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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 2:33:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: DrkJourney
(yes I do have hackles...just not sure where they are located...lol)

I could help you find them!

...oh...sorry...must be the testosterone.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 2:42:22 PM

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I can't help but wonder if the men who attract me and people like me naturally have less testosterone.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 2:42:30 PM

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Red... remind me to thank you later for the choke I just had reading that. lol

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 3:00:50 PM

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I stay because:
Ive met some pretty amazing people (here and in RL) because of CM
I'm fascinated by all the insight that that is peppered all over this board.
I love all the Stella-isms
I want to know what GT thinks of all the recipes I sent her once she makes them
I'm highly entertained by the ongoing exchange with Steel in the 'what movie is this quote from?' thread
and because chances are good I'll meet some more amazing people

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 3:36:56 PM

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I can't help but wonder if the men who attract me and people like me naturally have less testosterone.

I think guys with confidence and self assurance know that sexuality in a relationship is tied to mutuality. Without that, one's sexual desire is like a seed in the desert or a badly pitched voice trying to sing song.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 5:20:42 PM

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Do you ever wonder how these men would react if they find their wife, daughters or sisters receiving the kinds of messages they send?

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 5:23:14 PM

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LOL... I have told a few to go tell the women in their life what they said to me. Somehow I doubt they would.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 6:39:36 PM

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Something tells me that if they heard that their moms were getting those kind of messages they'd go ballistic!! But we're just words on a screen, how can we possibly be moms or sisters or daughters or wives?

Jewel

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 6:58:01 PM

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i stay because i am just one email away from the dom of my dreams to magically drag me by the hair and into my dream relationship.....
all sarcasm aside, i am STILL vanilla, but knowing about the lifestyle will help when i meet the right dom.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 8:02:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: DrkJourney
lol...yep that would be nice wouldn't it?....lol Guess I need to be more specific in my prayers....lol

LOL, I know what you mean, because God keeps getting parts of him right. I've dated the beautiful mind, the beautiful body, the perfect submissive (with a vanilla girlfriend), and the hot sex bottom... Now if I could only hit 3 out of 4, and hopefully he'll be sans girfriend, boyfriend, or wife, I'd be satisfied. *I think*

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 9:03:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: idroolchicksrule

i stay because i am just one email away from the dom of my dreams to magically drag me by the hair and into my dream relationship.....
all sarcasm aside, i am STILL vanilla, but knowing about the lifestyle will help when i meet the right dom.

Aren't we all just one magical email away?

Jewel

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/25/2009 9:09:54 PM

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Something tells me that if they heard that their moms were getting those kind of messages they'd go ballistic!! But we're just words on a screen, how can we possibly be moms or sisters or daughters or wives?

Jewel

I asked one person if he was normally so rude to people he has never before corresponded with, and is this the way his mother raised him. I proceeded to tell him to send off a loving email to his grandmother (he was all of 20), and think of what he said to me. I received an apology 5 minutes later.

Ally

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 2:43:05 AM

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I also see the same Dominants looking still and some have been on here for a couple of years,it does make me wonder why they can not find someone.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 8:00:05 AM

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I could have chosen one of a number of submissive's.... if I wanted to live in a different place or they did and one or both had no commitments or family that kept them where they were. One must consider all things in life... health, family, career, social commitments, property... and then you add, personality, kink, physical and mental attraction, common goals and sincerity.

Just because there are bodies... doesn't mean you will find one that fits your own.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 8:03:39 AM

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In the years I have been here--when did this site start, anyway? I have been in several relationships, and made many friends. That doesn't mean that I have found the one that is most right for me, in a situation that we can both make work.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 2:36:18 PM

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Well, jeez, I never received the message about the free puppy! My cats will be pleased to have something new to pee on, lol! :> One truly comes to understand the term slave when they are in service to Those Entities Feline. :>
I found CM several years ago and perused to learn more about bdsm despite being in a vanilla marriage at that time.
When we separated, I posted a profile.
As my profile now says, 'I am joyously not looking'.
I stay to keep in touch with folks, to make new acquaintances/friends, and to peruse/read and contribute on the boards.
Davan

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 6:41:14 PM

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I am only on this site, nowadays, for the sheer entertainment of the fucking morons who constantly contact me. That and the boards. IMHO: The people that use the boards are the real ones and the folks I respect.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 8:56:48 PM

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I stay here because there are like-minded people who are into the same lifestyle as I am. That's pretty much it. It's practically my second to last connection to the bdsm lifestyle, because I've pretty much given up every other tie to the lifestyle that I used to have. Other than running a web site for a bdsm company that I only run because she's been my client for over a decade now, and it would be pretty crappy for me to force her to find someone else to do what I do for the rate I charge, I have almost no connections to the lifestyle anymore. That's why collarme seems really important to me, and why I stay here. Little by little, I push myself further and further from the lifestyle, and I've even spent very little time on collarme these days.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 8:58:18 PM

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damn, can you leave this place?
I did not realize that!
I have been here going on 5 years, I did not realize I could leave
voluntarily.

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RE: What makes you stay here? - 1/26/2009 9:26:39 PM

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Maybe the women stay to post on the forum. I came here to post on the forum as the first thing I do. I have a sub but I am looking for another one because mine is running away in some months. When I find a new sub I might still come back to read the collarme forum. I will do dominatrix and submissive play with my sub first because play is more fun but sometimes I might get tired of walking on my sub and I will want to type on the forum to rest my feet. (maybe I make my sub type?)

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