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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:01:50 PM

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I admit I have to break my temporary exile long enough to say that I adore hausboy. Dinner was him was awesome, and I can't wait to get together again.

I further admit that he has some of most beautiful big brown eyes I have ever seen.

I admit...I enjoyed dinner too...and look forward to meeting Max sometime as well...

and I admit they're hazel....

..... and Fox reminds me of me when I was 30.....

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:04:07 PM

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I admit, I wish I'd had a chance to be at that dinner. I'm imagining it was rather interesting and lovely.
I admit, HausBoy is right, Sophie is quite loved.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:05:38 PM

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and I admit they're hazel.........

I admit it must have been the lighting in the diner. But whatever the color, they're gorgeous and I'm jealous.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:10:39 PM

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and I admit they're hazel.........

I admit it must have been the lighting in the diner. But whatever the color, they're gorgeous and I'm jealous.

I admit you have no reason to be jealous.... and I admit I'm blushing now.....don't know how to take compliments sometimes....

I admit.... my cat inadvertently changes my font size by sitting on the keyboard and I don't know how he does it....

I admit that last admit probably belongs in the "what is your cat doing...." thread....

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:13:09 PM

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I admit that I read DRH's admit before she "*edited because no one is worth that much of my time* "

I admit her points are well taken.
I admit the most telling of her points regarded me speaking for others and herself in particular.

I admit that one of things I try to do is to use ONLY "I statements."

I admit that I didn't follow my own rule very well.

I admit that I'm revising my post to be:

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I admit that at first I quoted DRH's "no comment" and didn't add anything.
I admit that I "imploded" it.

I admit I told Sophie to "do what you have to do," even while encouraging her to do what I was pretty sure would NOT happen.

I admit that I wish Sophie had taken a different tack.
I admit that she didn't.

I admit that I must now do one of the HARDEST things I have ever done.

I admit that I need to be open about my disagreement with what she did do and then help her in her next step.

I admit that (over the years) I have learned that sometimes one needs to take a step backward before a step forward can be taken.

I admit that I see the "No comments" as critical and disapproving (which I agree with) BUT they also come across to me as closing Sophie out of the support she needs to continue in her attempt to repair this relationship.

I admit that THIS is the time to rally and offer her suppport.

I admit that sometimes good intentions need to be rewarded, not disparaged and in my view, this is one of those times.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:14:42 PM

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I admit I bet you're adorable when you blush.

I admit I wasn't planning to end my exile tonight, but what the hell. The main dramaz that I wanted to keep off the board is over.

I admit all is well here. Not entirely worked out maybe, but close enough to stop my bitchin' and moanin'.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:16:53 PM

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I admit that I'm surprised that HausBoy was previously unaware that cats had magical butts and could do things like that easily.
I admit that I really SHOULD be doing research for work for tomorrow, because I haven't dick all of a clue on how to make some of the stuff for the event tomorrow evening... LOL
I admit, it's probably not too hard, but I'll still need to figure it out by then.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:20:23 PM

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I admit that I'm sorry DRH has hidden me. (Probably blocked me as well/)

I admit that that's the way I took her posts of:

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*edited because no one is worth that much of my time*

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I admit that I will use the site features that are readily available to me to avoid wasting my time in the future.
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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:20:44 PM

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I admit that I'm surprised that HausBoy was previously unaware that cats had magical butts and could do things like that easily.
I admit that I really SHOULD be doing research for work for tomorrow, because I haven't dick all of a clue on how to make some of the stuff for the event tomorrow evening... LOL
I admit, it's probably not too hard, but I'll still need to figure it out by then.

I admit that there are few things worse than realizing that your cat is way smarter than you are....
I admit that my previous cat once managed to press something on my remote that caused it to subtitle.... and the only person that could figure how to undo it was my brother's 12 year old nephew...
I admit that I'm headed to bed IF I can please please oh please sleep for once.... I am doing a drill tomorrow with the police dept and need to bring my A-game...
I admit that I need to shave.....

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:23:19 PM

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I admit, I'm glad you reminded me of that Haus...
I admit, I was going to shave/shower about 30 minutes ago and totally spaced it. >.<
I admit, I'm slightly lazy tonight.

I admit, I'm hoping that's not what was meant Lance.
I admit that, if it was, I hope that things can be worked out. I like you both and value both of your opinions way too much to want to see something like that happen over such a truly pointless misunderstanding.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:24:27 PM

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I admit it I have pics of the results of my birthday party.

I admit it since my profile here is hidden, I've posted them on that other site.

I admit it I'm sorry that Sophie is having to go through all that she is having to go through, but it's not my place to decide how someone else should live their life; it's my place to be supportive of whatever path they need to take.

I admit it I have had to go through some pretty awful shit in my life to come out the other side & become the woman that I am today.

I admit it recently I've had to go through some pretty awful shit & hopefully that particular type of shit is over now for me.

I admit it I'm trying not to judge others.

I admit it I ain't perfect at that yet, I still struggle with it, but some day I hope to be a lot better at it.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:27:04 PM

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quote:

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I admit I have to break my temporary exile long enough to say that I adore hausboy. Dinner was him was awesome, and I can't wait to get together again.

I further admit that he has some of most beautiful big brown eyes I have ever seen.

I admit...I enjoyed dinner too...and look forward to meeting Max sometime as well...

and I admit they're hazel......... and Fox reminds me of me when I was 30.....

