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What is always humiliating to you? - 5/4/2009 4:43:13 PM

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Some forms of humiliation become less, well, humiliating, as one grows accustomed to them. Others really never lose their sting. Over the course of 15 years or so, these are some of the things whose psychological bite has really never dulled:

Feet in my face--I know a lot of subs pretty much live for foot worship. For me, anything involving somebody else having their feet in my face is absolutely mortifying. People make fun of me because sometimes when it's happening I blush radioactively.

Nose pushed into floor, wall, etc-- The same as above, except I don't know anyone who specifically likes this. Pushing my nose into the carpet always makes me think "Oh man, I hope they deep steam cleaned this very recently...."

Being naked while the Woman is clothed--Self-explanatory, and pretty standard. I think this is one of those things most people eventually get used to, but for me it tends to drain the bluster right out of me.

Subtle public humiliation--I'm not talking about something that makes a spectacle of me. The ironic thing about being a spectacle is that people develop a kind of weird, snickering, appreciation for you. It's like when I was pledging my frat and had to get on a table in the lunchroom and sing. If you're really flamboyant, people will play along. And I...well there's no good way to put this other than "I'm kind of an attention whore to start with". But there are few things more embarrassing than having just two or three people behind me in line see me having my face casually slapped, or a few strangers sitting nearby at a bar hearing me called "slut".

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/4/2009 5:13:41 PM

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You mean things like standing in line at the store, and the pet starts getting anxious and fidgety and unruly, and I say to him loud enough (but not too loud) that the people around can hear "Behave yourself or we're putting your panties back and you're not getting a spanking tonight." I swear an airplane could land in the fog with as bright red as he gets. ;)

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/4/2009 5:20:17 PM

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Slipping on a puddle while coming into class late, and bashing my head on the door...

O wait... this is kinkytime?

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/4/2009 5:57:56 PM

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Good evening!
1)Being totally nekkid. Topless okay, but not totally. Having that tummy pudge from three kids well....problem is-what Master says goes. So I try and hide by crossing my hands in front of my belly..until I am told "arms down" or "incover yourself". ACK!!!

2)Having Daddy see EVERYTHING. As in nekkid AND in those wonderful slave positions. Unless I have my blindfold on, it is soooo embarrassing. Being blindfolded, I cannot see his reaction therefore I cannot have those million of thoughts thru my head.

That's about it. Daddy isn't into humiliation much. Good luck!
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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/4/2009 6:28:32 PM

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I guess what embarrasses me the most is being complimented. I hate taking credit for things, and dread things like employee appreciation dinners/awards banquets and such. Never did like it.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/4/2009 8:16:45 PM

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begging! i hate it and it's the only time i hesitate is when Master tells me to beg.

compliments especially from Master always make me blush and stutter.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/4/2009 9:49:39 PM

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NUDITY i'd rather do ANYthing

but be naked, and begging...i wouldnt even know what to say i don't think.

Edited to add: The magnitude of the nudity thing is pretty big for me. In fact i find it almost impossible to enjoy sex because i am so worried about how freakin bad look. i have droopy skin, cause i was really fat and lost about 80ish pounds gained about 25 to 30 back and trying to take that off now...but i look like someone popped me with a pin and the skin just went south. Seriously its AWFUL.... i wonder if i jiggle too much...or how bad does the "hang" look to him from that angle? What REALLY sucks is i remember NOT looking like this, 25 years and 3 kids ago lol. **ok end of psycho rant**

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/5/2009 2:58:24 PM

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Subtle public humiliation is delicious
Begging is rather difficult for me
Being totally turned on and get told: not now! is very dark
Having to tell my desires i will be shy and unclear from embarrasment

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/5/2009 3:08:25 PM

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For me there's nothing worse, and I do mean nothing worse than when the son of a bitch makes you stand there naked and he looks at you up and down, or circles you, completely focusing on your body. oh my god. I have been known to totally cave in and crouch down to the floor in a crumpled mess hoping for mercy, only to be told "get back up". hate it, hate it, hate it.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/5/2009 3:55:37 PM

