DesFIP
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Joined: 11/25/2007 From: Apple County NY Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: sweetgirlserves DesFIP, Seems from what you've posted in this thread and another one recently, you are always on the look out, concerned that your 'dom' might be 'fucking up'. If this is the case, then certainly, my definition would not apply. I am glad that you are intelligent enough to help the poor male you have submitted to from constantly making mistakes. He must be so very grateful to you. ~sgs "D" types are not infallible and not omnipotent. My role is to make his life easier. If I don't point out a mistake coming down the road, then I've failed him. Your post was rude. Beyond that, you're poking at someone that's been in the same D/s relationship for (if I remember correctly) for more than a decade. The bottom line is that you can espose on what it is to be a submissive or slave, but unless you have the ability to make it work within a relationship, it's just hot air. And as for your comment regarding subs and slaves, I disagree. Master assumes that I will obey. I don't choose whether I will obey every time he asks me to do something. If I don't obey, Master will deal with the situation as he sees fit. And if I suddenly decide not to submit, it is not okay. Matter of fact, if I suddenly decide that I won't submit then something is seriously wrong in our relationship and it should have been communicated. Thanks Oside and agirl. I was out all day and missed this 'sweet' comment from the sweetgirl. Sounds like she needs a sugar fix. Actually I don't think he's likely to fuck up, he does. He worries about too much power going to his head, making him so arrogant that he'll make bad decisions for those under his care. It is, in fact, one of the things that makes him such a good dominant, the fact that he knows he isn't divine. I am not allowed to worship him or see him as superhuman. He made that very clear in the beginning. The problem with putting mere mortals on pedestals is that the clay feet will make them fall off every time. The solution was for him not to climb up there. Our relationship is not quite a decade, we need a couple more years for that. But my respect for his abilities just grows, which includes my respect for him not thinking he is omniscient. It is because he knows he is fallible that he takes steps to avoid making mistakes. And sometimes those steps include having me give a less than flattering opinion. Thankfully he isn't so insecure that being told he's missed something and needs to rethink the situation would threaten him.
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