CelticPrince
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ORIGINAL: CelticPrince since you mentioned me in the above i will assume it was directed to me. In reading your profile, methinks that your way above average in the flexability dept so power dynamics just sort of slide away........I think. Yeah, since FastReply just puts in a reply to the last person, I always use a quote, or the person's name or initials, if I am addressing something specific they said. You're mistaken about the power dynamic, though - I can feel a very strong power exchange in a D/s relationship, I'm just not able to consciously *decide* to feel that way about someone, any more than I can decide to fall in love with him. I can choose not to act on it, if I feel a relationship with him would be a bad idea. To me, it's just not a relationship determinant in terms of whether or not I can be with someone, just as ethnicity and height aren't particularly important to me. It's important for him to be kinky in a way that isn't completely incompatible with me, that he's local, that he's interesting to talk with, that he's gentlemanly, that I enjoy spending time and doing stuff with him, that we have chemistry, etc. If we do have a strong power exchange on top of that, it's a lagniappe. :) Andalusite, methinks then for you the "power" dynamic becomes a "choice" dynamic. Individuality reigns supreme! CP
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