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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:36:31 PM   
oceanwynds


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

it does not mean that a person does not care...he just caught the right subbie at the right time. he wanted the power and I REFUSED TO GIVE HIM THE POWER. Because I LOVE ME MORE!!!!


Bull.

You have no respect for your Dom or yourself, and you are selling yourself a bag of bull. Go for it dear, because it's one way to learn you really arent as great as you think you are.

blessed be
oceanwynds

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:39:41 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Status: offline 		Bull.

You have no respect for your Dom or yourself, and you are selling yourself a bag of bull. Go for it dear, because it's one way to learn you really arent as great as you think you are.

blessed be
oceanwynds

It is just a question ......why are you attacking???

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:40:42 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Bull.

You have no respect for your Dom or yourself, and you are selling yourself a bag of bull. Go for it dear, because it's one way to learn you really arent as great as you think you are.

blessed be
oceanwynds

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:41:08 PM   
oceanwynds


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nay not worth my effort to even explain to you. Have fun with your ego.

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oceanwynds

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:42:22 PM   
Carmeldelight


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quote:

ORIGINAL: oceanwynds
Bull.

You have no respect for your Dom or yourself, and you are selling yourself a bag of bull. Go for it dear, because it's one way to learn you really arent as great as you think you are.

blessed be
oceanwynds
quote:

ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

it does not mean that a person does not care...he just caught the right subbie at the right time. he wanted the power and I REFUSED TO GIVE HIM THE POWER. Because I LOVE ME MORE!!!!


Bull.

You have no respect for your Dom or yourself, and you are selling yourself a bag of bull. Go for it dear, because it's one way to learn you really arent as great as you think you are.

blessed be
oceanwynds

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:42:27 PM   
starshineowned


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Some doms like to humiliate their subbie/slaves, and make them cry. I had an experienced with a dom where as when he started to try to put me down and I rebelled and turned the tables on the dom, he started to cry. So tell me subbies/slaves how would you handle this matter. Could you still respect your dom? How would this reflect on your relationship?


Think the most important question here is: Can you still respect this Dom? The words and jest of your posts in trying to explain suggest that you can't and actually enjoyed the fact that you humiliate him.

If it wasn't "your Dom" as in a working relationship together..then yes I'd probably feel bad that I caused that reaction in him in an attempt to express that humiliating me did not go over well but I'd never consider trying to on a deliberate basis.

As far as myself with Master in a live in M/s dynamic the thought of trying to cause that ..well it's just not even fathomable..much less I doubt it's even doable with him. I probably could indirectely embarass him with my behavior at some point but never on an intentional note. I won't even bother trying to express what causing the latter would do to me inside.

starshine


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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:44:36 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Status: offline 		i never said i was great but thank you. why am i selling my self short?

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:45:54 PM   
Carmeldelight


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Think the most important question here is: Can you still respect this Dom? The words and jest of your posts in trying to explain suggest that you can't and actually enjoyed the fact that you humiliate him.

If it wasn't "your Dom" as in a working relationship together..then yes I'd probably feel bad that I caused that reaction in him in an attempt to express that humiliating me did not go over well but I'd never consider trying to on a deliberate basis.

As far as myself with Master in a live in M/s dynamic the thought of trying to cause that ..well it's just not even fathomable..much less I doubt it's even doable with him. I probably could indirectely embarass him with my behavior at some point but never on an intentional note. I won't even bother trying to express what causing the latter would do to me inside.

starshine

quote:

ORIGINAL: starshineowned

quote:

Some doms like to humiliate their subbie/slaves, and make them cry. I had an experienced with a dom where as when he started to try to put me down and I rebelled and turned the tables on the dom, he started to cry. So tell me subbies/slaves how would you handle this matter. Could you still respect your dom? How would this reflect on your relationship?


Think the most important question here is: Can you still respect this Dom? The words and jest of your posts in trying to explain suggest that you can't and actually enjoyed the fact that you humiliate him.

If it wasn't "your Dom" as in a working relationship together..then yes I'd probably feel bad that I caused that reaction in him in an attempt to express that humiliating me did not go over well but I'd never consider trying to on a deliberate basis.

