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krayziebones -> Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 4:33:00 AM)

I don't mean to toot my horn but i'm pretty well endowed....And i'm wondering if that plays a factor in a mistresses pleasure during a bdsm session or if you prefer them to have a smaller one.



CFslaves2 -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 4:44:59 AM)

(( microwaving the pop corn ))

well, this matter, i'd imagine, would depend on the lady's favorite past times... and that will vary from lady to lady.
it might be hard to keep a straight face belittling a large penis, or a great thrill.
some don't like penises at all, and in turn, won't be interested.
and some won't care one way or the other, and might have a strap-on bigger than you.

and there's my early morning two cents- fran


edited to say- i have spoke with many a wonderful mistress here, and know that they have greater criteria for their subs than the dementions of gentilia.



GreeneGoddess -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 5:22:53 AM)

Genitalia size doesn't even make my top 50 list of things I look for in a potential sub.   Well, other than the fact that someone who is obsessed with their genitalia size tends to disqualify themselves.



MsStarlett -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 5:43:35 AM)

That doesn't actually have anything to do with it.  I don't tell a man to drop his pants before I agree to a date, 'nilla or otherwise.  Considering that I don't have sex with subs (except for my Best Boy), that's not an issue.  Although, I've had a couple that severely tempted me.  I do like a sub with an exaggerated flange to the head of the penis.  It's so much more fun to put clothes pins on it.



BondageBarbieX -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 5:52:44 AM)

I am not a Mistress... but I like them big and the bigger the better [:)]



LaTigresse -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 6:38:20 AM)

I prefer they not have one at all.



thetammyjo -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 7:46:58 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: krayziebones

I don't mean to toot my horn but i'm pretty well endowed....And i'm wondering if that plays a factor in a mistresses pleasure during a bdsm session or if you prefer them to have a smaller one.


Your title just offers two options: Big or Small

How about reality? Average size. There is a reason why the average size penis is it's size and I think focusing on extremes is getting lost in things that are honestly not important in my household.

What is going on in your head and heart is far more important than genitals.

Of course I'm not doing "sessions" I'm living my life here so that may color my opinions.



CarrieO -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 7:50:04 AM)

It has been my experience that men, be they sub, dom or 'nilla, who feel the need to "toot" a horn about the size of their penis generally do so because of a lack of substance elsewhere.
 
What I do enjoy is showing a "well endowed" man just how little, pun intended, his "horn" truly matters in the grand scheme of play.
 
 



Lockit -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 7:58:58 AM)

I love mine to have a brain... the rest can be worked with!  The size really doesn't mean ability and that counts far more anyway! lol



CatdeMedici -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:17:14 AM)

My  thoughts are:
 
Objects tend to appear larger in the mirror
 
Perception is reality and reality is an important concept
 
 
 
 



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:21:15 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: krayziebones

I don't mean to toot my horn but i'm pretty well endowed....And i'm wondering if that plays a factor in a mistresses pleasure during a bdsm session or if you prefer them to have a smaller one.


Oh look. Its another "do me" sub.



NovelApproach -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:26:30 AM)

Size isn't exactly something I look for, but one that "fits" is a plus.  Being that I'm Asian, I need an Asian-sized cock... so, a bit on the smaller side.

Besides, men who *think* they're large, (regardless of whether they are or not) are absolute rubbish in bed. 



RichieB -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:36:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: NovelApproach

Besides, men who *think* they're large, (regardless of whether they are or not) are absolute rubbish in bed. 



I argee 100%....................


Diane



chezzy71 -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:38:57 AM)

i can't help but think what our coaches used to say to us in football practice..the bigger they are,the harder they fall.



VampiresLair -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:43:34 AM)

If the personality doesnt make me forget about the endowment... they they could be hung like a bull or smurf and I wont want anything to do with them.
It isnt the size of the tool after all, its how well you read the instruction manual.

DV



LadyPact -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:51:52 AM)

Thank you for adding that part, NA, because there's a lot of truth in that.

Penis size is so far down on the list for Me that I wouldn't even pretend to know where it is on the list.  I can't imagine basing a dynamic on what size genitalia someone happened to be born with.  There are so many things of substance that are so much more important.



chiaThePet -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 8:52:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: krayziebones

I don't mean to toot my horn but i'm pretty well endowed...


Ya think?

My predicament stems from the fact that I possess a very large penis.

A simple jaunt into the public sector entails an ensemble of proper planning
that I might mingle among them without the stares, laughter and taunts most
often reserved for those with rhinestone studded hip huggers, as they sashay
with sweatered chihuahua on sequined leash. Oh the humanity.

Most times I mask my curse by wrapping my penis in an upward spiral around
my torso, a quick loop around one shoulder with the remainder lain across the
upper back coming to rest on the opposite shoulder. Cumbersome, but viable.

A surprising but welcome benefit of this particular masquerade, is the appearance
of a much larger and more developed physique. Though it can be a double-edged
sword as I garner smiles and winks from total strangers and passersby. This can
become a predicament when a rather attractive member of tellable Dominance
raises that commanding eyebrow arch of "come hither oh submissive one".

The immediate effect of sudden attraction and surrender pulses quickly to my
loins and the ensuing hulk-like transformation rises up from my groin, racing
unbridled as trembling threads tear at weakened seams. Bulging buttons strain
against the deafening screams of breathless, resistant fabric. And there, there
upon the innocent shoulders of a man with a shuddering secret, lies the beast.

Oh yes, it is how your mind reflects it. I become the bearer of, shoulder pads.
That much maligned fashion faux pas which accompained the high hair of the
eighties. Nary a care, except "are they square"? And she was, a maneater.

For those of you too young to remember.............don't.

There it is, the bane of my existence, an organ of embarrassment. Yet lovingly
and sweetly paralleled with those whom find shoulder pads quite endearing.
And somehow nothing else really matters, because just like Bruce was then,
I'm still dancing in the dark.

chia* (the pet)



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 9:11:33 AM)

I prefer a big heart and a big brain, really. 

What, didn't you know that's what I meant when I said I was a size queen? [:D]



Lashra -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 9:22:25 AM)

As long as they function as they are supposed too I am happy.

~Lashra



beeble -> RE: Mistresses, Do You Prefer Your Sub To Have A Big Penis Or A Small One? (1/2/2009 9:27:49 AM)

quote:

chiaThePet wrote:
My predicament stems from the fact that I possess a very large penis.

Most times I mask my curse by wrapping my penis in an upward spiral around
my torso, a quick loop around one shoulder with the remainder lain across the
upper back coming to rest on the opposite shoulder. Cumbersome, but viable.

chia, you seem to be confusing your penis and your Sousaphone.  Again.  The same mistake that got you thrown out of marching band, remember?

beeble.



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