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"mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:21:37 AM

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Ok here is a new one for me..since I am new to the "title lifestyle" I have practiced this lifestyle to a smaller degree most of my life..however, I was not aware of all the levels of it all. I guess I am just saying that I was married for over 20 years..and now a widow..past almost 2 years..and find myself lost in the "words" of it all.

Here is my question...I have met on man ..on here..we talked online a lot met for coffee had a two hour meeting ..it was nice..then we had a 'date" .....and now he is wanting to 'mark' me as his own.. Have sex with me so that no other can have me. But if he decides that he wants something else then he either talks to me about bringing in another..or we go separate ways. I too have that option.

I am slowly learning that there are many terms and ways to present this lifestyle.... so is this a normal one... to be 'marked'

RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:26:15 AM

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Marked? umm like collared?

Sounds like a conveluted way to say he wants you to be his sub, if you want to be his sub then urm be his sub. Its kinda like 'going steady'

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:30:02 AM

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A lot of Doms like to "mark" their subs, and this can be anything from a tattoo to a brand. Personally, I find such markings spoil an otherwise lovely view of the natural female form.

What you should consider is whether you want to have some sort of permanent marking from some guy you dated for the first time just a few weeks ago. Marking may be appropriate for those in committed long-term relationships, but certainly not for somebody you just met. If he tires of you and cuts you loose in a few months, do you want a lifetime reminder of your three month fling? Are you going to enjoy explaining to every other partner you have for the rest of your life where that mark came from? Some women enjoy the humiliation of it all and find that part highly erotic; some do not. I think you should think hard about more temporary signs before you take this step.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:33:45 AM

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I dont think that the OP is refering to a physical mark

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:38:29 AM

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It could mean so many things...collar you, piss on you, bruise you, brand you, tattoo you. Ask him what he means.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:54:36 AM

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Whatever he means by "marking" aside....I'd be really concerned if anyone "wanted me as his own" after just one date.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:55:54 AM

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Yes ....I should have been more specific. He was talking about sex. His marking by cumming inside me.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 5:59:34 AM

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Yes ....I should have been more specific. He was talking about sex. His marking by cumming inside me.

Well Ok with that one...let's see. Is he gonna be there if you get pregnant? Or Aids? Or any std for that matter?
Use your head.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:02:12 AM

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Yes ....I should have been more specific. He was talking about sex. His marking by cumming inside me.

Well Ok with that one...let's see. Is he gonna be there if you get pregnant? Or Aids? Or any std for that matter?
Use your head.

He could come inside her in a condom and pretend.

It all seems to be symbolism to me to be honest, everyone has their own little rituals.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:04:54 AM

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Yes ....I should have been more specific. He was talking about sex. His marking by cumming inside me.

My ex used to cum inside me pretty regularly....but now he's my ex so I guess that "marked as my own" thing didn't really work so good...

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:05:55 AM

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Yes ....I should have been more specific. He was talking about sex. His marking by cumming inside me.

Well Ok with that one...let's see. Is he gonna be there if you get pregnant? Or Aids? Or any std for that matter?
Use your head.

He could come inside her in a condom and pretend.

It all seems to be symbolism to me to be honest, everyone has their own little rituals.

Nah...sounds like some creep trying to take advantage of a newbie who thinks that because she's submissive that she doesn't have any choice or any working brain cells. Easy prey. I mean look at what she's asking. I don't know how old she is, but it shouldn't matter. Anyone over 18 should know that letting a stranger cum inside of them is pretty stupid.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:09:06 AM

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Have sex with me so that no other can have me.

This is the bit that makes me boggle a bit, to be honest as the rest of the OP says its just words. But why would having sex with you mean that no one else can have you because surely unless you are a virgin this would mean you couldnt be with him anyways?

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:28:24 AM

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I'm getting a bad feeling about this.

"Marking" by having sex and then you're off limits to other men? New one to me.

"if he decides that he wants something else then he either talks to me about bringing in another..or we go separate ways. I too have that option." I read this as him saying that you will not have the option of leaving him but he will have the option of leaving you.

OP, you're new to this world. Keep meeting and talking with people. Play with those you feel comfortable with. But this guy sounds like a newbie who doesn't have a clue and is trying to take advantage of your newness.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:31:44 AM

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Whatever he means by "marking" aside....I'd be really concerned if anyone "wanted me as his own" after just one date.

I wouldn't be concerned about that part... I would be concerned about the marking part, and take it slow and easy until you know what he says/means, and whether you can agree to them.

P.S. Get to know the man, and decide if you want a relationship with him, because as has been pointed out, he may just be a horny man trying to take advantage of your lack of knowledge here. Either way, you're an adult, and using any word related to lifestyle, etc, should not preclude use of your judgement. M

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:48:33 AM

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Well unless it was a REALLY long date....like maybe 6 months long....how could anyone possibly know they are compatible in one date? There is a lot to consider when you "want someone for your own". Health, finances, work, family, animals, religion, politics, interests, toilet paper under or over, china patterns, decorating styles, kinks, limits, country life/city person, expectations....OMG the list is endless. Nope, you don't have to negotiate all of them at the beginning but I would have to say that the more you come to an agreement on BEFORE you make a life long commitment to someone, the better the odds of the commitment actually lasting a lifetime.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 6:58:40 AM

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You've never had a date where you talked all day, and night, and felt he's perfect, I want him forever? Yes it's impulsive, and I don't know if that magical connection will ever happen again, but I have been known to do one or two impulsive things in my life.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 7:00:30 AM

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You've never had a date where you talked all day, and night, and felt he's perfect, I want him forever? Yes it's impulsive, and I don't know if that magical connection will ever happen again, but I have been known to do one or two impulsive things in my life. M

Did you let him cum in you on the next date?

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 7:03:52 AM

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You've never had a date where you talked all day, and night, and felt he's perfect, I want him forever? M

Sure I have...but then I pulled my head back out of my ass, put a brake on my hormones and thought it through....thankfully because within a month or so, 99.9% of them turned out to be completely incompatible.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 7:11:15 AM

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You've never had a date where you talked all day, and night, and felt he's perfect, I want him forever? Yes it's impulsive, and I don't know if that magical connection will ever happen again, but I have been known to do one or two impulsive things in my life. M

Did you let him cum in you on the next date?

Aileen nailed it. It's unprotected sex with a stranger.

As far as the making a committment on the first date....a relationship succceeding from that situation is the exception not the norm.

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RE: "mark me" - 1/21/2009 7:16:00 AM

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If he's talking about "marking" her and making it so no man can never have sex with her again and this so called mark is actually having unprotected sex, then if I were in her shoes I would be worried that he did have a means of phusically marking me by with something that he's got and is willing to share. Doesn't sound romantic to me at all.

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