As far as myself with Master in a live in M/s dynamic the thought of trying to cause that ..well it's just not even fathomable..much less I doubt it's even doable with him. I probably could indirectely embarass him with my behavior at some point but never on an intentional note. I won't even bother trying to express what causing the latter would do to me inside.

starshine



Thank you. You got what I was speaking about.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:50:35 PM   
SassySarijane


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Status: offline 		Even when I was in a relationship where I was being nonconsentually humiliated and put down on a regular basis, I never went that far in retaliation. I expressed my upset over it and went off by myself somewhere to deal with the pain and regain the strength to face it again until I was finally able to totally get out of the relationship.

I don't have much if any respect for someone who goes to that point and then brags about it like it's some great accomplishment. I wouldn't lose respect for my dom if that were done to him to that degree (and it would never be me that did it), I would lose respect for him when he nonconsentually did it to me and simply end the relationship in all likelihood, realizing I had made a mistake in choosing him as my dom.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:52:52 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: JustDarkness


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Pathetic......

One very pathetic thread.




you are gentle today


I am sick and my energy level is low.


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:54:15 PM   
JustDarkness


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take it easy....better for the poster too :P

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:55:34 PM   
SassySarijane


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Status: offline 		Sorry to hear you're sick LaT. Hope you feel better soon.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:57:19 PM   
LaTigresse


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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:57:55 PM   
Carmeldelight


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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Even when I was in a relationship where I was being nonconsentually humiliated and put down on a regular basis, I never went that far in retaliation. I expressed my upset over it and went off by myself somewhere to deal with the pain and regain the strength to face it again until I was finally able to totally get out of the relationship.

I don't have much if any respect for someone who goes to that point and then brags about it like it's some great accomplishment. I wouldn't lose respect for my dom if that were done to him to that degree (and it would never be me that did it), I would lose respect for him when he nonconsentually did it to me and simply end the relationship in all likelihood, realizing I had made a mistake in choosing him as my dom.
Like you said your was non-consensual, and so was mine. You chose your path in handling the matter and I chose my way in handling the matter, Do not assume I am bragging. I am just asking a question would you stay in the relationship and would you still respect him for dis respecting you!!!!

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 1:58:34 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Sorry to hear you're sick LaT. Hope you feel better soon.


Thank you! It's just one of those bugs that makes you feel like crap, but not enough like crap to make me stay home in bed.

So I come to work and everyone stays away from me.


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Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 2:02:28 PM   
oceanwynds


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

quote:

ORIGINAL: JustDarkness


quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Pathetic......

One very pathetic thread.




you are gentle today


I am sick and my energy level is low.



Sorry you are sick. I have the flu myself. But there is one good thing that came out of this pathetic thread, and simply I do not carry that trait within me. It made me see how much of a submissive i really am, and this made me smile. One, I would not do this to Sir and two futher the humilation by telling a post what i did and his reaction. Yet, i feel very empowered in my submissiveness. Somedays I question my submissiveness, but this thread helped me to see myself clearly.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 2:11:24 PM   
SassySarijane


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

quote:

ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Even when I was in a relationship where I was being nonconsentually humiliated and put down on a regular basis, I never went that far in retaliation. I expressed my upset over it and went off by myself somewhere to deal with the pain and regain the strength to face it again until I was finally able to totally get out of the relationship.

I don't have much if any respect for someone who goes to that point and then brags about it like it's some great accomplishment. I wouldn't lose respect for my dom if that were done to him to that degree (and it would never be me that did it), I would lose respect for him when he nonconsentually did it to me and simply end the relationship in all likelihood, realizing I had made a mistake in choosing him as my dom.
Like you said your was non-consensual, and so was mine. You chose your path in handling the matter and I chose my way in handling the matter, Do not assume I am bragging. I am just asking a question would you stay in the relationship and would you still respect him for dis respecting you!!!!


I believe my response you quoted answered that question clearly. As to assuming you are bragging, please reread your own posts and perhaps then you will see how it's coming off to others.

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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 2:21:11 PM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		I couldn't make my owner cry......I don't have that kind of power (nor would I want it). I couldn't humiliate him either.....but if either occurred there'd be nothing left here for either him or me.

agirl



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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 2:24:29 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: Carmeldelight

Some doms like to humiliate their subbie/slaves, and make them cry. I had an experienced with a dom where as when he started to try to put me down and I rebelled and turned the tables on the dom, he started to cry. So tell me subbies/slaves how would you handle this matter. Could you still respect your dom?  How would this reflect on your relationship?

I have seen men cry before. They have just as much right to express emotion as a woman does.



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RE: Humiliating you dom untill he cries - 1/13/2009 2:27:04 PM   
sub4bd


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