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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 12:35:26 PM   
happypervert


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The only person who's opinion matters to me is IrishMist. I want to collar her, I want to Marry her and I want to live the rest of my life with her. I know this!

Oh, you are a silver tongued scumbag. But these girls have heard that before and it only lasts until you find another target. If only we could throw your words on the fields -- they would make the crops grow great!

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could never say this to Katy, but I still enjoyed being with her and I hate the fact that I did hurt her.

More nice sounding lies to try and convince us you have a conscience. But you really feel no worse than a hyena chewing on a carcass.

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 12:39:10 PM   
Mercnbeth


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Fastlane,

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I am not a predator!

Many, including me, would define predator by the actions that you admitted. Forget the cash, emotions invested and trust are much more valuable. You devoured them.

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Yes she was 25 and she thought I was 44. Am I the only person to lie about my age here? Katy caught wind and sent info to a friend, who forwarded it to her. She confronted me and I told her the truth and changed my profile to reflect my real age.....

Maybe not, but you tried to establish a relationship based upon it - a lie. Admission that you only disclosed truth when caught doesn't make you truthful. It seems the remorse is in getting caught; another predator trait. That seems to be the prevailing message. Remorse for the consequences not the acts.

What to do? Well I think it's time for "life in the fast lane" to end. It truly made you "lose your mind". Maybe you should switch to "Desperado".

Good luck! Baseball season is only a few weeks away. Aren't the over 50 leagues competitive?

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RE: Brand new year...looking up? - 1/20/2006 1:25:27 PM   
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I too am out of this thread. I said my peace and the two I have been with have now said there's. Again, the two, not the dozens as has been implied here.
I apologize to you both for obviously hurting your feelings. I can not say it louder and I can not say it more clearly.
We all have made mistakes, now everyone here knows mine. I'm human too and I am sure there are more to come, but I will try my best to limit them. The hurt was not intentional, is all I can say as I move on and I regret it happened at all, but I will learn from this misadventure and not repeat my mistakes. That is all I can do.
The rest of the people who think they have a stake in this can be as vidictive or as forgiving as they choose to be, I hope it is the latter and we all move on to a happier place.

Fastlane exits this thread and says don't forget to turn out the lights as he leaves, coz I'm not coming back.

As always, Peace! Kevin


All I can say is two things..... Women are tough and Shiat happens.

Good luck Kevin!


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RE: Predator Alert! - 1/20/2006 1:27:12 PM   
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ed.
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ORIGINAL: fastlane
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned", and I have scorned two.
what you have read was put forth with calm thought and careful choice of words. you've seen no fury, only facts. you even admitted it was true.
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Everything that Katy and sub4 are saying is true, but there is another side. First off the reference to me asking for mucho money seems to be put in it's proper context. She came into a large settlement,
i did not have a large settlement. you'd told me that you thought that because i lived in california and because i'd had a car accident that i surely must have money. i've never in my life been so dumbfounded as when out of the blue you asked to borrow that much money to pay off your credit card and then pay me off little by little over 6 or so years. you've said you have a house, savings, and money put aside for your sons' college fund. i have none of this and told you so. you could easily have used some of your savings or hocked your own house to pay off your bills, but you chose instead to ask me to do it.
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As for both of them, I told them both I had fallen for a younger woman in another state. We had talked for over a month and she was to come visit me.
back to the facts; after we'd broken up, you said to me that you'd talked to her since before you met katy or myself, not just a month. the times aren't making sense. you'd have had to have been talking to her while i was with you for almost two weeks. you asked me to go on two trips with you for the following two weeks, then change my flight plans so i would be back at your house a week after that. being together forever was talked about before i came, during my visit, and then afterwards. i was there because we were to have a life together, a future.

Kevin, there were no drunken orgasmic declarations between us. we had talked of spending the rest of our lives together, and were making plans about houses where and how. this wasn't any casual "play," and frankly, when you say this, you demean me so. i have no record of casual play and i don't plan to start. i'd not have been with you if it were such, and you know this.

remember "forever and beyond?" that's not play. you dishonour both of us by now saying this. i have not had multiple partners nor do i wish to. i feel so ashamed to have to come on here again and lay out more of what i've done. but i did not disgrace my values nor my ethics, and you know this to be true.
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I called both Sub4 and Katy to try and patch things up. Katy agreed, Sub4 did not. All of those Dumb Dom threads and Second Chance threads were really Sub4 and me communicating in code.
your code, not mine. i was done. you made your choice after i'd not loan you the money, then came back to me wanting me to give you another chance if/when the woman you were going to collar didn't work out. i made mine as well, and i stuck by it. i didn't send emails or voice mails as you did, saying how you really truly cared about me and had made the biggest mistake of your life by letting me go. but you did send these to me. not even 3 weeks ago you sent an email saying that you were my "Master" and that you always would be.

if your least worry is about your embarassment, i wonder what is being left out. now you've got a third woman that i know of that you want to spend the rest of your life with in under 3 months. i think that speaks volumes.


