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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 9:30:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

This thread has all but died here. Why is it still open to responses is beyond me. One would think the mods would've closed this down after people stopped really discussing anything and made it a thread for petty bantering.

cause it's amusing!!!! that and/or the mods likely very careful not to impose censorship needlessly

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:07:28 AM

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This is such a convoluted mess, the only good I can see coming from this thread is that it lets you three vent.

It may appear to be convoluted because you are only reading a few typed paragraphs on a screen, that only gives a few tiny snapshots of a situation that is actually comprised of 7 lives (all the people involved) who's life paths all hit a crossroad at the same time.

A nice smooth "story" that is condensed enough to be portrayed across a computer screen in only one or two posts... one that every John Q. Public can read quickly and understand fully... and makes perfect sense... also, showing maturity and good judgement on the part of each person involved... uhmm... you're probably thinking of Reader's Digest. This is the internet.

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ORIGINAL: mistoferin

There are positive things here that one can walk away with though. It would be nice if people read this and realized that while helping out another human being is a wonderful thing to do.....rescuing them generally does not work out for anyone involved. At the very least, before you take on that type of responsibility you should certainly be able to step back and determine if you are indeed prepared to handle the problem at hand.

If someone asks you to take care of a package for them....and that package is clearly ticking, it would be best to bow out gracefully. Unless of course you are a bomb technician who has been sufficiently trained and is highly skilled at disarming explosive devices. If you are not and you take that package home and set it on your dining room table.....eventually it is going to blow your dining room to smithereens.

People are no different...if you know the issues a person is dealing with are far beyond your capablities....you only have yourself to blame when it all blows up in your face. The most unfortunate aspect though of dealing with people is that they generally come attached to other people who end up being unwitting victims of our lapses in judgement.

These 3 paragraphs are priceless. It's been a very long time, since I've read advice as good as this. I'm going to copy this to read from time to time here, at my desk. Thank you so much for posting it.

Some people (like myself) are natural-born "rescuers". Spending our entire lives trying to help others. When the situation looks tough or bleak, I do not lose heart. I become more determined than ever to improve the life/lives of those I am helping.

To walk away from people who need help badly.... makes me feel like I am part of the problem... like that lady who was stabbed to death in a city street... and all the neighbors looked out their windows and saw it happening, they all heard her begging for help while it was happening... and not one of them wanted to get involved... so they closed their curtains and turned their tv's up louder...

and that woman crawled along the sidewalk slowly... as she was being stabbed hundreds of times...

the assailant left when he was done... and she slowly bled to death...

the nation was shocked that not one of the neighbors who looked out and saw what was happening, heard what was happening... bothered to call 911...

they didn't want to get involved...

so... when do we help someone who is suffering?

To be honest? I don't know. I'm starting to believe that sacrificial love may not be such a good thing after all. It's not the sacrificing that makes it too difficult... it's the hissing, boo-ing, and occasional kick in the ribs from those who become aware of what you are doing.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:19:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: sweetwhisper

What is preventing you from going back to get your belongings?

Did that. Only most of my clothes were given back. The items that are priceless to me, were not given back.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:26:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: GIGGLEBOB

I know this advise is stupid now but a password protection on your files in future will protect you from this ever happening again. i'm not entirely sure how the slave system works but I'm sure even a master cant make you take it off.

If someone has your hard drive copied does a password still keep them from accessing the information that is on it?
And heck, I honestly can't remember if I had my password turned on the last time I used that computer or not. When I get it back, I guess I can check then.

It sure would be great if...
~ I did have the password turned on
~ when I take the info off the hard drive and put it on this new computer, I'll be able to tell if I had the password turned on for the old computer

Your comment on the slave system... I don't know how others are... but for me... I do not hide information about myself from my Master. And your advise isn't stupid... it's smart... matter of fact... I'm going to make sure I have ALL my passwords turned on everywhere from now on... hahaha

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:28:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: Chaingang

::snore::
zzzzzzzzzzzzz....

*covering Chaingang up with a blankey

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:30:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesertRat

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ORIGINAL: Dragonzaymaster

Ok Desert Rat, Why read if you disagree? Hmmmm makes one wonder the intent, doesn't it. This is a public board.
Dragon

Yes, my behavior sure is strange, isn't it? Sticks out like a regular sore thumb. I'm just so bizarre.

Bob

HAHAHA!! You're a regular 'twisted sister' there, Bob, Sir.... *giggling

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:31:16 AM

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Hey Phoenix, I soooo glad the you and Master are back together again and the flaming on the boards has ceased for you.
Nice to see good things happening for you both again!

Peace, Kevin

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:32:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

lets see first we end up saying this was about a woman just gone nutz then a master who is abusive then back to a woman who is bi polar...

Are you sure you are on the right thread?

