method. She'll squeeze my hand twice, and i'll return the squeeze twice. We use this even in normal everyday situtations just to see how the other is feeling too :).

thebossnbliss -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/4/2008 10:50:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteveAndJaz My pin number! Not that I would ever give it because Im one stubborn bitch! lol i like that. mine is blissy* just seemed the simplest at the time. if i cannot talk i tap, but Sir knows mostly when im pushed without me saying.[;)] blissy

PrincessJ77 -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/5/2008 5:28:32 PM)
Stop it you fucking bastard, that was my nipple bouncing away.....

AStudyInScarlet -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/5/2008 8:32:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessJ77 Stop it you fucking bastard, that was my nipple bouncing away..... oh come on, that's just talking dirty to some!

iwearpanties -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/6/2008 2:37:39 AM)
for my self ive never had one but wonders if i would ever use a safe word if given one

thebossnbliss -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/6/2008 2:46:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessJ77 Stop it you fucking bastard, that was my nipple bouncing away..... Super glue? comes in handy for allsorts of lil mishaps. [:D] blissy

avinyl -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/6/2008 2:53:00 AM)
No. Don't. Stop. Never had to use them; I've only come close during new things (different position for suspension, etc.), cos we're not really into air quotes nonconsensual scenes, and he can usually tell when I've crossed over into "this is not okay" territory.

Lynnxz -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/6/2008 8:21:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessJ77 Stop it you fucking bastard, that was my nipple bouncing away..... Lmfao!

stella41b -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/8/2008 4:20:19 AM)
Ouch! I dunno, I just liked its effect asa safeword.

sirsholly -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/8/2008 5:19:40 AM)
my safeword is my name...first and middle. I think he suggested it as a way not to be insulted. I mean...bellowing "Holly Ann, you somnabitch!!" isn't something i really want heard.

mystickoolaid -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/8/2008 5:41:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CollaredChicklet ... :P Master and I use "Aardvark". his theory is that no matter what, he's bound to lose all sexual arousal after hearing that.. :P "you know your kids have inherited your kink when .... they dont play twister, because they refuse to say "red"." hahaha!! :D My bf and I use rutabaga for the same (non-erotic) reason, and you know you aren't going to accidentally say it when you are caught up in the moment. :P

laura2161 -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/8/2008 3:50:48 PM)
My safeword is 'safeword'.

allthatjaz -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/9/2008 7:24:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexisubi quote: ORIGINAL: SteveAndJaz My pin number! Not that I would ever give it because Im one stubborn bitch! i can see it now you shout your pin number and s/he goes 'so you would like to make a withdraw?' Lol If I ever get his pin number I will be going to make the withdrawal!. We like interrogation and it goes something like this 'we can do this the hard way or we can do this the easy way... Pin number?'

yumibarb -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/20/2008 3:40:29 PM)
My word is STOP and we also use signals = three short taps!

TheHeretic -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/20/2008 4:32:53 PM)
Our official, nothing-bad-can-ever-happen-because-we-have-one, safeword is "cramp." I've also been known to use, "That's about enough of THAT." For us, simple communication works best.

BondageBarbieX -> RE: what is your safeword? (12/28/2008 2:23:10 AM)
Ouch

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