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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/2/2009 6:03:25 AM

Missokyst

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Sex is just messier during those days, but it is still sex. And as MFM pointed out, the orgasms make people feel better. I don't get the concept of shutting down any ride when nothing is broken.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/2/2009 6:16:10 AM

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I get a courtesy "heads up" when the discovery is made. She does her best to act civil and I try to be pleasant and accommodating when practical.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/2/2009 7:15:03 AM

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And as MFM pointed out, the orgasms make people feel better.

For me, having an orgasm during my period causes pain for me. It isn't all that fun. However, that doesn't stop him from having sex with me when he wants to have sex.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/2/2009 8:53:49 AM

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I've never gotten why sex during periods is so forbidden/ugly/not doable etc. It's the time of the month, for me at least, where I'm the most horny and in many cases it releaves the cramps. And of course there is no need for extra lube at that time

. I just put a large towel under my bum and we go at it just as usual and have a nice warm shower when we're done.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/2/2009 9:38:53 AM

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i get bad pains but orgasm and going to space help it a lot. i get ikky about full sex though. master doesnt mind prefers it not when its at its worst though

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/2/2009 10:35:08 AM

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Thank you all for the advice. I will check out the book you are referring to as well MissCake.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/2/2009 1:22:48 PM

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How do you handle things during those certain times of the month when your female slave/submissive may not be quite up for things. My personal experience with my wonderful Man is that I always make sure that He is taken care of. He is very understanding that I am not so comfortable so like I said I still make sure that He is taken care of and He is happy. I wanted to get a idea of what others do and maybe I can changed things up a bit during those 4 days during the month.

He just asks me if I can handle it. Or rather, he starts things and I let him know if things are just too sensitive down there. It isn't usually a problem though so we just throw down some extra towels and proceed as usual.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 5:40:46 AM

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I have done it with a previous partner but the relationship was long distance and we couldn't always time our meetings so that I didn't have my period. I wasn't on any birth control so things were rather messy at times but a dark towel and a hot shower afterwards put paid to that.

Now I am with Sir, we don't have intercourse when I'm menstruating but I'm quite happy to give a bj if He wants. I'm now on b/c (Yasmin) which makes for light bleeding and short duration (4 days max). I do however get the drilling headache from hell sometimes lasting up to 48 hours, and I am extra tired the first couple of days. I am lucky Sir is considerate and we have lots of "cuddle time" instead

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 6:21:44 AM

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It doesn't bother me if it doesn't bother him. Like others have said, throw a towel down or do it in the shower. The first day isn't real comfortable for me and I'd rather not, and I'd be doing my best to make sure he was happy in other ways :) Other than that, as someone once told me "wet is wet", they don't seem to care how.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 8:14:26 AM

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I can wait a few days...even when I don't have to.
Not that desperate...lol

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 9:39:27 AM

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I can wait a few days...even when I don't have to.
Not that desperate...lol

Squicky!!!!!

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 10:04:59 AM

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I had to look up that word..lol.

It is not like that I have sex every day ( not with a partner at least...

). So I can wait those few days also.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 1:39:52 PM

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We carry on the same way we do during the other 24-27 days a month. I have had partners who were all but out of commission during that time - in bed and out of it - but she's one of the lucky ones, I guess. Or maybe I'm the lucky one.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 2:04:22 PM

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I have no problem having relations any time of the month. If he is ok with it, then I am also. I find myself at my most horny at that time, so he will get lots of sex or if he happens to be slightly squicky, then lots of delicious oral. Either way, he will have to beat me off him

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 3:22:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: yellowroses

I have read through most of the threads and I don't think this subject has ever come up. I posted this in the Ask a Master forum because I wanted to know what they usually do.

How do you handle things during those certain times of the month when your female slave/submissive may not be quite up for things. My personal experience with my wonderful Man is that I always make sure that He is taken care of. He is very understanding that I am not so comfortable so like I said I still make sure that He is taken care of and He is happy. I wanted to get a idea of what others do and maybe I can changed things up a bit during those 4 days during the month.

I appreciate your opinions.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 3:50:55 PM

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Again, thank you for all the comments. It seems that most Dominants/Masters do not have a problem with activity during that time. I was also glad to read that I was not the only female that is a little uncomfortable during that time. What I learned was that...I need to get over it. The Man I am with does not have any issues with it so I will grow and adapt.

Thank you ALL for your input!!!

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 4:25:32 PM

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I am annoyed by males who refuse to be fully sexual with me when I am bleeding.
I prefer to do anything I would do otherwise.
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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/3/2009 5:55:54 PM

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I had an ex that often wanted to have sex during her period because it helped her with her cramping sometimes. I have the dangly parts so don't ask me why it helped because I have no idea but she would get really horrible cramps sometimes and sex made them more tolerable. It use to squick me out in the beginning but I got over it.

I also earned my redwings the first time I did oral (just so happens it was the same girl) and she started her period in the middle of it. I was nearly traumatized for life.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/4/2009 2:44:57 AM

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I used to be a bit shy about having my period when I first knew M, but it was more that I was a bit shy about a LOT of things at that time.

He cured that shyness by not allowing me to change my tampon and insisting he did it. Sex was NOTHING after that.

He has this bludgeoning attitude of * No matter how bad things seem, there is always something worse*....lol. It *cured* me of making too much fuss about ANYTHING.

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RE: Have relations during certians times of the month - 10/4/2009 8:45:05 AM

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I can't say I get more horny when I am on that time of year, but I will say everything is more intense. It does not take much to send me over the top on red days because it is almost like it is open and exposed. Either way it never seemed to matter to my ex-husband, who had sex regardless of the time of the month, whether I had just given birth to our kids (in the hospital!), in what ever manner he chose.

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ORIGINAL: glitter

I have no problem having relations any time of the month. If he is ok with it, then I am also. I find myself at my most horny at that time, so he will get lots of sex or if he happens to be slightly squicky, then lots of delicious oral. Either way, he will have to beat me off him

win-win