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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 7:40:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

. . . . And raincoats. Does it ever stop raining in that blasted place? And is it possible to go anywhere in Dublin to buy a pint of milk without it taking an exchange of at least 5,000 words each side? Jesus, can they talk in Dublin.

you've not ever sat down to dinner with any of my family. the women...good gods. most of them can keep up with 4 trains of conversation, never missing a beat, with word gusts up to 120 a minute.

i get a headache thinking about it. (and the irish side is NOT that side of the family! *g*)

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 7:51:24 PM

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A Real Domme self -destructs after listening to Ode to Joy.... because they are incapable of feeling joy or love.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 8:09:06 PM

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I have come to this conclusion. I do not care what anyone else believes about me. I am a Dominant female living my life the way that I wish too. My sub recognizes me as Dominant and that is all that matters to me. What these nameless, faceless people behind a computer think of me is of no concern. I feel the same way about the groups in my area. They can either accept me for who I am or stay away from me. How I live my life is my business and no one elses and I am in a very happy fulfilling relationship. Many people cannot make that same claim.

So I guess it boils down too, do you care what others think? or do you care more about what you think of yourself?

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 8:16:29 PM

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Right on!!!!

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 8:23:00 PM

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There's a munch in Dublin? Dublin, CA? Where is this munch and how do us Fake Dommes find it?!

Yeah, I'm a Fake Domme too! I admit it.....you can even ask my fake subs!

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 8:45:45 PM

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I've not read all of the replies but I find myself wondering how this is different from folks having all sorts of wacky unrealistic expecatitions about the people they claim to wish to be in relationships with.
A lot of people really have a huge issue with the demarcation between reality and fantasy.
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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 8:47:03 PM

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Hey, how about this one: Femdoms don't have sex. Definitely not with men. Definitely not with subs.

That's the one I was pondering the other day. There are times when I don't even want to admit to having a huge cocked boyfriend, and no particular d/s component to our relationship - I don't want people to think it undomly of me. But when my sub/husband sweetly says "I am going to clean the whole house while you're visiting your boyfriend." I feel a bit vindicated.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 10:35:55 PM

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This is a brilliant thread. I kept thinking of things, and then someone would say them. (grin)

How about "If you happen to orgasm best in the missionary position, you're not a twue dominant woman!"

(I do. But my internal plumbing is a little screwy anyways.)

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 10:38:45 PM

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Did someone mention that real domina's don't give blow jobs because it is an act of submission? I always liked that one. She must be on top when having sex too. And all domina's like oral sex from their slave... for hours.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 10:44:14 PM

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Sorry, but none of you are real femdoms not least until you've made a pilgrimage to The Munch in Dublin to be baptized.... in your boots of course.

Is smacking the shit out of lobo part of the deal? Otherwise, I'm not doing it.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/22/2009 10:49:03 PM

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Oh, well hopefully I will eventually find a male sub that is interested in an old fake like me.

That should be quite easy. All you need to do is find a fake sub.

Finally, a position to which I can thrive.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 3:40:05 AM

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So I guess it boils down too, do you care what others think? or do you care more about what you think of yourself?

~Lashra

I agree with Lashra, I don't give a rats ass what people think of Me, I've been told I'm not a real parent for not sending My UM to piblic school and home schooling her, not a real woman because I didn't throw her out at age so I could go hang dog in bars or take up with some worthless piece of crap, not a real spiritual being because I don't need community to commune--I am what I am, take it or leave it. I am a female Dominant, captain of the ship and as long as the submissive I select understands, accepts and is happy with that--great--if not, I'm not the one changing.

Its noble to attempt to chage misconceptions, however, I don't have time to wait, I have a life to live.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 4:35:22 AM

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So, you all really believe that only one side of this has unrealistic expectations?

Don't get me wrong... I love a good "bitch fest" thread as much as anyone. (It helps keep us jaded types from forgetting we have to work at it to earn your much needed attentions.) But please, remember, we see a lot of stuff from our side too that isn't all that pretty.

But that should probably be a seperate thread.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 6:16:09 AM

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I think that this is the stereo typical image the interent and media has given the domme just my 1.2 cents worth

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 7:24:14 AM

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So, you all really believe that only one side of this has unrealistic expectations?

Don't get me wrong... I love a good "bitch fest" thread as much as anyone. (It helps keep us jaded types from forgetting we have to work at it to earn your much needed attentions.) But please, remember, we see a lot of stuff from our side too that isn't all that pretty.

But that should probably be a seperate thread.

I'd actually encourage you to write such a thread. I've often considered the topic Myself. Something to the tune of "The Illusion of Perfection" or some such thing. I have no reason to believe that any of us are without flaws, issues, or problems. I'm far from perfect and I make that truth known quite often. I've even been known to show My ass (in the non literal sense) once or twice. I've been known to have to apologize for it, too.

When you do start such a thread, I'll be happy to add My own thoughts as to how the perception came to be that we are anything other than....... human.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 10:01:58 AM

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I like being imaginary.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 10:15:58 AM

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I like being imaginary.

I imagine you would Lady H!

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 11:17:52 AM

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“any other misconceptions”? No! There may be something in the thing… Some psychologists claim that the sadism is a matter of fact fetishism and women have fetish never. In fact the women like to dominate the marriage secretly according to my experiences, but the cane never occurs to them unfortunately.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 1:35:02 PM

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Are there any other misconceptions about "real female dominant" that should be addressed?

Akasha

Well ... It was once put to me that FemDoms were simply powerful women who couldn't find a man powerful enough to overthrow them and so became Doms in their own right in order to satisfy their overwhelming desire for power exchange.

This same man believed he could topple any female dominant given time alone with her because deep down .. all women wished to submit to a "greater" power.

So Ladies .... you just haven't met the right man yet.

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RE: Femdoms don't exist. You heard it here. - 6/23/2009 1:41:53 PM

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By the original poster's logic, humans should submit to horses.

Where do people need guns? Dangerous big cities, the woods where dangerous wild animals live...Many anti gun people seem to have a method of self defense that consists solely of hoping that nothing bad ever happens.

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