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gpeterse -> Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:04:37 PM)
There seems to be nothing here for older subs, Dommes over sixty set age limits at 21 - 35, they won't even respond to an email. Most pro dommes act the same way. A lot is written here about the shallowness and selfishness of subs, I suggest they take a look at their own behavior. Does anyone know of a site like 'BDSM for the elderly' or maybe folks over 55 should just take up a new hobby.

littlesarbonn -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:12:06 PM)
It's really not as bad as you think it is. I'm in my 40s, and I don't perceive myself believing it to be all over just because I went over some magical number. I have lots and lots of conversations with dominants who I know don't think the way you think they think. If you allow a few people to dictate how you perceive your surroundings, then you're guaranteed to be stuck in a rut no matter how good or bad things really are.

fluffypet61 -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:14:58 PM)
i'm 64 and i'm still here. Plan to stay, too.

Lockit -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:15:28 PM)
So you come in to bitch and correct us??? Dude... I am fifty two years old and I don't set an age limit such as you suggest... maybe when I am sixty I will change my mind. If you aren't getting answers to email... I am sorry, but if your email is anything close to your assumptions, accusations and conclusions as your post here... I wouldn't answer either. You might find a better way of looking at things and try that again.

LadyPact -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:20:09 PM)
You may find some of the comments on this thread exceptionally interesting. http://www.collarchat.com/m_2877238/tm.htm

VideoAdminSigma -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:20:52 PM)
final answer http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYii6nxhvUk

Politesub53 -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:29:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gpeterse There seems to be nothing here for older subs, Dommes over sixty set age limits at 21 - 35, they won't even respond to an email. Most pro dommes act the same way. A lot is written here about the shallowness and selfishness of subs, I suggest they take a look at their own behavior. Does anyone know of a site like 'BDSM for the elderly' or maybe folks over 55 should just take up a new hobby. I am not sure what you are doing wrong. I find most of the Ladies here will respond to a polite email. The only barrier I seem to come across isnt to do with age, but distance. Is your profile filled in ? Does it say much about who you are, and less about what you want ? Will it catch anyones interest ? What kind of messages do you send, are they informative or over sexual ? You need to make an impression either with your email or your profile. Everyone you write to will be swayed by your words, one way or the other. Good luck in your search.

Lockit -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:32:52 PM)
Listen to Politesub! If that big ol pond wasn't there... I bet Polite would have a few of us fighting over him.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:34:02 PM)
quote: I am fifty two years old and I don't set an age limit So I'm still in with a chance? crosses fingers

Politesub53 -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:34:29 PM)
Queue forms to the right Ladies [8D]

Lockit -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:35:36 PM)
LOL.. there's always a chance... at least that's what I tell myself! lol

mnottertail -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:35:41 PM)
Oh the line forms; on the right, babe; now that Mack Heaths; back in town!!!!!!!!!!! Look out ol' Mack Heath is back!!!!!!!!

Politesub53 -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:39:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit LOL.. there's always a chance... at least that's what I tell myself! lol Oh for a moonlit stroll along the beach, just me you and our zimmer frames. [;)]

Lockit -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:40:12 PM)
Zimmer frames??? lol

gpeterse -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:41:45 PM)
Bitch, yes, expect to correct anyone - no. Making quite a few assumptions yourself aren't you?

mnottertail -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:44:59 PM)
I believe that on post 5 if you say bitch yes...... then you ain't got much of a shot at getting alotta girls. take it or leave it, no assumptions here. Ron(ne)

gpeterse -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:45:51 PM)
You're right but I'm not quite ready for the flowers yet.

Lockit -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:46:05 PM)
Did you or did you not say... they should look at their own behavior? You are saying we are being shallow and talk about age limitations I have never seen from a sixty year old's profile or even on the message boards. I have assumed nothing except that your attitude needs an adjustment. But don't mind me... I am just an old broad that isn't anything you claimed us older broads are.

Venatrix -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:47:50 PM)
If you want to make yourself appealing to a larger selection of dominants, you might try cultivating a sense of humour. It's probably the number one characteristic I look for in a potential partner. People who take themselves too seriously get the boot immediately, and it has nothing to do with their age.

CarrieO -> RE: Where do old subs go? (11/3/2009 4:51:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gpeterse There seems to be nothing here for older subs, Dommes over sixty set age limits at 21 - 35, they won't even respond to an email. Most pro dommes act the same way. A lot is written here about the shallowness and selfishness of subs, I suggest they take a look at their own behavior. Does anyone know of a site like 'BDSM for the elderly' or maybe folks over 55 should just take up a new hobby. Well, let's start with your profile... You have nothing written. Personally, a blank profile makes me wonder why a person would even bother to come here. Sure, you've ticked a few loves/likes and whatnot but that says nothing about who you are as a person, what you have to offer and why a woman should contact you. I've said it before and I'll say it again...your profile is an advertisment and you are the product being offered. Put some effort into it. It's doubtful Mistress Charming is going to be interested in someone who has nothing to say about himself. Speaking of saying things...the last time you chose to post in these forums was a classic example of why Dommes get frustrated by some (not all thankfully) male "subs" on CM who confuse a paid session with a date.... http://www.collarchat.com/m_2666594/mpage_1/tm.htm Take a look at how you present yourself...in your previous post you state quote: I've been at this for over thirty years What changed? I doubt it was just your age. Instead of complaining or using your age as an excuse, why not take an honest look at yourself and decide if you've really done your part and put in the effort required to be a complete enough individual that would turn a woman's head.

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