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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 4:31:24 PM   
BKSir


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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

Bk the control piece is neither here nor there in the approach of which I am bitching. lol :-)

boi



Ahhh, gotcha.  I misunderstood then.  My mistake.  Sorry. :)

In which case, however, I do definitely agree with your viewpoint on it.


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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 4:52:40 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		love strapon play and being fisted by my lady  love when she puts on her 10 in strapon and see the smile on her face  and that twinkle in her eyes we both know wheres it going  gawd she wears it well to see it dangling inbetween her sexy legs i love that look i find it sexy as hell  strapon plays awesome and it does feel great when she fucks me as she opens me up and gets me to relax for her so she can fist me next  if you love strapon play as much as we do try having her fist you next ..takes strapon play to the next level we think  once she slides in that feeling is amazing and once shes in me ..my prostate is hers until she massages the cum i have in me as it drips from my cock until she feeds it back to me once shes done until next time we play  do it still on a weekly basis its simply amazing thing to share with your lady ..have fun and enjoy mal

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 4:58:08 PM   
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< Message edited by MsKittyBlack -- 10/26/2009 4:59:13 PM >

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 4:58:44 PM   
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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:03:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lol...Jen, I was thinking the same thing....

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:08:42 PM   
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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:12:15 PM   
ghitaPVH


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Status: offline 		yes Jen, your point is proven..I just received this:

"i wanna let you bend me over n strap on a big one n give it to me baby"

You're going to LET me? Wow, what a sacrifice for you that must be. On top of that, this came from someone in OREGON. Im in Florida. Really. How do you expect this to happen?


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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:12:51 PM   
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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:17:54 PM   
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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:38:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: PDXBlazer

u can use me to ram as all you can



Wow...thick much?

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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

yes Jen, your point is proven..I just received this:

"i wanna let you bend me over n strap on a big one n give it to me baby"

You're going to LET me? Wow, what a sacrifice for you that must be. On top of that, this came from someone in OREGON. Im in Florida. Really. How do you expect this to happen?



Florida huh? Where at? Ma'am and I moved at the beginning of the year this year from Michigan. Have you thought of attending BeyondLeather? (BeyondLeather.net) It's awesome!

boi
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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:45:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

yes Jen, your point is proven..I just received this:

"i wanna let you bend me over n strap on a big one n give it to me baby"

You're going to LET me? Wow, what a sacrifice for you that must be. On top of that, this came from someone in OREGON. Im in Florida. Really. How do you expect this to happen?



What, he didn't offer to relocate for you too? That's another load of crap that gets tiresome in a hurry.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 5:52:36 PM   
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Status: offline 		This is up there with the ones who will "let" me use them as sex slaves when I get bored with Fox. Or who will "let" me take complete control of them and they will do everything I say. In a first email, neither make you look very picky and I am not interested in a s-whore.

When I use my strapon with Fox, it is not service, its sex plain and simple. Its not something Id consider a major sacrifice for anyone involved, unless they also consider penetrative sex with me a major sacrifice.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 8:57:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ghitaPVH

No...I dont want just "anyone"...and yes, Ive had plenty of offers...just none I felt comfortable accepting. I guess Im just picky. I'm not looking for anything long term or emotionally involved, but I still want to be attracted and feel comfortable with a play partner. In truth, Im looking more for a bottom than I am for a submissive. And I dont like the femme men, I prefer a more masculine male. Someone with some decency and integrity who doesnt want me to tell them they are a dirtbag. I dont want to see you wearing pink frilly underwear and calling yourself a pussy. If you dont have any respect for yourself, why should I waste my time with you? And Id rather the guy not look like he just escaped from prison...wow there are some scary looking dudes on here lately....


[Reads location. Trudges off dejectedly.]


