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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 9:44:23 AM

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I don't think Mona is an idiot. I think WE are. Look how long this thread has gone on. I personally just got here. Here's what I know so far. That Mona sounds like English is second language. Mona thinks man will show up. We all take bets man will not. Man shows up. Mona thinks man shows up, rubs her boobs and that man is weird for not jumping into fuck fest. Why, in the world are we disagreeing with Mona? Her neighbors got her back from what she says.

Mona now wants to know if man is Dom or not. Now our bets are, man is Not Dom. Well. We were wrong before now weren't we? So fine! Mona! Man is weirdly Dominant. Hows that? Have fun! Don't listen to us! You haven't yet, so why start now! We're a bunch of senseless ninnies now aren't we? Sounds like it!

I say, who wants popcorn! Maybe her Dom can bring Soda. Didn't he offer? Or Pizza. Monas Dom likes Pizza! Come on people, lets get on the love train here and simply shut up and watch the Mona and Dom show. Ok Mona! Whens the next date on for? Or cant we ever know with this guy. Let us know. And when he does bring tools let us know as well. Tools. Tools! Who brings tools unless your car need work? Or is it your chasse he's interested in? Try telling him he can look under your hood. Maybe he'll race right over if you use proper man lingo. Maybe he loves nascar. At this point, this is a post I'll check back in on.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 9:45:01 AM

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Why don't you just call him and ask him why he didn't fuck you?

Because mona prefers talking with us.

<Nods> That's understandable. At least we show up regularly.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 9:45:24 AM

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he said he would bring tools,then he said he couldnt reach it,then he said he couldnt reach PLUS didnt thought it was good first time.

He couldn't reach his toys? This means he doesn't own any.

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I know most men would try be sexual,but that wasnt.

Seriously mona, I'm starting to worry about you, and your ideas about men.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 9:49:36 AM

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but... but... but....

if he really didn't like her, would he have still stayed the night? wouldn't have excused himself prior to being obligated to snuggling her all night.

And maybe he had to leave super early because he had to get home to cut the lawn for his mom, or clean the house before his wife got back from visiting her mother for the weekend.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 9:52:01 AM

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mona.....

im going to say this only once...

now listen real careful like...

dont miss a word...

WE

Dont

Know

Ask

HIM!

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 12:01:26 PM

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If he had fucked you... you would be here asking why he didn't phone when he got home or if we thought he really meant to fuck you or not or how can he be real if he only fucked you once or for five minutes. You will find the drama in any aspect or situation Mona...

You wanted to be assured and he assures you by showing up and then you have a complaint as to how dominant he really is because he didn't fuck you. God girl... give it up... you just don't see what's in front of you as what it really is and need to make something more of it. And your making more of it with us rather than the one you really ought to be making it more with.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 12:16:58 PM

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mona.....I've read the entire thread.....Why not just hang around and wait and see how things turn out?

You've got lots of questions and concerns...but frankly , the most likely way for you to find the answers to those, is to bide your time. You have nothing much to lose, as you're obviously keen on the chap, so why not *experience* what he's like and make your OWN mind up when you've *been there* longer.

You have to find your own way of discovering what someone is like.....you are the one with all the relevant information and no-one here can rival that.

I know that a lot of bizarre things can happen in life.....I wouldn't be particularly bothered if someone cancelled 8 times, or didn't want to fuck me the first time they DID meet...because all of those things are just indictors.....they are little signposts that you'll (hopefully) log.
You are very uncertain about an awful lot to do with him but obviously have some investment and interest. Eventually you'll have a bigger picture if you stay around for some time.

No-one here has a clue what he's like , apart from what you've imparted, and for as much as you've said, the most vital part has been left out.... HIS view.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 12:22:53 PM

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This Dom you have been talking to, is he from CollarMe? Dont you think it strange that he hasnt popped up on the thread?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 12:32:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

[snark]

Fascinating concept. Can a D/s relationship work between a completely frenzied sub and a clueless dolt who calls himself Lord UberDom?

This reminds me of the concept of an infinite number of monkeys on an infinite number of typewriters who over time will recreate all the great works of literature... If a clueless Dom wannabe is give an infinite number of chances, will he eventually randomly do enough Domlike activities to satisfy the sub if her standards are low enough?