I admit that I also admired hausboy's eyes when we had dinner together (in January, wasn't it?) To me, they looked the most intriguing shade of blue-green, but when he said they were hazel, I realized it was the shirt he was wearing.

I admit that the walls of the Crab Cake restaurant we had gone to were also a green, but that shirt was like..... perfect.

I admit YUMMMMmmm.....

I admit that's for the crab cakes. What did you think I meant? LOL!

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:36:14 PM

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I admit that I have NO friggin idea what the hell is going on here right now...
I admit that I am curious, and feeling bad that I've not had the time to keep up on things.
I admit that if Sophie wants to tell me on the other side I'm open to it, and have a shoulder for her if nothing else.

I admit I would tell you on the other side, except the other side won't work for me right now.

I admit in a nutshell,

I stood up for myself.
I gave him the choice of "shit or get off the pot" basically. Then I got angry and texted him some very colorful words because he was avoiding me and in the end I told him "I hate you. I wish I never met you. I'm out of your life". 8-10 hours later he texted me saying he just received 120 texts from me (I've witnessed this - we thought it was my phone so I changed service - but it was his and with my new service seems to happen more grrrr). He wanted to talk. We tried talking through the phone but both kept getting defensive. After about the 3rd round of that and my saying this is not productive, he suggested we wait until tomorrow (today) and he'd come over and we could talk in person. The whole getting defensive every time we tried to talk made me realize that my demand of all or nothing would only truly work if we chose nothing - we're both too angry/defensive with the other to jump right back in and give it all. We would be right back to the same place in no time. I retreated a bit on my demands by giving in that I'd give him space for a while so he can get other stuff in his life together and get over the anger at me, but that he couldn't have complete freedom from us and he agreed to it. After months of fighting and arguing it's the first time I said I was leaving and meant it and I think he realized that. If he goes straight back to the way he was acting, I'm out. If he works his way back to how we were for the 7+ years before that, I'm in. Obviously, everyone struggles and has hard times, I'm not going to run at the first sight of trouble, but I'm not going to be a doormat to him ever again.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:38:05 PM

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I admit that the walls of the Crab Cake restaurant we had gone to were also a green, but that shirt was like..... perfect.

I admit....I can't even remember what green shirt I have...
I admit I'm off to bed.
again.
to try sleeping. I heard sleeping is very nice when your eyes are closed.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:38:53 PM

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I admit that I Love Hausboy.
I admit that I also love Dee Snider, for going on 30 years, even though I've never met him personally.

I admit that I own "Stay Hungry" on vinyl and a copy of "Strangeland".
I admit that Dee has a beautiful family. He and I both have sons named Jesse who made us first-time grandparents last year.
I admit that we also have the same birthday, 12 years apart. (March 15, 1955 and 1967)

I admit that I now equally love SorceressJ! Anyone who knows (and shares) Dee's birthday is a-okay-in my book!
I admit that I also own a copy of Stay Hungry (welll...3 copies...the original....the re-release....and "still hungry"..) and Strangeland.
I admit that Jesse is an amazing guy--and a fantastic musician just like his Dad.

I admit I've been an SMF (Sick Mutha Fucking Friend of Twisted Sister) since 1984....and now I go on the road with them at every domestic show
I admit I'm planning to join them on part of their Europe tour this year (YAY)

I admit that if you promise not to forward or post it, I'll send ya a really cool photo....:-)

I admit that I Promise. I never share anything online that is not already public domain or that I do not have implicit or implied permission to share.
I admit that the pic is very likely ALL MINE, anyhow..

I admit that if I did not have the homelife that I do, I would so many kinds of come on the road with you (and them).

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:39:57 PM

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I admit, that's one hell of a nutshell.
I admit that I'm glad you stood up for yourself, even if stupid technology was somewhat to blame.
I admit that I wish you nothing but the best and hope that things work out for you.
I admit that "for the best" sometimes isn't "what we wish would actually be", but it always is truly for the best.
I admit that the offer of a shoulder always stands, either way. :) *HUG*

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:41:19 PM

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I admit...
I can't email it to ya cuz your profile is hidden and top secret.....so CM me and I'll send it to you
I admit that they are playing a charity benefit in NYC in a few weeks....don't know where you are based but I can send you details....it's the ONLY domestic show planned this summer....

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:44:46 PM

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I admit I left out alot of details. I posted the letter I emailed to him on here. It was quite detailed and um not nice. I beleive it's on page 1666 or thereabout.

I admit I appreciate everyone's advice and support and knowing that I'm not alone, even if it doesn't SEEM like I take the advice, I get different viewpoints and pointers and sometimes can see things differently through other people's feelings.

I admit alot of the strength and courage I built up to stand up for myself came from the strong folks on here that have given me support and made me see that if I want something, if I want to be happy, I have to go for it. And if it doesn't work out, it's ok to try again or try something new.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:52:53 PM

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if I want something, if I want to be happy, I have to go for it. And if it doesn't work out, it's ok to try again or try something new.

I admit, that's possibly the most important lesson in life that any person could ever learn.
I admit that it's never too early or late to learn it, and that it's one that's often in need of relearning in everybody's lives.

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RE: I Admit It I........ - 3/28/2011 9:57:20 PM

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I admit I need to put this damn iPad down and go to sleep.

I admit I'm sure as the collar turns will be beaten like a

I admit that was the nicest thing I could come up with.

I admit I could have said nothing but shit, how much do I gotta read? I know, I know I don't have to read it but it's like an F'ing train wreck.

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