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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 7:40:42 PM

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some believe that it can cause jaw problems and result in a concussion.

Um, we're talking about "slapping"; not boxing.

C'mon. If it were boxing she wouldn't be machine-wired to the workbench and I'd have a pair of those big silly gloves on.

And what's with all the hatin' on facial bruises in this thread? You know that crooked little smile that just says: "More please" when the words won't even come any more? And that crooked-er one that just says: "Thank you thank you" ?

They're never more endearing than when they're shining through a black eye and a nice puffy split lip. Now can you tell me you wouldn't adore getting dolled up and taken out to a swanky restaurant accesorized like that?

Not to mention the extra frisson for the demoiselle offering, well, delivering oral sex with a lip like that.

Dangerous they say. Sigh. Sometimes it seems as though the romance is just draining right out of this old world.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:01:17 PM

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No one had ever slapped me in the face before, yes I have been punched but that was a very long time ago. The first time it was done(face slap) I was too stunned to say anything, well I think a moan came out *g* it was erotic, startling and got my undivided attention, there was not a single negative emotion attached to it. Hmmmm has anyone ever told You what strong hands You have Knight *g*

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:14:54 PM

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Never, ever ! ! That would just go against my grain and the idea of leaving a mark on her face would bother me. I'd much rather slap her ass........

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 8:19:35 PM

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Face slapping is a hard limit for both Master and me. I feel it is degrading and disrespectful. Slap me on the butt all you like but leave my face alone. To me it feels abusive as opposed to a turn on.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/26/2005 9:11:19 PM

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face slapping has it's own place - can be very erotic intense and soul stirring - a prelude for what is to follow

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This is one of my favourite activities but in my experience it's hard to find a Top who is (a) willing to do it and (b) enjoys it as much as I do. So mostly, I go without LOL

I have to agree, I love face slapping and find it very erotic. Before me, my Master had never slapped anyone, but he saw a need to push his own limits in O/our relationship.

I believe Sir has come to enjoy the action and reaction as much as I have.

Face slapping in O/our relationship is used in two forms and i do know the difference in each.

One, is the sensual erotic, pain/pleasure. The other is to get my attention quickly, both very effective in each purpose.

One thing i have learned is NOT to ask for it, even though i crave it at times, because whew, i sure will get it! To the moon alice...To the moon...LOL

The element of surprise makes it much more rewarding for me.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 1:36:34 AM

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you enjoy slapping your subs or bottoms in the face as a form of humiliation & pain? Subs & bottoms do you enjoy this activity or is it a hard limit for you?

Face slapping is acceptable by the general populance here. Just don't punch the junk.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 2:22:22 AM

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Buzzword....shock. But I've also known a sub who wanted to be slapped repeatedly. She would kneel and offer her face to me over and over until I tired of slapping her. That was stimulating as all get out.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 7:06:15 AM

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I feel it is degrading and disrespectful.

You say that like it's a bad thing. ;-)

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 7:30:30 AM

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Face slapping is acceptable by the general populance here. Just don't punch the junk.

That is even better than being slapped in the face..almost as good as being kicked there..

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 7:35:15 AM

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And what's with all the hatin' on facial bruises in this thread?

I just don't like bruises on the face, too many explanations for my daughter...which I don't think she is ready to hear yet.

/shrug

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 8:12:18 AM

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It's not the ACT that matters- it's how the person EXPERIENCES the act.

This plus coupled with Irish's real life day to day descriptive face slapping made my lightbulb come on...

Thank you
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Any time hun lol

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 8:33:08 AM

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Face slapping is acceptable by the general populance here. Just don't punch the junk.

That is even better than being slapped in the face..almost as good as being kicked there..

So romance has not utterly faded from the realms of man.

Such indeed is what I am making reference to, B.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 8:38:10 AM

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And what's with all the hatin' on facial bruises in this thread?

I just don't like bruises on the face, too many explanations for my daughter...which I don't think she is ready to hear yet.

/shrug

Some folks may also not want to deal with questions at work or from friends and family. Or the police.... we live in a world (thankfully I think) that takes questions about domestic violence and abuse relatively seriously. I, for one, don't want someone reporting me to the police because Fox's face is bruised nor do I want his co-workers to ask him questions or his boss to assume negative things about him.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 8:49:30 AM

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As mentioned by TammyJo, there are just too many in the outside world who would question seeing a face beaten to a bruised, and swollen pulp :) That's not to say that you can't go away for a week or two, get your kicks, let the bruises and cuts fade, and then come back.

There were times that we would go away for a couple weeks, and at those times, nothing was off limits. But it was always with the understanding that once back home, there could be no bruises. And this was something that he set; I just continue to carry the same limit with me to this day.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 9:03:29 AM

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I, for one, don't want someone reporting me to the police because Fox's face is bruised nor do I want his co-workers to ask him questions or his boss to assume negative things about him.

I was in a heavy S&M relationship for 2 years and both of us are professionals living in the white picket fence world. He (the Dom) would tell me no one would suspect the bruises being associated with S&M or violence. That was really hard for me to believe, but actually he was right. No one ever questioned the occasional black-eye or bruises, which still blows my mind to this day. Was it their denial or belief that i wouldnt be involved in such?

However, the doctor didnt belive once that a basketball hit me. He asked did the ball bounce all down my body? (big smile)

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 9:10:26 AM

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I ran into the door.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 9:11:06 AM

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However, the doctor didnt belive once that a basketball hit me. He asked did the ball bounce all down my body? (big smile)

LOL that's funny

Actually, my family ( with the exception of my daughter ) Knows everything there is to know about me, so them seeing bruises is no big deal to me. My daughter on the other hand, I think she is just not ready yet to understand and accept that her mom likes to be beaten.

Now there are those at work who know...and to tell the truth, I could care less what they think if I was to walk in with my face bruised.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 9:30:38 AM

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i love it.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 1:22:59 PM

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At the right moment, face slapping is amazingly arousing.

At the wrong moment, it is a mood killer deluxe.

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RE: Face slapping - 12/27/2005 1:50:19 PM

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I, for one, don't want someone reporting me to the police because Fox's face is bruised nor do I want his co-workers to ask him questions or his boss to assume negative things about him.

I was in a heavy S&M relationship for 2 years and both of us are professionals living in the white picket fence world. He (the Dom) would tell me no one would suspect the bruises being associated with S&M or violence. That was really hard for me to believe, but actually he was right. No one ever questioned the occasional black-eye or bruises, which still blows my mind to this day. Was it their denial or belief that i wouldnt be involved in such?

However, the doctor didnt belive once that a basketball hit me. He asked did the ball bounce all down my body? (big smile)

BTs willing

All three states I have lived in since I became a legal adult have laws requiring that a doctor report any bruises that he/she thinks is suspicious. Being upfront with your doctor about your kink can really cure that problem unless, of course, he/she thinks that kink is plain old abuse.

My freedom and my family are not something I am comfortable risking by having visible marks on my property. I also would be very very upset if Fox had a mark and lied about how he got -- thus no marks that are visible to anyone other than me and him.

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