Blaakmaan
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ORIGINAL: barelynangel When i was owned, my Master was VERY integrated so to speak into my appearance and weight. Because he was my Master, he created the environment within which i existed. If he wanted me to lose weight (FOR WHATEVER REASON) he made sure his control of me included reaching and maintaining this determination of his for me. Some days it would mean telling me what i would be eating in a day, most days it included him telling me to go work out or going with me. Some days he slapped food out of my mouth, some days he set a regime for the week. ALl in all, he was in control of me, he was my authority, and so because of this he set the environment that would best produce the results he wanted. Some days i rebelled, some days i simply did what i was supposed too, some days i enjoyed it some days i hated it, but his strength is what kept me reaching and maintaining his expectations and standards and determinations for me. Some days i got my behind beat for not obeying other days i was rewarded for accomplishing something he wanted, some days there was no mention of it at all. There were rules, expectations, decisions, consequences, rewards etc. BUt mostly it was all simply incorporated into my day as existing as his slave. I've never done it to make him happy, i did it because he expected it and determined it and yes, set the environment due to being the Master and the one in control of me that he decided i would accomplish this under his authority. All in all, i was his slave, his determinations for me didn't need my approval. He could do as he wished. I never get how women get all upset cause a guy who is THE MASTER chooses for her to change. To me part of being a slave is living by his determination and recognizing if he didn't want ME, i wouldn't be kept lol. I just don't understand how people freak out cause a Man who is an owner and Master makes a determination for their slave that they will change something about themselves --- to me as an owner they don't need a reason. I actually am seeking right now a local person who could help me with getting back in shape because i suck at doing it on my own and i do better when i have an authority figure setting the expectations and standards that don't allow me to make excuses to myself --- i am soo not pippylongstocking -- when its time for bed i don't spank myself til i go, i simply keep doing what i want to do lol. To me, a Master is a Master, he either steps up to the plate as same and not become all wishywashy because a subject may be taboo (i.e., making their slave DO something like well lose weight or stop smoking) because god forbid its not a nice thing to make someone do unless they wanna. angel I hear you, angel. But it seems to me, from the responses, that there is a serious disagreement on the question whether a Dom/Master should endeavor to change something fundamental about his/her sub/slave, like his/her weight, just because it would make the sub/slave more physically appealing to the Dom/Master. I don't think the disagreement is so much about whether the Dom/Master can require the sub/slave to lose weight for any reason--I think the general consensus is that he/she can--but whether or not he/she ought to do it. In purely practical terms, I think it would be much easier to find a sub/slave who is the weight I prefer, than it is to find a sub/slave who is not, and require her to lose weight until she is.
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