Aswad
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ORIGINAL: azjojoba Do any of you have suggestions about prescription diet pills. Staying away from them is generally the best suggestion, particularly when the issue is purely cosmetic. The only ones I know of that have a long term effect are available by specialist prescription only. And they entail far more discomfort than that weekly trip to the gym and the daily walk. Instead, start working hip, neck, back, buttocks, abdomen and pectorals, one 1-2 hour session once a week. Take a 20 minute brisk walk each day. Eliminate high fructose corn syrup from your diet, but otherwise leave it as-is. Anyway, the muscles I mentioned are all part of the core stability musculature, so you can work them as often as once a week without reducing the bulk muscle gain rate, and their mass is part of what absorbs impact during intense play. This means you will have a wider safety margin in the case of accidental hits (and regular life accidents, I might add), as well as being able to handle harder play (without losing sensitivity). Finally, as far as weight is concerned, your core stability musculature eats calories on stand-by, and more while moving around, so increasing its bulk mass will increase your baseline metabolism. If you can spare the time, attend a bellydance course for men. That sets you apart from the mass of subs out there. It's also great for your endurance, coordination and general fitness. You burn calories while you practice, and you learn a really interesting, traditional style of dance for men and women in the process. Try working on not locking your wrist, as well. Men lock joints instinctively before the joint is loaded, while women do not; this is a part of the reason why women tend to be more graceful than men, even with unilateral movements. It's easy to suppress if a lady doesn't like it, so nothing to lose and something to gain. Finally, when you've reached your goal and got the bellydancing down pat, you can modify one of the traditional shows to encompass BDSM symbolism, outfits and so forth, maybe also get an acquaintance in the scene to help you out with getting the details down, feedback and such. Put a bit of thought and effort into it. Then perform it at a club night, event or something like that. Perfect opportunity to show off some fairly unique skills, while also being comfortable with your physique. If a sub girl did a show like that at an event I was attending, she'd certainly be catching my eye. I may be wrong, but I'm thinking that goes for sub lads and catching the ladies' eyes, too. And just about everyone appreciates hard work and genuine effort. Health, al-Aswad.
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"If God saw what any of us did that night, he didn't seem to mind. From then on I knew: God doesn't make the world this way. We do." -- Rorschack, Watchmen.
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