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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/24/2009 9:05:06 PM

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I don't see the issue is whether or not the men who call blushes' Dial-A-Wank line think they're really talking to the woman in the picture. Having worked as an adult phone actress and an exotic dancer, I can believe it's safe to say those men are not calling a *person*. They are calling a service provider. They desire a service and are willing to pay for said service. Frankly, I think every dominant woman on this site who has ever complained about receiving wank-fodder email in her in-box should be grateful for the ladies who provide the service and thankful that those men are not here, sending their salacious email to her.

Most of the women in this thread have said at one time or another that if a man isn't serious about a relationship, or is a one-trick pony who only wants someone to cater to his fetish, he should go find a pro. Well, the guys calling the phone lines are doing exactly that. So, it's pretty damn hypocritical to criticize the professional women who are providing the means for those men to get their fantasies fulfilled. Those who take issue with the process, including creating a fantasy character, can STFU. Or, if they prefer, the rest of us can start referring our wankers to them. Perhaps that would cut down on the complaints of pages upon pages of idiotic email and the threads devoted to frustrations which arise from the aforementioned pages.

As for the OP, I don't have any advice for how best to handle financial domination phone calls since I've never done any. I would suggest checking out HP's website and other websites that cater to the fetish. There are also several videos on YouTube that cater to financial domination. It's always good business to research your market, no matter what that market is. In any case, you'll have to find a style that works for you and your clients. I wish you good luck.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 5:01:54 AM

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Sylvere your post says it is in reply to me but I don't understand why. I didn't criticize proffesional phone sex operators I stated that they were a service [a fantasy] that men knowingly and willingly engage with.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 5:31:11 AM

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Starbuck - Sylvere used "fast reply" - that's what the initials "FR" stand for at the beginning of the post. It means that she's not replying to anyone in particular, but to the thread, in general. Some people don't always make it clear that they are using "fast reply," so it can sometimes leave you scratching your head; but, when in doubt, just assume that's what someone has done.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 5:33:32 AM

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Oh I see I didn't realise that's what the letters stood for I thought it might be a title or something. Cheers Venatrix that's a much appreciated headsup. And sylvere my apologies.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 5:40:30 AM

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My pleasure, Starbuck. I didn't know what it meant, either, when I first started posting. I thought it stood for something rude; sort of like "eff you."

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 5:46:15 AM

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Actually Venatrix I wonder if you could do me a massive favour. I submitted a couple of photos to collar me but they were both rejected, it's certainly not the content neither were risque but one has a white outline around the photo and the other is slightly askance. I'm something of a phillistine when it comes to technology so I was wandering if that would qualify for refusal. [I know this isn't realy the place to ask the question but still..]

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 6:07:47 AM

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Those don't sound like typical reasons for rejection. Were you shown in any form of bondage? I know that there's a stipulation about no "extreme" bondage, or words to that effect, but what constitutes "extreme," I have no idea. Although I've had no difficulties, I've heard others have had their photos rejected for no apparent reason, have re-submitted them, and they've gone through just fine. Perhaps another try is warranted?

Anyway, a good day to all. Time to start getting ready for work in this neck of the woods.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 6:11:57 AM

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No nothing like that Venatrix they're fairly normal i've used them on birchplace with no complaints. I'll try resubmission it's worth a shot, thanks for replying to everything i'm very grateful. Have a good day at work as well.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 8:10:34 AM

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Starbuck, there are specific rules about photos, and sometimes what is acceptable at other sites isn't here... it's a tad arcane, but the photo folks should be able to help you---did you get a note saying why you were rejected?

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 8:46:08 AM

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Just a generic one Lady listing a number of reasons it might of been rejected. There is nothing contentious about them they're pretty innocuous so I wonder if perhaps because one is slightly askew that it is interpreted as being out of focus? I'm not sure but I resubmitted them just in case.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 8:48:42 AM

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Out of focus is a biggie, Starbuck. If a part of the face is blurred out, okay, but if the whole pic doesn't "read", it will be tossed back.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 8:51:11 AM

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But that's the thing it's not actually out of focus the pictures very sharp it's just slightly wonky I must have not had it perfectly straight when I scanned it. We shall see though Lady cheers for helping out.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 6/25/2009 12:12:02 PM

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Fox I think that when a man rings up for phone sex it is a concious decision to indulge in a fantasy it's not important what the other person is as long as she is fulfilling that fantasy in a convincing way. The difference between this and trolling the gay chat rooms is, as you say, that people do not actively participate in your fantasy but in fact think they are building something real which is cruel. I'm not having a go at you i just think there is a difference [perhaps slight] between the two.

This is true - it is all about an "Alfa Woman" fantasy and a lot of men are willing to pay for just that: the "fantasy". If the speaker is not a Mistress cam Woman, the callers know there's a high probability her content is fake. However, they do appreciate the call even more when they know the woman really is an alfa Female with kept male slaves.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 5/19/2010 5:13:49 AM

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I had forgotten all about this thread until RedMagic posted it in regards to a woman who wanted to do her own phone sex lines.

Here are my updates:

I absolutely know Hypnotic Princess is still doing wonderfully on NF, as I've kept track. My NF characters are doing well. They were doing much better before Niteflirt took a huge dive; everyone who worked there was hit hard. Besides the characters I play, I have another girl who works for me on NF, and has been for about a year now. Another lady wants to interview with me today. I have a fetish related phonesex website I am about to launch, and I also work as a "phone sex domina" at the top "mistress phone sex" company. This is a company that pays very well, has loyal (and obedient!) clients, and is very difficult to get hired in to. I'm doing well financially, but could be doing better if I worked smarter and harder.

So far as playing a domme goes, I do very well. My "slaves" think that I can read their minds; but basically, I know what submissives want, and that's what I give them. Since I've been "in the lifestyle" for several years, I'm able to talk knowledgably about their many fetishes, something a "fake" domme can't do. *lol* Many phone sex mistresses think being a domme is about yelling and name calling, but the men who call the services I work are more sophisticated than that, and expect better.

I'm still learning, and financial domination seems to be more a fantasy for most, and a reality for very few. But every once in a while I (and the other girls who do this type of work) get very very lucky, and that's when it really gets exciting!

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 5/19/2010 7:17:52 AM

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There is already a thread on "Jobs for dominant women." This is a thread about "Financial domination." Stay on topic, folks.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 5/19/2010 6:14:15 PM

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Yes but, the thread got changed over by that madamnx lady into something completely different and kind of took off from there. I just came back to say that it is not only possible, but very probable that a submissive can make a very good phone domme. In fact the one company I work for prefers to hire subs as dominas. Something about us making sure our customers are always satisfied. *lol*

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 5/20/2010 4:58:49 AM

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Awwww...you're so cute! *pinches it's little cheeks*

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 5/20/2010 11:44:16 AM

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Now I know that Zeta doesn't have a sexy avatar like I do, but I'm pretty sure that everyone can see that post right there up above.

If your post was in the three pages of off topic posts that were removed, then this is your notice: Stay on topic.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 5/20/2010 2:42:55 PM

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I LOVE financial slavery. I do it all and have for many years.

I like to give my subbies little "errands" to do before they send me something.
They are so cute.

Most of my subbies turn out to be loyal friends because I take care of men who take care of me.

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RE: Financial Domination Fetish - 5/24/2010 6:21:23 PM

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I LOVE talking to a guy about kinky things...especially at night when the day is winding down and all is quiet.
I will talk about anything...except torturing animals and will not talk about children...everything else is GAME ON.

It sure is more exciting than watching tv or playing solitare.
Some men are fascinating! I even learn some things from time to time.

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