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omaha68108 -> emotion and crying (1/24/2006 5:32:54 PM)

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why




MHOO314 -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 5:50:41 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: omaha68108

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why



I am not a sub, but I want him to cry, I want him to break the walls--and I will love him more for it--




krikket -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 5:50:44 PM)

i've found that i rarely cry from pain, no matter what causes it, i.e., whip, hand, paddle, etc. What does cause me to cry, however, is when my emotions are close to the surface, good or bad, and i need a good cry. Crying is my relief valve in a way. i also cry during and after an orgasm, during and after the after care part..those are the rare times when i cry in front of others. Usually my tears are shed when alone at home, in the shower, those times. The few partners i've had over the years seemed uneasy, and made it pretty clear it's not something they understand, and that it's "best" if the tears to come later.

cheers.




michaelGA -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 5:53:37 PM)

i'll keep everyone posted on this, as soon as i experience it first hand




Ampersand -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 6:07:53 PM)

That's a shame really, that you feel the need to hide it with your partners. There is nothing I love more than seeing a woman cry, under the right circumstances. If the tears flow as a result of a consensual beating or other pain games, or (even better) just the emotional release that comes with a good hard fucking; the intimacy, I am carried away. I love it. It makes me feel like the person I'm with feels free to let go completely, and that's what this is all about , isn't it?

Fuck those guys. They don't know how sweet tears taste.




veronicaofML -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 6:29:50 PM)

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why
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no..............just the friggen pain.




michaelGA -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 6:33:31 PM)

"somebody spank me" LOL




fyreredsub -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 6:51:20 PM)

at times when i am in my place at Masters feet, i am so overwhelmed with the joy i feel in being his slave that i get 'happy' tears in my eyes[:)]




xxblushesxx -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 6:56:41 PM)

When I learned I a had a strong masochistic side, which I had vehemently denied ever having...




IceyOne -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 7:55:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: omaha68108

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why


Yes, I have cried. Mainly its just from a release of emotion so intense that you can not control it. Where the emotion comes from, who knows, but I just let it go.




arson982 -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 8:06:14 PM)

it happens when I get ready to leave the home of my trainer




veronicaofML -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 8:09:08 PM)



I am not a sub, but I want him to cry, I want him to break the walls--and I will love him more for it--

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the ISSUE...m'Lady is that..i wish i COULD...for my Ms.
but i have such a deep burned in...self defense mechanism...that i doubt i will EVER be able to...let go.
i have been..on duty..for so many decades..i do not believe i can ever allow myself to again.
if i am not..watchin Her back, i am looking out for Her hubby,...or taking care of the dogs..or making sure the computer is still running since i just spent 15 hrs straight the 1st time and 8 hrs the 2nd time..fixing it.

plus my house chores...

i do not know HOW to let-go....
i have a lot of unwritten unspoken responsibilities...
picking up after 2 other adults and 2 dogs....
and taking care of myself yet...........WHEN would i be able to be given THAT chance?
i have been here, for 6 months now, on-duty...24/7/....18 hrs a day getting things done...
bad enough right now, i have had 2 hrs sleep in the last 3 days..............

aw lawdy.......

if YOU know of 'a' way...........for pity's sake..write it down and publish it!

take care m'Lady
i am always eager to see Your posts.




Wildfleurs -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 8:13:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: omaha68108

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why


Nope. I'm not the type of person that needs to cry (or even has much desire) in a scene. I let out my emotions in other ways.

C~




tywashername -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 8:18:58 PM)

when i was with my Master, Sir and Alpha sister, i was whipped for my bad behavior. yes, indeed, there was pain. i did cry, but not from the pain. You see, when my Master, Sir punishes me, its because He loves me and cares enough to teach me a good lesson. my tears were from all of this emotion built up inside. i couldnt hold back. my tears were my proof of surrender to my Master, Sir and my happiness. i couldnt be more happy that i have my Master, Sir and sister. i hope that makes sense.

slave ty
owned by Master, Sir and spankingbeauty




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 8:26:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: omaha68108

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why

Yes.

Because of emotion.

Didn't answering the first question answer the why question since the first question was "Did you cry during a whipping because of emotions?"

Catharsis scenes are quite common. For me I find it very difficult to cry at times. Being push in a physical way gives me an out, to start and continue and pushes me to get it all out at once.

I have also occasionally become enraged and the only outlet for it was through screaming and crying.




brightspot -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 8:26:44 PM)

quote:

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why


I often cry and tears roll down my face when I am out
of control laughing, it is almost as good as an orgasm![:D].

There are also times that it gets intense being emotionally close
during sex or play that yes, that can bring me to tears.


*Brightspot




subnoconas -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 9:02:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314


quote:

ORIGINAL: omaha68108
I want him to break the walls


what do you mean by this if i amy ask




MistressOfGa -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 10:27:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314


quote:

ORIGINAL: omaha68108

i would like to ask the sub and slave have you aver cry when geting whip not from pain but your emotion if so why



I am not a sub, but I want him to cry, I want him to break the walls--and I will love him more for it--


I agree. If he is crying from the pain, I smile <s> If he is crying from having to leave me and go back to Savannah, I am near tears myself.




foxglove716 -> RE: emotion and crying (1/24/2006 10:35:35 PM)

Ive never cried from pain, but yeah, when you feel like every emotion youve ever had is being magnified to the umpteenth degree its hard not to get a little teary eyed. Its a good release.




MHOO314 -> RE: emotion and crying (1/25/2006 2:31:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: subnoconas


ORIGINAL: MHOO314


I want him to break the walls

what do you mean by this if i amy ask


Not to steal your thread omaha--but to respond to the question asked of Me--

"to break the walls"

IMHO, one of the things a male submissive wrestles with is the fact that he has chosen to submit, that he is being driven against societal norms---when this drive is one beyond play and into day to day life, an internal battle often takes place---and there comes a longing for acceptance---you will often hear male submissives say--acceptance from a real Dominant--from one who understands the day to day dynamic, not one who is there for a scene and leaves--

when I use the term "break the walls"--it refers to reaching the very soul, the very core of that drive for acceptance and pulling them through the wall- breaking the barriers to enable them to feel acceptance---that is a very emotional moment---often met with tears and needing extremely gentle after care and handling--for it is there that he is the most vulnerable, he is the most raw--he is the most trusting of his Domme.





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