IronBear
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Joined: 6/19/2005 From: Beenleigh, Qld, Australia Status: offline
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I'm going to respond to this as though it were a slave who either begged release or just left. After all slaves are a subset of submissives). Depending on the reasons for leaving and not discussing it with me, and depending on how she approached me, I may take a chance and give her another try on the conditions that any further issues which may make her need time out temporarily or even permanently, she talk to me first. This would also apply in a modifies sense if she had begged release. However if I was not satisfied, I probably not even discuss taking her back. On the other side ass to the OP making contact or leaving things be would I imagine, depend on her feelings towards the Dominant . In all cases, this will vary from person to person and I for one am nowhere wise enough to place her head or the head of her ex "One" on my shoulders, see their thoughts and emotions or walk a country mile in their moccasins. Mayhap I am just wise enough to understand this and not try.
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