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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I am about to put a shopping list on my profile.

All those guys that email me, instead of me just telling them........."aaaahhhhhhh, read the profile dude. Lesbian!"

I can direct them to my list!

(if I only knew how to get the items on the list to my house, via their credit card, without them knowing where it was going.........hmmmmm)

Hey yeah, seriously ladies, how does that work? I am honestly curious.

If Joe Smith in Texas want to buy Dominant Liz Taylor, a new diamond ring. How does Liz get Joe's ring onto her finger without divulging personal info? I am curious about the logistics.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
To me, the kind of mindset, the type of writing and/or phone calls, that level of intense humiliation is very emotionally taxing *on me*,

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
To me, the kind of mindset, the type of writing and/or phone calls, that level of intense humiliation is very emotionally taxing *on me*,

This part sounds like tons of fun to me.  I love to write and to role-play.  For me, it's relaxing.  And I can always use additions to my wardrobe, jewelry box, etc. regardless how practical the items are or are not.  Unfortunately, I don't have the start-up capital (or, let's face it, the know-how), to run a website like this.  *sigh*

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
To me, the kind of mindset, the type of writing and/or phone calls, that level of intense humiliation is very emotionally taxing *on me*,

This part sounds like tons of fun to me.  I love to write and to role-play.  For me, it's relaxing.  And I can always use additions to my wardrobe, jewelry box, etc. regardless how practical the items are or are not.  Unfortunately, I don't have the start-up capital (or, let's face it, the know-how), to run a website like this.  *sigh*

You don't need any start up capital beyond a few thousand dollars (I am guessing what my site cost me to run the first five years, and server space is cheaper now or can be found for free).  You don't need any know-how either (I started my web site when the Internet was still mostly text). What you do need is sincere desire/passion and time.  My site existed for 5 years before it even remotely became a portal for anything than a place to share my stories and I worked on it for a very long time and never made a penny.  What it takes to build credibility on the Web is time and your own reputation.  At some point though, it just doesn't make any sense to invest that much time (for me, personally) in fun side projects like telephone domination anymore, for example.  A couple of years out of college with a growing readership to my site of all fairly intelligent (early adopters on the Web) readers, pay-for-play phone domination a few hours of week made sense and paid for my expensive toys and wardrobe and the callers were generally awesome.  Fifteen years into my career now, I have so little free time and my time is so valuable to me that I can't do phone domination regularly enough to build up a decent client base like I used to have. Nowadays if I do decide to turn on my phone, I just get wankers who only read the first page of my site anyway (and found it randomly) and want to know where the naked pictures of me are.  No thanks! :)

Akasha

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Personally, I don't believe most of them are getting so much as a pecan roll from Stuckey's.

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once you start going down the slippery slope of trading services for dollars that virtually everything is negotiable. You have already proven that you can be bought.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Much of what has been posted here is complete crappola.  It seems for along time that men have paid for the services provided by women.  I doubt many out here are suffering or feel used or humiliated by supplying these dommetutes with what they desire. 

I also can only imagine that once you start going down the slippery slope of trading services for dollars that virtually everything is negotiable.  You have already proven that you can be bought.

It's all rather sad as well as disgusting.

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ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA

We Women have had mountains moved for us by men. Everything a man does he does for a woman. If no woman existed, men would be lazy poor fat beer belly slugs. Women know they know they got what men want. Female sexuality is powerful, which is why males are more competitive and more aggressive than females - mostly in order to win female approval and mating rights. And because women prefer males who can accomplish a certain dominance rank, who can provide resources and security - and that aggression is one method that males achieve these things, and was probably the primary method during the earlier stages of our beginnings in evolution. But now in our modern times there are other ways that males can achieve these things, particularly the males of today - through charm and charisma, through intelligence, and of course money.

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ORIGINAL: MISTRESSKUMA

We Women have had mountains moved for us by men. Everything a man does he does for a woman.Really? I would have to hear from the guys on this one. And when you consider a homosexual, your theory is sorta shot in the ass If no woman existed, men would be lazy poor fat beer belly slugs.So...how do you explain the men who are lazy, poor, fat, beer belly slugs? And an FYI, cupcake, there are many, many men who take care of themselves for the purpose of feeling good. Women know they know they got what men want. Female sexuality is powerful, which is why males are more competitive and more aggressive than females - mostly in order to win female approval and mating rights.Uh...no. A competitive nature does not have its roots in the cock, Sorry. And because women prefer males who can accomplish a certain dominance rank, who can provide resources and securityI provide my own resources and security, thanks. - and that aggression is one method that males achieve these things, and was probably the primary method during the earlier stages of our beginnings in evolution.Yeah...back then aggression was the primary means of survival. These times they are a changin'  But now in our modern times there are other ways that males can achieve these things, particularly the males of today - through charm and charisma, through intelligence, and of course money Reading this post of yours...i get the feeling MONEY is first on your list.

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Most hetro women are swayed by an otherwise less than impressive man, by him having more money. If not, guys like Donald Trump wouldn't get laid, let alone married.

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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Most hetro women are swayed by an otherwise less than impressive man, by him having more money. If not, guys like Donald Trump wouldn't get laid, let alone married.

Ya got me on the Donald, LaT

However...while I do agree that women may show an interest in a man flashing a bank roll, i think the interest is more curiosity than anything else (and i am talking about the average woman here...not a money hungry skank). In other words...what does he have that gives him that earning power? Once that curiosity is met, then hopefully compatibility becomes an issue

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Holly, I do know what you are saying and I know that there are many people that focus first and foremost on the person rather than bankroll. I am just saying that the old "doctor lawyer versus ditch digger" for husband material is still there. It is subtle, very very subtle, but I see it far too often to pretend otherwise.

The only difference is that many times the women are also doctors, lawyers, sucessful women. Rarely do they marry someone "beneath them" in income and social standing. If anything, almost always, up.