[/snark]

I laughed my ass off at this. XD

Having gone through a similar situation: http://www.collarchat.com/m_2878384/mpage_1/tm.htm (and notice I say "gone" and not "going") I have to pipe in here.
Mona, are you getting what you want? What you need? The answer is clearly no. He is not giving you what you need.
Period. It's easy to talk like a Dominant online but his actions say otherwise and he is behaving like a flighty, indecisive ninny not a Dominant man. Forget this one. Move on. It's been said before that his actions have made all of his words and all of your concerns moot. He is a coward, a pretend Dominant and I wouldn't let such an unstable person anywhere NEAR my subspace! Your trust has been toyed with and broken. Thank Eris you didn't find out what mistakes a bullshit novice Dominant can make in the bedroom nevermind online.
Walk away, lady. Just walk away.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 12:44:48 PM

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Edit to add: I went back to page 6 and read the rest of the thread, where she says they actually met IRL. My best guesses:

1. HE IS VANILLA.

2. He is MARRIED, has a live-in lover, or is otherwise committed to someone else, but is lonely.

3. He has erectile dysfunction.

4. OR: Mona is a made-up profile, so all "her" threads are fake. She's really a bored teenage boy.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 4:00:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: monaslave

He did show up. yes he had brought the wine as well, what happened then? short said we were very much on wawelengths, talked alot,about everything. He put his arm around me,touching a bit,also when sleeping besides, letting me touching him etc. but not more than that happened. He had talked about bringing tools,he didnt,he said he hadnt time,and he thought its first time you must get to know eachother-another tone,than he first introduced. He was talking about meeting and get to know,and talked about meeting again and get further on. short said more earthbound this time. suddenly talking reasonable. but I was wondering.. still,if I agree with him,and thats what I have been saying to him all the time, I wondered in my mind,why doesnt the guy lay up to me for a fuck?
he said he didnt want to be that guy that it was all it was about he said. but to me that seems a bit weird, he didnt even try.
He did touch he did held etc. but not that. He was talking about his best friend,how I had to meet him,his family,to meet them
Do you think hes got the experience he claims to have at all? I start to wonder about that. well, I cant know he hasnt show me anything.
but on the other hand I know what he said with not seem too soonish.
what do you think?

I like everything I've heard so far. It sounds excellent. I like the fact that he's taking his time. I like the fact that he didn't just treat you like a slut and use you on the first meeting. He seems to be thinking. I don't think these things mean red flags, but I seem to be a lot less jaded than a lot of people in this thread. I think he did all the right things with you, even it it seemed weird to you. The fact that he didn't even try may indicate he's strong, he has self-control. He's the dom, he's setting the pace, not you and he chose not to taste your submissiion this time. If you are submissive then it's your job to follow his lead. You may not always like his lead, but if you don't want to obey, then ask yourself why are you trying to be a slave to him? I think you've been burned before and because of that you expect bad results automatically.

I also think that certain other more jaded posters are making up all sorts of ridiculous negative reasons for his quite excellent behavior because you committed the worst sin you can commit on a forum like this one: you did not provide the expected tearful "oh boo-hoo he didn't show up!" dramatic ending that they were all waiting for and that would allow these self-satisfied poops to say to you, in the sweetest of tones, "Nah! Nah! I TOLD you so!" When you deprive people of their chance to say Nah Nah I TOLD you so!, they tend to get a little...how should I put this? Cuntish. :/

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:09:53 PM

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No....

Next question?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 5:27:39 PM

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Wow, I miss a day and suddenly we're on page nine? Is there no end to this drama?

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 7:26:07 PM

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Mona, may I suggest a little light reading???

Go buy the book "He's just not that into you" and read it, then read it again and again and again untill the messege sinks in...

((cant believe she spent the time to read this entire rediculouse thread....))

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 7:29:52 PM

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I like everything I've heard so far. It sounds excellent. I like the fact that he's taking his time. I like the fact that he didn't just treat you like a slut and use you on the first meeting. He seems to be thinking. I don't think these things mean red flags, but I seem to be a lot less jaded than a lot of people in this thread. I think he did all the right things with you, even it it seemed weird to you. The fact that he didn't even try may indicate he's strong, he has self-control. He's the dom, he's setting the pace, not you and he chose not to taste your submissiion this time. If you are submissive then it's your job to follow his lead. You may not always like his lead, but if you don't want to obey, then ask yourself why are you trying to be a slave to him? I think you've been burned before and because of that you expect bad results automatically.
I also think that certain other more jaded posters are making up all sorts of ridiculous negative reasons for his quite excellent behavior because you committed the worst sin you can commit on a forum like this one: you did not provide the expected tearful "oh boo-hoo he didn't show up!" dramatic ending that they were all waiting for and that would allow these self-satisfied poops to say to you, in the sweetest of tones, "Nah! Nah! I TOLD you so!" When you deprive people of their chance to say Nah Nah I TOLD you so!, they tend to get a little...how should I put this? Cuntish. :/

