DavanKael
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I think that SlaveBlutarsky makes the extremely important point about health. I've been both underweight and overweight (Luckily, and knock-on-wood, neither extremely so) in my life and it's just not good for a person to diverge beyond a certain point. Luckily and, again, knock-on-wood, I am within the 'acceptable' range for weight at my height. Lest there begin arguments about big bonedness, genetics predisposing us in a direction or another, etc., I'm going to say: come on, excuses aside, we all know. While I won't venerate people choosing to be any size in particular (And, just because someone's big doesn't make them a bb whatever), I generally don't make comment on people (Unless I'm taking a cheap shot at someone who's affronted me personally, though I can usually snipe more creatively than about weight but it's always a good low blow if the person's got an issue) but I also know what I find acceptable in terms of partnership material. A partner need not be perfect and, truly, I'd prefer a few extra pounds than a few too few but there's attractive and there's not and I know what it is for me. And no, I don't think bdsm-ers are more tolerant of extremities of weight than any other group. Davan
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