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raiken -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 12:29:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I realized the problem was that I was giving myself in that way and it was not being returned. The other person was not opening themselves and being a conduit and allowing the circuit to be completed. The sex was good, the act was good. But the fulfillment of the sacred energy was blocked. For me I think this means that I can have anonymous sex again more fulfilled, knowing not to EXPECT that sort of energy, and it means I can have sacred sex more often knowing I can find partners who can also become aware of what’s going on and complete the circuit.



LA Once again...bravo!  Being able to state this distinction so clearly and understand it, is a most excellent way and means of enjoying the fullness of human sexuality, and sexual activity.  i am a slut in the truest sense of what you have described here.  A happy slut to be exact! *grin  It is truly the intention behind the use of any name or group of words, that can either lift one up or tear one down.  The tongue being a double edged sword, bears witness.




WhipTheHip -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 12:43:53 PM)

What about scarred sluts and scared sluts?   Won't those
feel left out?




CreativeDominant -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 5:50:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Perception is a funny thing ain't it; CD?
I guess it's the angry it turns on over there.

You say sloth, I say slut...................

LOLOL, 

Ron


You're right...it IS a funny thing.  Of course, given that all we male dominants are concerned with is controlling the sexuality of our female submissives, what else could we be but ....~chokes~...sluts?




Amaros -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 6:54:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

What about men being  sacred sluts?  You make it sound like for women it is a good thing. When a man is like that you say he can't keep his dick in his pants.


Yeah, what about that? Double standard, huh, huh?

Anyway, yeah, that's me, an erotic Anchorite, a sacred slut - I can really identify with LA's OP, and although the thread has degenerated slightly into vernacular interpretations of sluttiness, the luscious Albatross was talking about something like the old Vulcan mind meld - I sense it too, but have only ever had flashes of it, maybe she turns around while I'm pounding that ass and flashes me a shit eating grin or something, but then it shifts again, just out of reach like a thought at the fringes of your mind that you can't quite grasp or illuminate - the women weren't as slutty as I am maybe, I dunno.


I think it probobly it has something to do with trust, total trust, like you're the same person, and the bodies are just dancing.

The fate of humans, perhaps, in an existential universe. I think the real lesson of sainthood is, if you're going to give your soul, don't expect anything in return.




gypsygrl -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 7:04:50 PM)

I love this thread.  Often I hear the phrase, "just sex" as in s/he is just in it for the sex.  And, I'm like, huh?  I don't get the problem.  To me, there's no such thing as just sex.  Even the most impulsive casual meet up in a hotel room between near strangers has its magic, and to feel that magic is one of the true blessings in life.

And, yes, I'm a slut.  Just don't tell my mamma, k?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 8:12:03 PM)

I'm thrilled this thread is bringing some good thoughts and feelings to people now!  Thank you so much!




Sensualips -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 9:13:26 PM)

It has been interesting rereading this, and my own orginal response, ten months later.

It seems like now I understand (grok?) some of Tross thoughts better. 

Recently I have started playing with a couple that is into "energy play."  I asked a lot about what they meant by that the first time she used that phrase with me.  The woman is involved with reiki and incorporates those techniques and "life force energy" channeling or exchanging in sex play.  I am STILL not very in touch with my spiritial side, but I can physically feel differences when we play together as opposed to most other times.  (Probably doesn't hurt she is way cute, skilled, and we have a little crush on each other.)  Afterwards I am always left feeling energized and relaxed and just plain good. It is just...different.

I have been doing a little reading on reiki as a result.




ExSteelAgain -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/3/2006 11:08:23 PM)

It scared me when I saw my old screenname and icon. I thought I was having flashbacks or something.

Sexual energy is coded into our DNA. We are salmon swimming upstream knowing this is going to hurt, but we have to do it. From the earliest times, people have taken enormous risks and even started wars to find their sexual fulfillment. Every civilization has been centered on controlling sexual activity in some manner that steers it to be used in ways that benefits those in power.

