pixidustpet
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prinsexx... are there "mandatory report" laws in the UK? i'm asking because yes, i know you are a therapist, and here in the US if you are a person in authority (teacher, police officer, doctor, therapist) and you do NOT report abuse, you are held liable also for the repeated injuries of the victim. and no...no matter HOW sexy your daughter dresses, or how much she wishes to please this young male, it is NOT submission to be non-consentually injured by him. and her calling you in tears after he's injured her, indicates she did not consent for him to treat her this way. if she/you are not willing to report this, and are not willing to have her talk with someone who is neutral and able to see the situation without the anger (justifiably, from you) or fear (from your daughter...fear of what he may do, or fear of being alone), then get her information on what submission *is*. violence doesnt stop. it escalates. i have a daughter, too, and she was involved with someone who isolated her from her family, and her friends (she was only allowed to hang out with him and HIS friends)...till she came home and found him screwing one of their female friends on HER couch. that was the point she threw him out of HER apartment. she remember that she did indeed have a backbone, and had watched ME go through the same kinda shit with her bio-dad. and knew she didnt want that for herself. i wish you luck. kitten
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