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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 9:07:40 AM

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it is just you, i know i should leave it alone, but you are so far out of touch with reality that it boggles my nind, as far as this being a hoax, i suggest you tun off the tv and not watch so many soap operas and i also suggest not calling people out,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,remember be careful what you wish for

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

In how many different incarnations are you going to show up?

I would have suggested that you teach your submissive some manners, because his behaviour reflects badly on you, but after your last post, I guess it's not possible to teach somebody something you don't know yourself...

Btw, is it just me or does it look like this is all the same person and one gigantic hoax?

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 9:24:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: topleaseyou555

it is just you, i know i should leave it alone, but you are so far out of touch with reality that it boggles my nind, as far as this being a hoax, i suggest you tun off the tv and not watch so many soap operas and i also suggest not calling people out,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,remember be careful what you wish for

I guess then you simply use your own screen name if you post, or is that too difficult?

Let's look at it, subbie comes and complains about something that happened with domme he hardly knows and he played with her only once, then domme comes on with 2 screen names and subbie posts under one of her screen names. Yeah, fairly routine and run of the mill stuff, isn't it, happens all the time... People always use other people's screen names...

I soooo see your point, of course anybody who notices something that is so inconsistent must be out of touch with reality....

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 9:29:11 AM

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I find it very interesting that one comes for help, gets it, isn't sure he likes it, brings his dominant and both decide to get nasty, nasty in response. They want the other nasty people to stop being nasty and to go away and yet... when people stop responding to the thread... they feel they must come back and start it up again.

First of all, as someone who knows a bit about AA, as the op says he has been dry for a number of years and should know a bit about and the dominant in the op's story he needed assistance with is now going to AA and is learning of it... One is to hold themselves accountable and not blame others and one ought to know a bit about enabling.

When one excuses their behavior or gets mad at someone who calls them on their behavior, they are still not facing their behavior and the op seems to be enabling her in the process. So basically I call bull shit on all of this. Not bullshit it didn't happen. Not bullshit they are the same person... but bull shit... get off your high horse and accept that some people have an opinion on drunkin behavior especially when it endangers another person and especially when they do it in the course of what we find we owe to our playmates in bdsm.

You can't come in and change how things work because it plays better in your enabling and lack of accountablity. You can't come in, feeling bad for what you did and bash people all over the place because you didn't like how they bashed the behavoirs exibited in the op's own words.

You are not likely to find too many enabler's around here.

I am not saying you must accept abuse, but basically no one is abusing you. They are speaking their minds and they have the right to do so especailly when you invite them to do so. Because the lil game got a lil too close to home and a lil too close to a problem area and a lil too close to ego and a few other things, is not the fault of the responders.

Now if you want the matter ended... it was... come on back and you open the door for people to really... I mean REALLY speak their minds. You want to drag this out and continue it... you wish to manipulate or prove you are correct? You can't. Not the way I see it. It is time for accountablity in your lives as per both your own words. You asked for assistance. Now stop complaining when you get it and expect us to fall into your lil skit of life and enable you.

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 9:36:55 AM

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It's really quite simple: don't bring your drama to the boards if you can't deal with the consequences.

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 12:50:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lockit
I am not saying you must accept abuse, but basically no one is abusing you.

Not intentionally, no. I'll admit that I said things people obviously did not want to hear, in this thread, but it was not intended as abuse.

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 8:14:20 PM

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This is back again? Good grief!

I did my best to remain as civil as possible (except my first response). That was meant to be a quick wake up call. It was knee jerk. I did back it up later and don't feel I was nasty in doing so, wrong in doing so, nor do I have anything to apologize for. I was sincerely hoping everyone could manage to get on a good track and maybe even have a successful relationship and overcome alcoholism together. Shame on me for wanting such terrible things for complete strangers!

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 8:26:01 PM

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As terrible as this might be to say, the alcoholism isn't nearly as concerning as the attitude.

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 8:32:51 PM

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I have to agree! Pitiful!

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RE: dangerous - 5/11/2009 10:08:52 PM

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Do not post whilst drunk.

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RE: dangerous - 5/13/2009 11:23:24 AM

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let's see...... you need a cyberboard of strangers to tell you to run from an alcoholic with a stick in her hand.

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 5:34:58 PM

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This thread is NOT SAD at all. I'm here to learn and you all constantly teach me regardless or the bullshit needed to get to the meaningful items.
Thanks,
Cheers
PS. I will reiterate, some of you spend way too much time in front of the glowing box!

< Message edited by subinchico -- 5/20/2009 5:38:21 PM >

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 6:20:14 PM

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What the fuck do you care how much time we spend in front of the glowing box? Would you like us correcting you? I don't think you would get much enjoyment out of that! Trust me on that.

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 6:54:07 PM

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I think I will just hide and watch...

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 7:00:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: Steponme73

I think I will just hide and watch...

Pervert.

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 7:01:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: Steponme73

I think I will just hide and watch...

Pervert.

You say that like it's a bad thing

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 7:09:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: Steponme73

I think I will just hide and watch...

Pervert.

You say that like it's a bad thing

Nah. Takes one to know one.

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 7:12:02 PM

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Shall we all line up?

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 7:13:51 PM

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LOL!!!!!

You perverts go ahead and line up and I will count how many of you sick, sick sickos there are.

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 7:17:23 PM

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Till we surround you!

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RE: dangerous - 5/20/2009 7:19:52 PM

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Poor innocent little prey surrounded by all these perverts!!!! Oh, what's a girl to do?

Oh, that's right! Spank Lockit!

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