LaTigresse
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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx It's 5.30 pm. My daughter rings. She’s been at Ad’s. (He goes away with the Army in nine days time). Sh’e well kind of weird. Says: he asked me to play the Play Station mom. I didn’t want to. I hadn’t come all this way for that. So he’s kicked me out. I’m at the station and I have missed my train. I stuff most of a loaf. My logic is that it will absorb the pear cider. And drive to pick her up. Yet again. She has an IQ equivalent to mine. She’s likely also to be an extravert-intuitive-thinker-perceiver. Just like me. And despite all my efforts I cannot save her from being a submissive female. habitually she takes hour to dress. She will do anything Ads asks of her. She blames herself for everything that goes wrong. Longs to be his girl friend again instead of his friend. Answers the phone to his every call. Loves him so much there isn’t room in her head for anything or anyone else. And I cannot save her. So I get her home and she goes out again. To some do along the river. I know she is lying. 3.30 am this morning. She rings again. She says god mom you don't understand it's horrible. I shaking cut and bruised. He's dragged me along the pavement. The skin is missing from my elbows mom and I can't walk. I dunno what to do. and so on. I call a cab and pre-pay by credit card. And give that taxi her mobile so they can track her down. By the time she is home I realise she is in a worse stae than I thought. It's been a case of real bodily harm. Her phone rings. It's him. I swear to go I will call the Police I say and get him kicked off the Army programme if she answers him. He texts are you ok come back to me. She closes her door and rings him back. Then cries because he says ring me back in ten minutes but then he switches his phone off. It's abuse I know. But although I can bathe her cuts, hug her and calm her down I can't change her submissive nature. I see myself when I was young and knew no different. I am my 28 yo daughter's mother before I am her friend. I always will be, regardless of age. If the above happened in my world, my daughter would have been taken (kicking and screaming if necessary) to the nearest ER. Charges would have been filed and the perpetrator would be wise to hope and pray that the law (MPs) got to him before my daughter's mother and stepfather.
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one! Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!
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