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RE: Predator Alert! - 1/20/2006 1:34:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: girl4you2
this wasn't any casual "play," and frankly, when you say this, you demean me so. i have no record of casual play and i don't plan to start. i'd not have been with you if it were such, and you know this.

Just to point out, being a fan of casual play is hardly demeaning for me.

The fact that it's not true is an issue, but what it's not true about really isn't.

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 1:39:49 PM   
fastlane


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I will only say, thank you all for your advice and your unbiased opinions. I'm sure all are having fun now, especially happypervert. As for Katy and Sub4, I apologized and I will remain open to you both for friendship in the future. Wounds do heal and these will in time.
Perhaps "Predator", is the definition of someone who openly flirts on the board, in front of everyone, in order to try to make friends, meet people and one day hope you find "the one." Yes, I am guilty of this, I just didn't know that I was the only one.
What is the real crime here? Two timing Katy, dumping Katy, or appearing to be a womanizer, even though I have only been with Katy and sub4 this year.
My son has a T-shirt that says Don't hate the player, hate the game. Don't many of us play Casanova on the internet, or am I the only one that does it publicly in front of you all to see here? It's not hiding, or stalking, or scamming, it is flirting.
When I vow my love to someone, it stops. With the women I had been flirting with and the two I have been with that was not the case.
I shouldn't have done it....O.K. People......I get that, but you all are acting like I'm eating children. I've been scorned publicly. I've been humiliated publicly. I've been chastised publicly....O.K. I get it.
I respectfully asks of all of you to forgive me. I like this board and most of the people who come here and I would like to remain on it. I can't apologize anymore or any differently than I already have. The people who have been hurt.......should now feel a little better knowing that they have also hurt me, because you have. I know you have also hurt someone who should not have been, but that too has happened.
So, is there an end to this?

Kevin

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 1:44:22 PM   
Aileen68


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Maybe it's time for all of you to make this private again. Enough has been said. The only thing that can come of this is more hurt for those involved. You're all grown adults... make your own decisions and don't air your dirty laundry in public.
Good luck to all of you.

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 1:53:04 PM   
KatyLied


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The only people I feel bad for hurting are those who were peripherially involved with you (such as girl4you2, and any others on branches that were invisible to me), during my involvement with you, because you were dishonest about your involvement with them. I would never purposely bring pain into another person's life. I would never become involved with a Dom who was in another relationship. And Kevin, you know me well enough to understand that. You made a tangled mess and you left us the chore of extracating ourselves from it. You can deny the declarations you made and you can make all of the excuses you want, but the responsibility in this drama is at your feet and your alone. I have made my sincere, private apologies to those who are known to me. And I am ashamed to have placed myself in a situation where that became necessary.

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 1:56:29 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane
should now feel a little better knowing that they have also hurt me, because you have. I know you have also hurt someone who should not have been, but that too has happened.
So, is there an end to this?

Kevin

Trying to gain sympathy points...good strategy. However, it didn't really work on your "stupid dom mistake" thread and I really don't think it will work here either.

And frankly the line of "When I vow my love to someone, it stops" is so middle schoolish I can't even think of the disgusted sound appropriate.

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 1:56:55 PM   
DesertRat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

I know you have also hurt someone who should not have been, but that too has happened.



And whose fault is that?

Bob

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 2:08:54 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesertRat

quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

I know you have also hurt someone who should not have been, but that too has happened.



And whose fault is that?

Bob





AND WHO'S BUSINESS IS IT?? WTH is all this? Like each of you is free from sin---PUHLEEZ--

grow up people and take it off here and to the street--How childish and immature to drag personal business into the boards, you chastised DragonayzMaster and MstrFuryHell or whatever his name is for doing the same damn thing--dragging personal business onto the boards--you lost--tough shit---deal with it

BABAGOI

build a bridge and get over it--



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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 2:15:50 PM   
happypervert


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quote:

So, is there an end to this?


No.

So far we've seen you try and lie your way out of this, smear the character of the girls, and now you're trying contrition. Problem is you've proven you are an expert manipulator and this is just another tactic to take the bright light off you, hope people eventually forget, and then get back to your sleazy behavior. That ain't going to happen.

I think you've got some serious mental problems and I suggest you see a psychotherapist. Looks to me like you've got no impulse control whatsoever -- you see somebody vulnerable and then you'll do or say anything just to fuck her. The promises you make and emotional wreckage you leave behind mean absolutely nothing to you except when you get called out for being such an asshole, and then you justify it with a creative distortion of what went on. Perhaps you are such a good liar because you actually believe your bullshit at the time, but it is easily forgotten when it suits you.

Plus the behavior the girls reported of pestering them with calls and notes sounds obsessive to me -- kinda like a stalker. I suppose such browbeating helps you eventually get your way and maybe that's what makes you think you're dominant, but it just ain't normal nor is it dominance.

