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male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 5:54:35 PM

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Over and over I see these DOM movies and precious girlz
being dominated by cock...mouth....ass pussy...now..why is that in most FEMDOM film pussy is NOT dominating by riding a cock..?or sucking it??or heavan forbid..having the carrier of cock stand behind
it smothers..it suffocates..it "tempts"..but rarley envelopes the cock as a dominant act..??
I have had sub potentials turn away in baffled confusion from me because they felt it was not DOMME to fuk them( my cock) when I want.. and take cum out by mouth..milk them..

it seems it is hard to be an autonomous women in a
PHALLOCENTRIC WORLD..
even if dominant..
How do you as a DOMME explain the above( he will be fukked) to your boy??
relabeling..wording...

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 6:08:53 PM

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dot dot dot, I'm a little lost about the point here

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 6:21:39 PM

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The point? Is the fact that all heterosexual, potentially reproductive sex is considered "male dominant" in this society. And for some of us, it's beyond the vale of the tiresome to deal with male submissives who have this mindset (and it's a surprising number of them, sadly).

Unfortunately, not all dominant women are emotionally or physically wired to achieve full satisfaction just beating people or sticking things in their butts all the time. I'm very attracted to other submissive qualities in a man, but being incapable of heterosex is a really serious downside for me. It makes me feel as if the relationship is in a wheelchair for life.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 6:29:08 PM

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Not dominant if you f them? Okay... in a sense it could be true. I am not dominant to you if you think I will not f you and be dominant to you as well. Someone has a serious problem if they think that a personality trait is changed by sex or the lack of sex. And that wouldn't be... my problem! So bye bye... next!

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 6:35:22 PM

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My personal view is that if he has said I get to use his body, I get to use his body, period. I can use his arms to carry in my groceries, I can use his strength to move furniture to be swept under, and I can use his legs to carry my laundry up and down stairs. For me it is not one whit different if I choose to use his cock and his body to give me sexual pleasure. Further, I don't have to limit myself to "female dominant" positioning; if I come best in missionary, I can tell him that's how I wish to have sex, that he's to hold back his orgasm until I tell him he can, and there we are. There has never been any doubt among the submissive males I have had sex with that I was in charge, no matter what position I chose to adopt.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 6:41:43 PM

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There is a valid point here. That is why I swould like to propose adding a new word to the FemDomme vocabulary(dot)(dot)(dot) Wait! Didn't I (dot)(dot)(dot) Forget it!

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 6:53:46 PM

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I've been on the receiving end of some very, very dominant blowjobs in my day. Don't even get me started on fucking and being fucked. I just think of those fond memories instead of worrying about trying to find porn related to it.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 7:28:47 PM

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Domming is domming no matter what a Domme is having her sub perform...wouldn't you agree?
We can't judge what is not dominating on a particular D/s relationship...(I'm just saying)...

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 7:31:16 PM

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why do I have an icecream cone? I hate vanilla

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 7:37:39 PM

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I've had no problem with my slaves thinking I was less dominant when I desired sex. They are mine, their bodies are mine to do with as I please. Fox is on top if I desire him on top, and it never changes his opinion on how dominant I am. He can be under me, on top of me, next to me... regardless our relationship doesnt change by his physical orientation. I saw when and where, and he says yes maam.

Any sub or slave that believed that there was an act that made me "less dominant" would be dismissed then and there as incompatible. I am not a big walking stereotype, and if thats really what they are looking for I wont waste their time. I do other awful undomly things like laundry and dishes as well... so who fucks who should be the least of their worries.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 7:49:20 PM

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I explain it thus: my slaveboy is my property, for my use. He is a vessel for me to fill and empty and fill again, with whatever I wish, in the manner of my choosing. If I desire to fuck him I will. He will submit. I do not have to conform to his expectations. I will address his needs and desires properly, but I am not a cardboard cut-out Domme. I will not do it like they do it in the pornos. I'll do it my way.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 7:53:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I've had no problem with my slaves thinking I was less dominant when I desired sex. They are mine, their bodies are mine to do with as I please. Fox is on top if I desire him on top, and it never changes his opinion on how dominant I am. He can be under me, on top of me, next to me... regardless our relationship doesnt change by his physical orientation. I saw when and where, and he says yes maam.

Any sub or slave that believed that there was an act that made me "less dominant" would be dismissed then and there as incompatible. I am not a big walking stereotype, and if thats really what they are looking for I wont waste their time. I do other awful undomly things like laundry and dishes as well... so who fucks who should be the least of their worries.

DV

Well said DV.

It's funny, I've gotten hate mail the last day or so because I put a journal entry that says 'I'm sick and that it's too bad I don't have a Domme who was helping to nurse me back to health.' I might as well have just written 'All women are whores and need to get in the kitchen and make me some tacos.' I've had multiple Dommes ask me why in the world a Domme would nurse me back to health. I just laugh because, as much as we joke, there are people on both sides who have their heads up their asses when it comes to making 'real' relationships out of what we do.

I don't need a woman all leathered up, screaming and beating me to know that I'm a slave. I'm that way with whomever I'm with whether she's weilding a whip or a remote control wearing leather or jeans and a t shirt. Very simple, very real.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 7:57:06 PM

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"'All women are whores and need to get in the kitchen and make me some tacos."

LOL!!!!

Right away, Sir!

*hurries to kitchen*

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 7:58:41 PM

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Good thing I scrolled up and read the content.

Otherwise, I was going "wtf, over?"

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 8:01:31 PM

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<<<< Wants to know what that wayword sick submissive said to the wonderous domly domina's with no heart... or brain. (Well, he does have a mouth on him and it is often funny! I could use a laugh.)

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 8:01:56 PM

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Well, some of us don't like tacos.

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"'All women are whores and need to get in the kitchen and make me some tacos."

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 8:06:17 PM

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why do I have an icecream cone? I hate vanilla

The ice cream cone, and matching vanilla title, reflect how many posts you've made. Don't worry though, for as long as I've been here, there hasn't been any dick measuring.

There I go, being phallocentric. I consider the issue brought forth by Gypzy small potatoes compared to the plight of women over the last decades. This thread also dealt with the semantics of penis-centric lingo.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 8:21:29 PM

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I wrote this in my profile:

4/17/2009 11:40:28 PM: I hate being sick. Sadly I have no Domme to pamper and nurse me back to health :(

I've gotten a few unsolicited responses about how I'm not a real slave because I would let a Domme nurse me back to health or have any expectation of such treatment. Kind of goes back to the thread earlier this week about sick subs and *gasp* allowing them a day off or whatever.

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 9:47:16 PM

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re post #16
small potatoes???
....well I shall start a post to address global mutilation..rape .murder..and domination of women by phallocentricity

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RE: male fukking female as domming but f to m?? - 4/19/2009 10:21:59 PM

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dot dot dot, I'm a little lost about the point here

Ditto! I am re-reading it to try and figure out what it actually said?!

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