And I suppose it's possible that my disappearing Dom is not a manipulative, possibly married, head gamer but actually a concerned, sensitive, caring man who wants to respect my boundaries by not showing up to engage in the things we discussed for a month and drove ourselves crazy awaiting. He stood her up 8 times and then showed up, "forgot" his toys and gave her scant attention for her efforts.
Call me crazy, but I think things are skewed here. He does not sound like a respectful Dominant, he sounds like an internet horn dog who didn't know what to do when he got there or couldn't get away from wifey (and didn't know what to do when he got there.)
An apt Dominant could have implemented some very mild control after making his subbie wait so long. A competant Dom can do SO much for a sub without it going to inverted suspensions, extended cock worship and heavy lashings.
He did nothing. He stood her up 8 times and then subjected her to an awkward vanilla "date".
This doesn't seem right to me.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 8:00:21 PM

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yeah, he's seriously playing you.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/1/2009 10:51:35 PM

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Wow, I miss a day and suddenly we're on page nine? Is there no end to this drama?

You also missed the fact that apparently now, we've become "cuntish".

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/2/2009 4:41:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: ncbabe

Wow, I miss a day and suddenly we're on page nine? Is there no end to this drama?

You also missed the fact that apparently now, we've become "cuntish".

Cali

I kinda like being cuntish.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/2/2009 5:43:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: ncbabe

Wow, I miss a day and suddenly we're on page nine? Is there no end to this drama?

You also missed the fact that apparently now, we've become "cuntish".

Cali

I'm assuming we were called 'cuntish' as an insult. I'm not used to hearing it in a negative context :)

I would like to know, though, why people are still writing serious responses? I'm just following this now out of pure fascination.

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RE: Do you think hes serious? - 11/2/2009 5:50:13 AM

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He did show up. yes he had brought the wine as well, what happened then? short said we were very much on wawelengths, talked alot,about everything. He put his arm around me,touching a bit,also when sleeping besides, letting me touching him etc. but not more than that happened. He had talked about bringing tools,he didnt,he said he hadnt time,and he thought its first time you must get to know eachother-another tone,than he first introduced. He was talking about meeting and get to know,and talked about meeting again and get further on. short said more earthbound this time. suddenly talking reasonable. but I was wondering.. still,if I agree with him,and thats what I have been saying to him all the time, I wondered in my mind,why doesnt the guy lay up to me for a fuck?
he said he didnt want to be that guy that it was all it was about he said. but to me that seems a bit weird, he didnt even try.
He did touch he did held etc. but not that. He was talking about his best friend,how I had to meet him,his family,to meet them
Do you think hes got the experience he claims to have at all? I start to wonder about that. well, I cant know he hasnt show me anything.
but on the other hand I know what he said with not seem too soonish.
what do you think?

I like everything I've heard so far. It sounds excellent. I like the fact that he's taking his time. I like the fact that he didn't just treat you like a slut and use you on the first meeting. He seems to be thinking. I don't think these things mean red flags, but I seem to be a lot less jaded than a lot of people in this thread. I think he did all the right things with you, even it it seemed weird to you. The fact that he didn't even try may indicate he's strong, he has self-control. He's the dom, he's setting the pace, not you and he chose not to taste your submissiion this time. If you are submissive then it's your job to follow his lead. You may not always like his lead, but if you don't want to obey, then ask yourself why are you trying to be a slave to him? I think you've been burned before and because of that you expect bad results automatically.

I also think that certain other more jaded posters are making up all sorts of ridiculous negative reasons for his quite excellent behavior because you committed the worst sin you can commit on a forum like this one: you did not provide the expected tearful "oh boo-hoo he didn't show up!" dramatic ending that they were all waiting for and that would allow these self-satisfied poops to say to you, in the sweetest of tones, "Nah! Nah! I TOLD you so!" When you deprive people of their chance to say Nah Nah I TOLD you so!, they tend to get a little...how should I put this? Cuntish. :/

We've seen this kind of thing before so our "negativity" is born out of experience. We do try to help and dont like saying "told you so".

Also, have you bothered to go to the O.P's profile or do a search and look at her posting history?

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