purepleasure
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Joined: 4/9/2004 From: Lehigh Valley, PA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead I admit I posted that I wasn't going to comment a week or so ago and another poster tried to hang me and at least one other lady on here for appearing "disapproving" of continuing the chaos until I ripped said asshole a new one. (and if that person wants to "discuss" that incident with me, s/he better damn well take it to the other side and not put me on blast here bc it will not end well, just sayin...) I admit that I'm not going to sit here with my thumb up my ass and say sweet nothings like maybe it will get better. It won't. I admit that I usually don't make broad, sweeping statements such as this, but dammit, I am now. I admit that women who don't think enough of their kids (if you want to mess up yourself that's one thing), to get help in some fashion when shit like this is going on, piss me the fuck off. I admit that I understand because I was there (not physical abuse, but verbal & emotional), and I know that it's hard as hell to reach out and get help when you feel stuck, confused or like nothing will work. But you do it anyway... because, if nothing else, the kids deserve to see a good life modeled for them because they aren't old enough to make those choices and get out of a bad situation. I admit that negative attention seeking and the previously mentioned victim mentality only works so long and people get sick of hearing about it. I admit there are other options than isolating oneself or drinking or drugging to get through this, and some very smart, caring women have enumerated them above. I admit that it seems like the addiction you once mentioned kicking out of your life has been replaced with another... continuing in a bad relationship & being the victim. I admit it seems like a good time to choose a better existence for mama and babies to me. YMMV, all I know is that I'm living proof that it can work when a woman puts her mind to it. This ****** Sophie, do you want your children to grow up to be confident in themselves and be a leader among their peers, or do you want your children to grow up to be followers / victims, and with very little self esteem? Children emulate their parents, like it or not.
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Patience, grasshopper. Your stupidity does not impress me. blame it on your hormones!!! - beerbug aka ydd
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