But hey -- I'm not a shrink -- I just recognize these behaviors from seeing shrinks on those true crime shows when they diagnose the psychopaths. So you ought to go get yourself profefssional help. Problem is -- that too may be a waste of time because you'll just lie to the therapist.

One thing is clear to everyone but you -- you're a leper around here now. You should just get lost because we'll always rub your nose in it just so the "fresh meat" doesn't get fooled.

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 2:26:06 PM   
IceyOne


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AND WHO'S BUSINESS IS IT?? WTH is all this? Like each of you is free from sin---PUHLEEZ--


that is the best thing I have heard from this thread yet


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RE: done with the bullshit - 1/20/2006 3:01:40 PM   
IrishMist


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/sigh

geesh, and all I wanted to do was share something

I am not going to go into a long drawn out post here, personally I think that everything that DID NOT need to be said on a board was said. I am going to say this though...there is nothing that has been posted here that I did NOT know about long before we started talking. And though I know that your best interests are at heart, I still think it was very childish to turn this thread into one of hate.

Yes, I have talked to Kevin, and yes, he knows what my decision is. And yes, I stand by that decision. But no, I am not going to air it here for everyone to pick apart, or pat themselves on their backs for. Its my decision...I made it...I will live with it.

Now, those who are really interested in what that decision is, feel free to email me. I will gladly tell you. But I will not add more fuel to this thread.



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RE: done with the bullshit - 1/20/2006 3:05:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

/sigh

geesh, and all I wanted to do was share something

I am not going to go into a long drawn out post here, personally I think that everything that DID NOT need to be said on a board was said. I am going to say this though...there is nothing that has been posted here that I did NOT know about long before we started talking. And though I know that your best interests are at heart, I still think it was very childish to turn this thread into one of hate.

Yes, I have talked to Kevin, and yes, he knows what my decision is. And yes, I stand by that decision. But no, I am not going to air it here for everyone to pick apart, or pat themselves on their backs for. Its my decision...I made it...I will live with it.

Now, those who are really interested in what that decision is, feel free to email me. I will gladly tell you. But I will not add more fuel to this thread.





gawd you are a class act--I am humbled by both of you and I am honored that you call Me friend...Huge hugs!

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RE: done with the bullshit - 1/20/2006 3:20:51 PM   
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Agreed!

Now...Fuck the rest of you!
I'm tired of being an apologists for your royal, never sinned, asses!



Go Bronco's

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RE: done with the bullshit - 1/20/2006 4:31:08 PM   
Quivver


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

very childish to turn this thread into one of hate.

Yes, I have talked to Kevin, and yes, he knows what my decision is. And yes,


Childish was standing up and waving into the bright light saying hey look here,
I'm the one all this code talk is refering to! It wasnt *us* who tossed out names
and took this personal.

Mist, I have to say my Hat's off to you.... God Bless ya

Q

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 4:35:50 PM   
cloudboy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: happypervert

quote:

Oh, you are a silver tongued scumbag.


Does that mean he's successful or unsuccessful in his ventures? Sometimes a silver tongue is all you need to walk away with all the gold in the vault.

I must say its quite a refreshing pleasure to read some good old fashioned vitriol on these boards. Last night I posted that someone was a righteous, full of shit, high and mighty, hypocrite -- without even using these direct words ----- and the moderators airbrushed my post right out of existence. Can not we posters moderate each other in the back-and-forth? (The answer is "not here" in case you were wondering.)

Poof, the post was gone. A set of keystrokes that never happened. Lucky for me, though, the intended recipient read it. I did get that satisfaction. True to life, though, the person who needed to be bashed upside the head missed the point and only felt "aggrieved" to be called to the mat. Surprise, surprise there.

My key secret advisor with impressive University connections told me that its necessary to "keep it sarcastic and general" when going for the throat, but I'm glad to see that not everyone here has to do that. (No disrespect to my secret advisor, mind you.)

"Silver tongued scumbag," I LOVE IT.

YOU ARE MY HERO.


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RE: done with the bullshit - 1/20/2006 4:45:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

Agreed!

Now...Fuck the rest of you!
I'm tired of being an apologists for your royal, never sinned, asses!



Go Bronco's


You wanna fuck me??????????????

Go ahead and try!!!!!!!!!!!

I have never claimed to have not sinned, which by the way, means "to miss the mark."

From what I have read, there was fuck-ups from every corner.

And do not make me talk about the weekend with. . . crisco, cool whip and 100 bisexual midgets in fish costumes, not to mention duct tape, bailing wire, and 63.4 meters of 15/32" nylon rope, and a thimble and a ham.

Do you really want to go there?

You know that you are guilty.

Heeheehee

Sorry, IrishMist, I had to tell the REAL story.

LaMalinche

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RE: PREDATOR ALERT!!! - 1/20/2006 5:04:13 PM   
KatyLied


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I'm seeing lots of code.
It's so.........dull

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