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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:49:14 PM

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it is on my profile sweetheart. ask around, there are people on this site (who you may respect) that KNOW thats me--- and thats where I live and that is who I AM.

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Ron, are there muskie in Ottertail Lake?

Yes, but West Battle over by Battle Lake is much better for it, the Minnesota Walleye Tournament was held at Ottertail Lake, just 3 miles from my house, that is also the place where two walleye spawning stations (of three) in minnesota are for milking and egging and selling walleye to other states.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:50:20 PM

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lol...............you guys .....this is too good.

jeesh.....take a chill pill.

somebody needs a bubble bath !!
to chill out..gosh!

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:50:42 PM

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and to be honest.

with sincere, genuine people ... i really do feel bad. if i put anyone in harms way, like i said it wasn't what i meant to do. i REALLY do feel bad. if i could change it in any way i would...

i was 17 ...confused..and wanted to learn more. i should of waited i see now that would of been my best option...but i didn't take that route.

but you guys being big bullies to me over the net... doesn't exactly make me feel so remourseful in fact it kind of makes me scared that i tell the truth on here in the first if there are such jerks on here.

Now that part shows that you are waking up. Show's growth, and there's nothing wrong with being wrong, hell everyone is wrong every now and then....now the trick is to move on...get the help you seek and even though you might now want to take all that is offered at least be mature enough to listen, and you will be just fine

Glad you saw what I was shooting for in my posts...hope it helps

and remember, Ron's bark is worse than his bite....(no teeth

) seriously, he really does give good advice, read his post, he just delievers in a unique way.

and as I can't get rid of the "teach" in me....please BE CAREFUL!!!

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:52:20 PM

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Were it left up to me... I would track the IP address, call the local police for that jurisdiction and file charges... But Since this is not my site I would settle for an IP addy ban, at least deletion of profile.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:54:29 PM

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the power of many ip addresses is in the power plug
pull it out..put it back..and you have a new one

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:55:19 PM

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DRKJourney... Your picture aint on the Nice site... what are you thinking. We aint sposed to be nice.

Why I gotta be nice here when I aint at home.

lol...sorry about that HL....it's just the teach in me....can't help myself....it's a sickness....lol

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:55:51 PM

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Many did give good answers... they were met with attitude. It was the attitude that bothered me considering she put a lot of people at risk and continued to make light of it.

So anyone with a problem with what I have said, you are more than welcome to address it. On an adult board anywhere you will get almost anything... part of the way it is... we are no more special... however, we are more vulnerable to legal ramifications and a bit of outrage on underage cyber sexual things is a good thing.

that's such bullshit they gave me advice with attacking nature.

i don't get all up in arms for no reason.

[rolleyes]

you lied once about being 18. i cant believe you when you say you are 18 now. thats not attacking, thats just reality. you are what my brotheers and their friends used to call "jail bait". but apparently you eithere have, or had, no parental supervision, felt no compulsion to lie to others over and over, and put many at risk because you felt ..... a "want".

your "wants" overcame your reason and your emotions. in my opinion, which doesnt count for much at all, you arent ready to be submissive to anyone because you are still submissive to your own wants.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:57:07 PM

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the power of many ip addresses is in the power plug
pull it out..put it back..and you have a new one

yeah... like I said... I'll settle

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:58:35 PM

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I'd settle for a bag of Cheetos right now.....

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 1:59:24 PM

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That you listen and learn is all I can ask. People are always gonna flame, but gotta look past that and get to what you posted for in the first place.

Two flames don't make a right....um...I mean....um...don't flame just because you got flam....oh hell you know what I mean....lol

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:00:33 PM

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given the title, I should think some smoked string cheese and a cold cut plate with beer would be more appropriate............

ooops, sorry, LT, didn't mean to bite your head off.

Ron

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:01:37 PM

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I'd settle for a bag of Cheetos right now.....

< Message edited by NihilusZero -- 10/27/2009 2:03:33 PM >

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:02:15 PM

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DrkJourney!

Lockit!!!! muah!

Ohhhhhhhhh, baby!!!!

Me

perv....lol

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:02:31 PM

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~grins to Master Ron, then squirms off, pondering nibbling on heads

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:06:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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ORIGINAL: lilmisssubmiss

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Many did give good answers... they were met with attitude. It was the attitude that bothered me considering she put a lot of people at risk and continued to make light of it.

So anyone with a problem with what I have said, you are more than welcome to address it. On an adult board anywhere you will get almost anything... part of the way it is... we are no more special... however, we are more vulnerable to legal ramifications and a bit of outrage on underage cyber sexual things is a good thing.

that's such bullshit they gave me advice with attacking nature.

i don't get all up in arms for no reason.

[rolleyes]

you lied once about being 18. i cant believe you when you say you are 18 now. thats not attacking, thats just reality. you are what my brotheers and their friends used to call "jail bait". but apparently you eithere have, or had, no parental supervision, felt no compulsion to lie to others over and over, and put many at risk because you felt ..... a "want".

your "wants" overcame your reason and your emotions. in my opinion, which doesnt count for much at all, you arent ready to be submissive to anyone because you are still submissive to your own wants.

I'm with you Tazzy, what's that quote Orion used to have in his sig: I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you. And that eyeroll didn't help, it makes me think of a small child not getting his/her way.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:07:24 PM

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Oh Cheetos... I still can't eat and those sound good! Then the picture... I'm doomed to a night of cravings!

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:08:39 PM

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zeph, you'd better stop worrying about her and give me my dang cookies...lol

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:09:00 PM

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can you suck on a cheeto honey? You know I'd enjoy it.

Ron

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:09:13 PM

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People lie on their profiles about their age all the time. It happens on all internet dating sites. My guess is that it's even more common than women reducing their weight, or men increasing their height. Throw the young lady a break. If you only answer posts of people who never lie on their profiles, there would be so few threads to respond to that you'd have to find something else to do with your time. And... that would be TERRIBLE!

Regarding whether you're getting strung along, my own answer frankly is, "Almost certainly, yes." No way in hell would I wait two months or more to meet someone on the internet. I met my current girlfriend seven days after we emailed each other (on another site), and I've never waited very long. My attitude is that I hit on women who are hot, which means other men are going to want to meet them, too, so I'd better bust my ass before some other guy makes himself more interesting. And, on the other hand, if she isn't interested in meeting with me, I've got better things to do with my time than email forever. If I were trying to meet an 18-year-old, I'd move fast, because I'd have to. Bottom line: either this guy has no intention to meet, or no idea how to date a woman much younger than he is. Either way, not a good sign.

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RE: I'm confused - how do you know if someone is just s... - 10/27/2009 2:11:52 PM

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people who lie on their profiles about even age or weight have too many problems for me to deal with, they are sent down the road immediately.

I YAM WHAT I YAM.

Popeye

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