Frankd
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kiska has got a very valid point.
It is true that consent is important in bdsm or D/s, and it allows us to do to one another, things that would be unacceptable in the vanilla world.
It is also true that taking safety and health precautions before performing some "delicate" lifestyle scenes helps, but where do you draw the line?
No matter what the precautions, most people would agree that nailing someone's ball to the wall remains a serious and risky understaking, in terms of the possible consequences.
If you spank a submissive and you don't do it right, she may suffer serious bruises.
But if something goes unexpectedly wrong while you are nailing a submissive's balls to the wall, the consequences to the "victim" could be horrendous.
I like to think that no one is unwise enough to feel that they are so experienced and safe, that they could not possibly make such an unexpected mistake.
From a logical standpoint, when you look at the tremendous and possible consequences of such a risky "play", mutual consent and the intense need for the Master/Mistress to satisfy their kink are necessarily conditions, but unfortunately they are not enough to justify taking such a risk.
The missing condition that no one has talked about is the necessity of the act.
When you get off from spanking your sub, spanking does not have to be necessary, because the consequences would be minimal, should something go wrong.
But when you are going to take the tremendous risk of nailing someone's balls to the wall, you want to take such a huge risk because it's absolutely necessary.
There is a difference between just feeling the urge to satisfy a kink, and having a necessary reason for performing an act, that goes beyond satisfying a kink.
This is not a matter of whether one is tolerant with play that they don't fancy, or not.
This is matter of whether about anything goes, once both participants consent to it, and they take safety precautions.
I suggest that my answer is negative, even when both conditions are met...especially when the consequences of a possibly mistake could be horrendous, and there is no real necessity in taking such a risk, besides just satisfying a kink.
If you are going to take a tremendous risk, even a rare one, at least make sure it is a necessity and it's more than just satisfying a kink.
Just my opinion...
< Message edited by Frankd -- 4/15/2006 1:34:22 PM >
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RE: Nailing his balls to the wall...literally - 
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