Rainfire
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Wow, fantastic thread, Lushy!!!! Some who read this may know of my youngest monster, he was diagnosed with PDD (Pervasive Developmental Delay, a form of autism though his initial DX was Asperger's as well), ADHD and ODD (Opposition-Defiant Disorder). He also has a non-specified learning disability. I've been through a lot with him (he's getting ready to turn 17 in 6 weeks) and it never stops, even though he's now in California with his dad. I'm the one who gets the calls "MOMMMMMMMMMMMM!!! Dad won't listen to me and doesn't understand what the hell I'm trying to explain!" Then I get a call going "DO YOU KNOW WHAT YOUR SON JUST DID????" (Although in honesty, there is an issue with the ex denying that there is anything different about our youngest, especially since they are 2 peas in a pod and that it just might mean there's something "wrong" with him....) My current project is that Mr. Smarties might have ASD as well.... he was placed on an Individidual Education Plan at school this year and we are in the process of getting him evaluated by a specialist. However, since he's my stepson and not biological son, while I can relate certain information as his caregiver, that's about it. There's some dispute that it's either ADHD or ASD, me, since they go hand in hand a lot, I wonder if it's both. Like holly described, there can be a rapid shift in temperament and I'd swear I'm dealing with a little Jeckyll and Hyde; sweet and loving one moment and then the biggest little snot on the planet. Unfortunately, there is a lot going on the mother's side so it could also be him acting out to deal with circumstances, we just don't know. Holly, LO sounds like Mr. Smarties. One thing that was mentioned at the parents intake appointment last week was that especially boys like ours have extremely short term memories, so even though it seems like they're just ignoring us or not listening, it's the way their brains are wired. Long term memory is good, but the immediate short term memory? Forget it..... literally.
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