aravain
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I can top AND bottom without sexual overtones or energy. There's a 'friendliness' aspect, for lack of a better word. It's closeness, but with someone who's not a romantic or sexual partner without the BDSM there's no sexual energy. Edit: I'm actually thinking of taking a friend up on an offer for it, now, to be honest. We're friends and there's no (well, ok, there's a little, but it's all created by me) sexual tension between us... mostly because our sexual orientations don't even match up. Of course, in this instance it would be a cathartic release, more than anything. 'Scratching each others' backs' as it were. :)
< Message edited by aravain -- 1/22/2009 8:28:18 PM >
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