Being promiscuous is only rejecting artificial controls and being true to our inherent nature. Of course, let a slave of mine use this argument and she is in big trouble. Heh.   




mons -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/4/2006 1:35:23 AM)

greetings lucky A
 
what in the world are you speaking of i do understand the term slut i remember as a younger women at 18 i learn the term be a slut or whore in the bedroom but always be a good damn cook and housewife outside of bedroom.  but you taking slut in a term as it is a divine spirit or holy thing to pray to, now i maybe wrong but i do not think so. you need to watch out for these classes that teach you a religion about whoredom and slut praying it sound very strange.
 
now i am a domme and i see no way would i ever call myself a slut whore tramp what ever some are doing it is not me but you seem to have found a class that teaches you how a lsut is something so didivne it is spirtal i am a christian and no way would i pray to the word slut you i think have lose something and are looking for it throught this class please vbe carefully cult start out like this
 
mons ( lucky A i gave always written to you with respect and honor do not get mad at my reply i sense thing very strongly as you know take care and be well )




Sensualips -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/4/2006 8:13:28 AM)

I don't think this thread is about religion -- that is a narrow interpretation of the word "sacred."  It is more about energy and spiritiality and embracing yourself and recognizing the potential of your interactions with others.

I am not sure where you got the idea of praying to the word slut from this thread.  Still, I am not sure it is much different than praying to the word Jesus or Divine Being or Allah or a particular saint or goddess or demon.  It is all words, symbolic and representative of a belief system IMO.  Prayer itself is done for many reasons - to express adoration, to confess a transgression, to ask for guidance, to offer thanks, or to make supplication. It is used to draw strength, to find peace, and so on. In many ways I could conceive of "slut-praying." 

Although I still do not see that as the intent or a part of the original thread.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/4/2006 8:40:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mons


greetings lucky A

what in the world are you speaking of i do understand the term slut i remember as a younger women at 18 i learn the term be a slut or whore in the bedroom but always be a good damn cook and housewife outside of bedroom.  but you taking slut in a term as it is a divine spirit or holy thing to pray to, now i maybe wrong but i do not think so. you need to watch out for these classes that teach you a religion about whoredom and slut praying it sound very strange.

You seem to be confused.  I didn’t go to a class and get taught these things, I wasn’t brainwashed.

It’s much more like I’ve ALWAYS been a slut and ALWAYS been attempting to use my sexuality in this sacred way, and the class helped to solidify and clarify those ideas and experiences within me.

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now i am a domme and i see no way would i ever call myself a slut whore tramp what ever some are doing it is not me but you seem to have found a class that teaches you how a lsut is something so didivne it is spirtal i am a christian and no way would i pray to the word slut you i think have lose something and are looking for it throught this class please vbe carefully cult start out like this

The class did not teach me anything.  I had these feelings before I went- that’s WHY I chose to go to that class when I could have gone to a class on suspension, or switching or knife play or polyamory. 

People giving of themselves IS a divine and sacred act.  I’m simply including giving sexually as well.




Iskander -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/4/2006 8:48:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mons

greetings lucky A
 
what in the world are you speaking of i do understand the term slut i remember as a younger women at 18 i learn the term be a slut or whore in the bedroom but always be a good damn cook and housewife outside of bedroom.  but you taking slut in a term as it is a divine spirit or holy thing to pray to, now i maybe wrong but i do not think so. you need to watch out for these classes that teach you a religion about whoredom and slut praying it sound very strange.
 
now i am a domme and i see no way would i ever call myself a slut whore tramp what ever some are doing it is not me but you seem to have found a class that teaches you how a lsut is something so didivne it is spirtal i am a christian and no way would i pray to the word slut you i think have lose something and are looking for it throught this class please vbe carefully cult start out like this
 
mons ( lucky A i gave always written to you with respect and honor do not get mad at my reply i sense thing very strongly as you know take care and be well )


My body is my temple... All bodies are temples... All life is sacred.. Pleasure is the ultimate gift we can receive and give... So really sacred slut is not a bad thing.. It isn't about praying to a 'sacred slut', it's simply doing what Jesus did, accepting the slut for what she really was, another being, another human...

Iskander...






gypsylee -> RE: Sacred Slut (10/4/2006 9:08:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I'm thrilled this thread is bringing some good thoughts and feelings to people now!  Thank you so much!


yeah. a well-written, intelligent post LA. danke. 




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