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ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

I am far from an elitist. This lifestyle is unique and different but more common then you might expect. I have not and will not criticize other lifestyles or call them elitist.

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ORIGINAL: VampiresLair

But I dont see any of us FemDommes saying that we need a specific forum for our TYPE of lifestyle because it is different than the Domme groups.  I am a Mommy Domme, A sadist, a Fem-husband with a male wife... and amazingly all 3 can work just as well in the Ask a Mistress becasue thats over all what I am though I dislike the term.

You are a male dom, so classed under Master. Use the forum provied and search for the many other Daddys that use it along with you. You might be a unique little snowflake, but you dont need to be an elitest one.

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ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

We really need a new forum with a discussion on Daddy Doms. Does anyone know how to make the request for a new forum?

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ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants.

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Which is cool, just surprised me when I first started posting and reading and found Mistresses answering questions on the Ask a Master, Masters answering on the Mistress forum.....

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ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult (18+) little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her ! He's not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.

He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!

He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he can't ! So it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".

The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. she is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.

There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.

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If we "NEED" a Daddy Dom forum...then we NEED a 50s lifestyle forum, a sadistic Dom forum, a masochistic Dom forum, poly Dom forum, a bondage Dom forum, a bedroom only Dom forum, a fire play Dom forum, a flogger Dom forum, a wax play Dom forum, a Married Dom and cheating forum, etc.

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ORIGINAL: respectyourowner

It is not the same thing. A Daddy Dom lifestyle is quite different from other BSDM lifestyles.

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ORIGINAL: VampiresLair

You already have one, its called Ask a Master

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ORIGINAL: peppermint
If we "NEED" a Daddy Dom forum...then we NEED a 50s lifestyle forum, a sadistic Dom forum, a masochistic Dom forum,  poly Dom forum, a bondage Dom forum, a bedroom only Dom forum, a fire play Dom forum, a flogger Dom forum, a wax play Dom forum, a Married Dom and cheating forum, etc.  Get the picture?   There just isn't room for every little group to have their own special little forum. 

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I wonder how the other dominants, male and female, will feel about the elitist attitude that becasue you are a Daddy Dom, you are the "tenderist" and all that.

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ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis

Well put, DV!!!  It doesn't matter what you call it, your relationship is your relationship & how you define it.  We are Daddy/pet, but we would have the same relationship no matter what we called it:  Master/slave, Dom/sub, KingHighMuckyMuck/lowlierthanworm.  It's all the same.  Labels, schmabels!

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Don't forget us mouthy s types, we post all over the place