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I can be naked so happily, but being the focus of attention freaks me out. I don't mind my stretch marks or baby belly, or really anything physical about me when I am just going about my business, doing chores, etc. Being in a rope harness makes me self-conscious and aware of my nudity and flaws. It is as though somehow being shown off or focused on I am aware that I should be sexier or something. Being made to masturbate in front of Master is so much worse. Worse than that is when he has someone else watch. Begging is also really, really hard for me.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/5/2009 6:32:31 PM

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quote:

Having to tell my desires i will be shy and unclear from embarrasment

This is a biggie for me too.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/5/2009 8:01:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

Slipping on a puddle while coming into class late, and bashing my head on the door...

O wait... this is kinkytime?

Heh...yeah my thoughts were along this line, too - falling in public, unintentionally. It's happened a time or two...or three...

Ker plop, there she goes again...

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/6/2009 12:59:09 AM

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For me, it's wearing clothes generally and rolling up sleeves specifically. For some reason, I'm the opposite in that I am at my most proud nude. Clothes knock me back a bit, especially when dominated that way, and I never roll up sleeves on any shirt when I wear one. It's violating, like torture. Don't even ask me why! I don't know.

But of course, I know of NO dude who is not at least a touch humiliated if he's in pain or out in the cold and is forced to stand hands down and be a focal point for an audience!

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/6/2009 1:57:51 AM

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public eating. especially if its a first date or whatever. i just know that im going to make an ass of myself by going to answer a question and some food that wasnt there a second ago comes flying out. or having your food fall out of your mouth as you close it and land where ever it will. when i shift on my seat cause of nerves and wouldnt you know it..the seat is going to be made of that special material that makes that loud everyone in the place can hear fart type noise.....

or being asked the simplest of questions and drawing a complete blank...
gag reflex...
and ofcourse normal human bodily functions....
beign in a serious cituation and then all of a sudden bursting out in laughter that you cant stop or control and the more you try to stop it the more hysterical the laughter becomes
not having spell check
paying someone what you think is a nice compliment only to find out later they were offended or thought that you were hitting on them
being naked on a bad day

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/9/2009 8:09:49 AM

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being treated as an insulant child; it's a deal-breaker type of humiliation.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/16/2009 4:25:19 PM

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Being ordered to serve her friends naked. Being dominated in public (as someone said, face slapped, being ordered and following that order).

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/16/2009 4:36:11 PM

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I'm interested that so many people hate the full nudity bit...I do too! I thought I was the only one...it's comforting in a way.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/16/2009 5:22:01 PM

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I'm interested that so many people hate the full nudity bit...I do too! I thought I was the only one...it's comforting in a way.

Nuditity in front of others in my own home does not bother me. However, nudity in public (like in a club, dungeon, etc ) does bother me. BUT, nudist colonies do NOT bother me. I can quite happily be naked there.

Don't figure.

As for what would be humiliating to me; I can't really answer that. I have not had much experience with some of the more 'humiliation aspects' that some use.

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/16/2009 8:06:49 PM

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I'm interested that so many people hate the full nudity bit...I do too! I thought I was the only one...it's comforting in a way.

Oh yeah.... i'd rather sever a limb then be naked in front of ANYONE

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RE: What is always humiliating to you? - 5/17/2009 6:26:06 AM

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1) If my clothing is mismatched, dirty, wrinkled, inappropriate for the occasion or just plain doesn't look right.

2) Having a bad hair day

3) In need of a shower or shave, dirty fingernails, other grooming issues

Those are the only things I can think of which are consistently or "always" humiliating.

I can think of vanilla things which would be humiliating but which don't happen.
I suppose revealing those would be humiliating so I won't do it here...
Somebody please stop me if I'm getting recursive....

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