Phoenixpower
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ORIGINAL: shiftyw Thank you everyone. Really and truly it was time. Last night and all day yesterday he was in and out of hallucinations and really very miserable. He fought a very long time, and we think he was intentionally holding on until after thanksgiving so he could see everyone. Finally at 3 am he was calling for my aunt and mom who made it to his bedside. He said "stop waking me up, I'm going to bed now" and he took a few more breaths before he was gone. While I'm not spiritual, my mom said earlier this week she had a dream about dancing with a friend who also died of the same cancer, and her friend told her it would all be all right. Everyone is assured that he is out of pain. And we are going to dinner with my gram to toast his life. Much love to you all, thanks to everyone who sent me messages on here and fet, if I haven't responded yet, I will, and it means a lot that all you strangers are wishing me condolences and I can't believe all your kind words.<3 hugs, hugs, and many more hugs....I am so sorry to hear about your loss... I admit I was very close to my mums parents and gosh I do still miss both deeply (they died in 05 and 07)...and since then, our family is not really much of a family anymore... I admit on a positive note, I resigned my current Job last friday...as I got a job in which I get paid according to my degree....not according to my apprenticeship... I admit, though, annoyingly ist 70km far away now from home...not just 3.5km anymore... I admit, however, the main importance is, that you like the job you are doing....and the one I am going into, is a client group I deeply care about...whereas the current client group just bores the death out of me... I also admit, as it does involve sleep-in shifts, I have many days, where I only have to drive those 70km once a day, not twice...so ist ok... I admit today I already had to say goodbye to my favourite colleague....cause sadly, we wont be working together anymore....as in december we always work when the other one is off work...which made me sad... I admit she will be the only one I will be missing.... 
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RIP 08-09-07 The PAST is history, the FUTURE a mystery, NOW is a gift - that's why it's called the PRESENT www.butyoudontlooksick.com/navigation/BYDLS-TheSpoonTheory.pdf
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