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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/29/2009 9:47:32 AM

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U R soooooo giegh...

you don't mind if i swipe that...do ya?

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/29/2009 4:41:37 PM

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phew! i thought i would never reach the end of this thread - it kept running two pages ahead of me.

She is going to screw up - she is 18, and her brain hasn't finished growing yet. The words "damage control" spring to mind...

Don't do anything that can't be undone, don't burn any bridges, and finish school! All things i told my ums at that age.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/29/2009 5:22:56 PM

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I don't want to seem cynical, but does anyone really believe any of this?

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/29/2009 5:36:29 PM

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I just finished a complete remodel of my house. Foundation work, siding, windows. replace plumbing and wiring, tear out all the old lath & plaster on the inside and replace with drywall, rip up and re-do the floors, replace appliances, etc. It took a year because we had to live in the house while it was being done, moving from room to room and living out of boxes amidst coal dust, plasdter dust, contractors in and out all day long, on and on and on.

Trust me, we hardly had time to scratch our nose let alone keep regular contact with even our dearest friends. Now that it is morre or less finished, though, we are ablde to get back to what passed for our former life.

Patience girl, 2 months is barely time to write up the estimates when one is re-modeling a house!

Dowager Mum

Feel free to contact me if you need to hear more about what is involved in a project like that from one who has just come back to daylight from being on the inside. And yes, we were all stressed to the max and very, very cranky the whole timel. not to mention sick most of the time from all the coal dust, plaster dust, insulation dust and oil furnace residue.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/29/2009 8:53:58 PM

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Trust your instinct. It seems to be telling you something is a little off in your situation. 99% of the time, if something doesn't feel/sound right thats because it isn't.

My advice is talk to him about it, if he gets defensive or has no legit reason for not having contacted you as much as he should be, hes playing you.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/29/2009 9:25:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: Rhodes85

Trust your instinct. It seems to be telling you something is a little off in your situation. 99% of the time, if something doesn't feel/sound right thats because it isn't.

My advice is talk to him about it, if he gets defensive or has no legit reason for not having contacted you as much as he should be, hes playing you.

he just called me...we had a nice long chat he was really good with me, explained a lot..very genuine.

i feel much better about things.

thanks for your help guys.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/29/2009 9:30:25 PM

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lol all that for that

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