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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/26/2009 9:00:39 PM   
FullfigRIMAAM1


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Status: offline 		I used to enjoy it, and may still..   But anytime someone shows me anal is the most important thing in their mind/world (because they approach me that way), I become disinterested.     M

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/27/2009 12:33:33 PM   
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Wow, I am amazed you don't have a dozen volunteers, Ghita!



You are SO gonna get 2000 e-mails after that, lol.

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/27/2009 2:03:21 PM   
Drifa


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My ass I offer for your whip and in service to you I'll gladly strip
Your strap-on can adorn your lovely hips and make me eagerly lick my lips!
Giving you the chance to let 'er rip, c'mon honey ram in that tip!
And when you tell me I'm a sorry drip, why don't be surprised when out I flip!

You see, everybody loves me, baby, what's the matter with you?
Won'tcha tell me what did I do to offend you?

Yes, and the ocean parts when I walk through, and the clouds dissolve and the sky turns blue
I'm held in very great value by everyone I meet but you
I've used my talents as I could, I've done some bad, I've done some good
I did a whole lot better than they thought I would so, c'mon and treat me like you should!

Because, everybody loves me, baby, what's the matter with you?
Won'tcha tell me what did I do to offend you?

Yeah, everybody loves me, baby, what's the matter with you?
tell me what did I do to offend you?

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/27/2009 2:27:21 PM   
malloves69


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Status: offline 		hey i also love being fisted too anally by my lady  and golden showers ..and the bi stuff was fun  oh cant forget me pleasing her orally ..yes i love when she cums too  alot more to me then just strapon play ..sorry but i think a sexy lady wearing a big strapon is a major turn on too  oh cant forget about medical play ...sounds is amazing  good day mal ..shes cumming soon this week ...gawd i cant wait  mal

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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/27/2009 2:33:52 PM   
kccuckoldmist


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ORIGINAL: Sylverdawn

I enjoy the power dynamic of strap on play.. it does it for me... I swear if I had a cock Id never put it away.. but I think that illegal... now if he enjoys ok.. if he doesnt welll.. as long as there is enough lube.. I dont fuckin care.. I like the moaning and the groaning and the dirty talk.. but then I am perverted that way.. I like the ropes and the lil panties down around his knees.. and the way he wrinkles his nose with discomfort and I like how it makes me cum.. but again Im perverted that way...

I dont like boys who say oh god I cant wait for you to take me up the ass im so hot for you in the first ten seconds or even ten days of a conversation with them.. but then again... IM PERVERTED THAT WAY


I have enjoyed reading this thread very much and agree personally the post I quoted in terms of my interest with strap on play.

I find it enjoyable for the power dynamic that depending on the situation and what I am feeling either boosts my dominant energy and/or will arouse me sexually. But I also agree with Biojen and others that some man mainly wanting this and calling it service is not quite getting it.


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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/27/2009 2:34:23 PM   
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THANK YOU!!!!! I tried less than a week ago to explain this concept to a male sub that strapon play is the DOMME servicing the SUB.  Not the sub servicing the Domme.  
See, now THAT went too far for me. That just smacks of the same sort of talk about how me giving a foot rub to Carol is automatically me servicing her (not, by the way, that I see anything wrong with servicing the woman I love). Sometimes I find it really relaxing to do it and it has nothing to do with whether her feet are sore or not. Sometimes, it actually IS servicing her. But the act itself is automatically neither. No action can be universally equated with a mental state.


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RE: Guys and strapons....a rant - 10/27/2009 2:42:17 PM   
GYPSYMAMBO


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When I use my strap on it is with someone I care about and have bound to me..
It is for me a sexual turn on at times..a part of it ALL..
I cum when I do this...I love the sounds and sights and moaning and quivers...mmmmm

Where the servicing the sub aspect comes in is ..
when a sub male for
eg[calls repeatedly when he is in town and wants to come over to "Serve" but has his ass out in 2 seconds and presenting it to me..

and it happened and he is GONE..

but not before I had him over 3 times and he did dishes..floors etc..and got no peggin' much to his chagrin.


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