Sunnyfey
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Joined: 9/21/2007 From: OK Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: MissCake Yeah, the blood is just no big deal for me. I got used to how my own tasted when I was younger and tasting my girl's is just no biggee. Nothing soap and water can't fix. My boy gets a little squicky, so I just don't mention it until I am done with him and he has a dirty condom on. (Poor boy, poor, poor boy.) I do respect a person not wanting to "go down" when I am flowing - it is an incredibly intimate act, and not everyone is ready and up for it. I can dig. Then we just use toys, fingers, hired labor. BUT, if it IS a biggee for you, I would suggest getting a copy of Our Bodies, Ourselves (preferably a late 70's/early 80's copy) and reading it cover to cover. Really, some good body positive non-oogie factor acceptance is in order. There is nothing yucky, gross, wrong, or bad about your blood and endometrial lining. If your cramps center in your cervix so that the impact of his cock is excruciating, explain that to him. Try positions with more shallow penetration - spoon position comes to mind. Examine your body - give yourself a mental once-over so you can really focus on what, exactly, feels uncomfortable in your body. Maybe you just cant take the feeling of his body on yours? Maybe your back is sore so a good dog-style fuck is better to strech your back during. I figure, if a man is gonna own a woman, he's gotta be prepared to own all of her, even the menstrual part. If he can't bring game, he should take his ball and go home. I friggin love you MissCake
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