Shadow-tiger
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Joined: 6/8/2008 From: California Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance I admit that I'm sorry for your loss, (Spiritedsub, ET, Red.) I can't even imagine my life without my Axel. I admit that my houseguest situation has become a literal nightmare. I admit I've had the police at house on numerous occasions because her kids are terrorizing the neighborhood. Well, not terrorizing, just annoying the crap out of everyone and they don't seem to understand boundaries and think it is ok to go into people's yards and their mom yells and curses at them and I admit it, I'm extremely embarrassed. I admit it is kinda crappy of me to worry about what my neightbors think, but I've lived here almost 5 years and like keeping things amiable. I admit I told her she has to be gone by Monday. I'm going to pay for a motel room for her for a week (just to make sure she leaves.) I admit that she never even called the lady about the apartment that I found for her. I admit I can't really afford the 300 for two weeks at a motel room, but I can't afford the emotional stress and chaos she and her kids are causing. I admit that my blood pressure was so high my doctor was adamantly trying to get me admitted into hospital. I admit that my son may help me with the expense of getting her out. I admit he's really upset at me for getting myself into this position. I admit I feel like a complete idiot for letting it get to this point, and aside from paying for her to leave I am left with no other options but to begin eviction proceedings. I admit I don't want to do that, she already has one eviction on public record which is making it hard for her to get a place. A second would make it all but impossible. I admit GAAAAAHHHHHHHH I admit that a bit over a year ago I had the house guest from hell, because I wanted to help someone. I admit she over stayed her welcome, failed to do any of the things she said she'd do, or even look for work. I admit that I bought the sob story of 'oh no family to go to' and other BS, and I was too nice to just throw her out. I admit that eventually she had a cousin who she went to live with instead. I admit that a year later I still look around and night and savor the sweet sweet sound of silence. I admit that some people just won't EVER get off their asses and need to be thrown the hell out. I admit that's not easy to do, and being nice is a pain in the ass sometimes. I admit that a few months after my house guest finally left, some old time friends wanted to move into my garage for 'just a bit'. I admit that I was really glad when they found work and a place to stay out of state. I admit that six months later, they were out again and asking if they could come back to CA for shelter. I admit that I told me no, because it had been a one time offer. I admit that they think I utterly betrayed them, and I just don't care anymore. I admit that I can totally relate to the high blood pressure and stress WD. Hang in there!!!
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