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:33:16 AM

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Oh geeze, who gives a fuck already

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:34:11 AM

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Thanks Ruby.... *smile

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:37:46 AM

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I can empathize with you in this. I read the first page to get an idea on things. I’m not familiar with the legal aspect in your area, but were it here in Australia, I’d be talking to a lawyer, putting it down on paper regarding his illegal activities and have them witnessed, signed and stamped by a Magistrate as a statutory declaration (Notarized in the US) and make an appointment to see the senior police officer I the Criminal Investigation Branch with your Lawyer and go over the who thing as well as handing him the stat decs, The Lawyer is your witness as to how you are treated and the boys in blue may take you seriously when you have a lawyer in attendance. Again I’m not sure of the US statutes but I have an idea that once he publishes “X” rated private pics of you without your permission (a signed release) he is breaching federal law and even the threats of doing so may be again a breach of federal law and if so I’d be talking to the federal authorities (i.e. the FBI). For me I can relate due to my second wife of 13 years pulled the pin and without hijacking the thread, all I will say is that she not only took me for I excess of A$2.5 million, but also destroyed all my boarding school and class photos, my photos of my parents and grand parents and childhood photos as well as totally destroyed a 15thC Church Chalice she had given me several years before for my birthday, It was those personal items which hurt the most and made her act of bloody minded vandalism unforgivable….. Do what you have to do and don’t even consider the effects o his family.. He is responsible for his actions and all the consequences.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:39:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: truesub4u

Lord thank you for mistoferin......

this thread should of died ages ago... been buried, redug up, and made to carry on. For God sakes.... enough already

To everyone bitching about this thread being old... when you get to the page that lists the threads for this section.... and you are scanning down that list.... don't click on the link that is titled... "A Master Who Steals". Just a suggestion.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:42:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: stef

The only purpose this thread serves is as a huge blinking WARNING! sign advising people to avoid getting involved with any of the participants of this debacle. It's a gigantic Mr. Yuk sticker for airing the dirty laundry of a hyper-dysfunctional "relationship."

The three cast members of this uber-drama should take a bow. You've certainly earned it.

~stef

debacle? What's that mean?

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:43:57 AM

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when I take the info off the hard drive and put it on this new computer, I'll be able to tell if I had the password turned on for the old computer

And please back it up and keep the CDs or DVDs in a safe place, outside your home is best in case of fire or other disaster. I remember hearing that a lot of people in Katrina lost everything on their computers even with back ups because the backups were in the house too.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:46:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

oh wait you mean this was not a script for the next jerry springer show i am lost lol oh well i was getting my hopes up shuky darn and stuff. ok to the point of things this stuff happens all the time in our lifestyle tons of dysfuctional paople trying to find some worthless meaning in sex and admoration in other people who are more dysfuctional then they are shrugs. balance key word take a look at this what makes a good relationship and bad well it starts with one balanced individual trying to find another balanced individual suppose to be dom domme well maybe i do not know i just know of late there to much kaos and bs i see more dom dom couples being born for god knows what reason its like two doctors getting together thats like a bad omen forsure but hey thats the life of hard knocks just not on my block anymore kidos i have had enough i am going to stand in the conservitive conner cause their lives seem to be more harmonious and happy maybe its because of there structure its not all about them take alook find out for you self anyone can type and anyone can act can you be more shrugs its all up to you be stupid or be right just know i am tried of the bs ds and i am putting up a fight at every conner and every place i am putting back love and respect in this place
purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
catch the wave :)

wow... there are people who pay good money to think the way you do...

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:51:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: fastlane

Hey Phoenix, I soooo glad the you and Master are back together again and the flaming on the boards has ceased for you.
Nice to see good things happening for you both again!

Peace, Kevin

Thank you, Fast Lane, Sir... *smile

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 10:58:15 AM

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Fastlane Bows and say "no problem kind lady, it's just too bad that so many are so quick to point and really don't know the situation, isn't it?"

My best to you both, now and forever!

Peace, Kevin

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 11:01:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: IceyOne

Oh geeze, who gives a fuck already

IceyOne... your comment there is priceless... I assume you suffer from a short attention span. Better be careful.... there's a name for that, ya know... ADD or ADHD...

there's a medical/psych name for everything nowadays.... you have to be very careful what you say, do or type... you just might end up having a label slapped across your forehead... and we all know that once people get their forehead label sticker, they are no longer bonafide as being credible... god forbid, that should ever happen to you....

sorry it took me so long to give MY replies to these posts made here... but some of us had to go to a library or simliar place to reply to the posts... and that's not always convenient....

P.S. It's a good thing you put 2 e's in the word "geeze"... someone may have accused you of being dyslexic instead of just being a poor speller.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 11:05:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

some people keep the other persons things to pay for things they did not get for example bills

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I have my own income and I gave them $500 month, just because I was a family member there (that's what they told me) and I voluntarily wanted to give money to help out with the monthly bills and etc. This was given freely and I'm happy that I pitched in.

I also paid my own phone bill costs, personal care item costs, etc. and any food I ate was mostly left-overs that they never ate and threw away. I grew up eating food that was cooked the day before, so what? It actually tastes better the second day because the flavors are stronger. Nothing wrong with that. I was glad that I could show the alpha slave that I was costing them actually nothing to live there. I contributed income and I had almost zero expenses to be there.

I was proud that I was an asset to them and NOT a burden.

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RE: A Master Who Steals - 2/6/2006 11:22:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

...It was those personal items which hurt the most and made her act of bloody minded vandalism unforgivable….. Do what you have to do and don’t even consider the effects o his family.. He is responsible for his actions and all the consequences.

Iron Bear, Sir... Thank your for sharing your story with your post. I know you are probably right when you say not to consider the effects on his family, because he's responsible for his actions and all the consequences. I'm trying to find a middle ground to work on.

It's interesting for me to see how others take in this information, process it and respond to it. Each person chose 1 or more points to focus on and comment on. Some only chose to repeat "fake!" over and over.

We will do what we have to for the return of my personal items that are valueless to someone else, but priceless to me...

but the true tragedy will go on... indefinitely... the damaged lives of the others....

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