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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/14/2009 10:19:54 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i apologize- i might not have written this as clear as i could have. i was simply wondering if there was some sort of weird reason why some doms insist on acting like spoiled children who don't get their way. it was totally over my head in that sense. it has nothing to do with my age or insecurities that i may or may not have about my role as a domme. i frequently go to live BDSM events and its rare when a dom behaves like this in person, unless he is being a drunken idiot. but thanks for all the advice and input!


I'm a Dom.  As such, I resent you calling those idiots Doms.

To sum up your posts... the online guys who claim to be Doms and don't read profiles are idiots.

There are "men" who never grew up.  They figure if they call themselves Doms that women will fall all over them.  So they try it.

You've got some pretty pictures.  So the idiots think that if they come on strong to you, that you'll melt into a little gooey puddle of submissiveness.

Then they post here complaining that submissives don't treat them with proper respect.  Next time we all beat up on some Lord UberDom who whines about not getting kneeled to properly online, we'll letcha join in.


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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/14/2009 10:30:26 PM   
Malkinius


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Greetings Asylum.....

Hhhmmm....looks like you fixed the 'dominate' problem, but looking at your profile just now, I find this:

"FYI:

i do real time serving for those who are willing to travel and for locals. i do not go to YOU, so do not ask."

That says sub to me. You really should reword it better.

Otherwise, being who and what I am...I do find your profile amusing. <grins> And no...I am not gay.

Be well....

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 5:47:39 AM   
MissAsylum


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well i havent actually touched my profile.

and far be it if i was a sub to say that "I don't go to you, so don't ask."

just saying my dear.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 5:51:53 AM   
MissAsylum


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and...why would you put that you aren't gay?

who would think that?

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 6:04:54 AM   
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Subs say they aren't available to travel or relocate so that line doesn't say dominant or submissive to me.

But you saying you do real time serving makes me assume you are submissive.



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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 6:12:06 AM   
xBullx


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You sound like a whiney little bitch to me.

Since there has already been those that have commented on your profile text, I'll cover your pics. A few of your photos look femine and respectable enough for a "dominant female". However I see a needy slut in most of your pics. This could be the reason you get all the "offensive" mail you are getting.

Oh and cover up those feet of yours.... they are not sexy!!! Lime green is not your color!!!

Presentation seems to be everything in our superficial, material world.

< Message edited by xBullx -- 11/15/2009 6:22:22 AM >


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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 9:23:59 AM   
Lucienne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx

You sound like a whiney little bitch to me.

Since there has already been those that have commented on your profile text, I'll cover your pics. A few of your photos look femine and respectable enough for a "dominant female". However I see a needy slut in most of your pics. This could be the reason you get all the "offensive" mail you are getting.

Oh and cover up those feet of yours.... they are not sexy!!! Lime green is not your color!!!

Presentation seems to be everything in our superficial, material world.


See now, Miss Asylum, if you hadn't addressed your query to intelligent and polite Masters, you might have gotten this insightful response earlier.

I don't think you look like a needy slut in your pictures. Any man who thinks you look like a needy slut is a man you shouldn't bother with. Yes, the world is full of men who have ideas about a woman's place and your presentation will be considered an assault on those ideas by some men. Fuck those guys. (Figuratively, of course)

Also, I love the green nail polish. Toes are for fun colors.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 9:26:46 AM   
zephyroftheNorth


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx

You sound like a whiney little bitch to me.

Since there has already been those that have commented on your profile text, I'll cover your pics. A few of your photos look femine and respectable enough for a "dominant female". However I see a needy slut in most of your pics. This could be the reason you get all the "offensive" mail you are getting.

Oh and cover up those feet of yours.... they are not sexy!!! Lime green is not your color!!!

Presentation seems to be everything in our superficial, material world.


....and there we have it from the world's most uber of uber Masters....Pay no attention OP he sees needy sluts everywhere


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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 9:38:44 AM   
xBullx


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-a somewhat fast reply-

Well what a wonderful developement. While I seen no reason to chastise the opinions of others that had voiced their two cents worth, it seems that my comments were to harsh or straight forward, not to mention void of bullshit political correctness, therefore threatening the security of a couple of our less secure and less desireable posters.

And zephyr or whatever you are calling yourself this week, I only see sluts where they present themselves. So your courageous attempt at piling on with the other bleeding heart is not so impressive as you had hoped.

To the OP... My opinions haven't changed but at least you have a couple of buddies to lean on. GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO TEAM!!!!!!

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 9:39:30 AM   
GotSteel


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I agree with DarkSteven. Sorry to hear that you've been having trouble, I'd love to blame it all on the Nigerians but that doesn't sound like what's happening. As xBullx points out, it's probably some goreans who are being that socially retarded.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 9:48:51 AM   
xBullx


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Well like I said, it appears unless opinions are nice and warm, soft and fuzzy people should not have them. Interesting wouldn't you say.

Again my views on the OP remain unchanged.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GotSteel
As xBullx points out, it's probably some goreans who are being that socially retarded.



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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:01:28 AM   
LanceHughes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i apologize- i might not have written this as clear as i could have. i was simply wondering if there was some sort of weird reason why some doms insist on acting like spoiled children who don't get their way. it was totally over my head in that sense. it has nothing to do with my age or insecurities that i may or may not have about my role as a domme. i frequently go to live BDSM events and its rare when a dom behaves like this in person, unless he is being a drunken idiot. but thanks for all the advice and input!


I'm a Dom.  As such, I resent you calling those idiots Doms.

To sum up your posts... the online guys who claim to be Doms and don't read profiles are idiots.

There are "men" who never grew up.  They figure if they call themselves Doms that women will fall all over them.  So they try it.

You've got some pretty pictures.  So the idiots think that if they come on strong to you, that you'll melt into a little gooey puddle of submissiveness.

Then they post here complaining that submissives don't treat them with proper respect.  Next time we all beat up on some Lord UberDom who whines about not getting kneeled to properly online, we'll letcha join in.






Why does it seem ALL the polite and intelligent D-types are in Denver?  Might be the lack of oxygen forces us to think more clearly than those that have their brains fogged by an excess thereof. LOL!

DarkSteven: are you going to enter the McGuyver contest at Sanctuary this Saturday?

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:08:22 AM   
Lucienne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx

-a somewhat fast reply-

Well what a wonderful developement. While I seen no reason to chastise the opinions of others that had voiced their two cents worth, it seems that my comments were to harsh or straight forward, not to mention void of bullshit political correctness, therefore threatening the security of a couple of our less secure and less desireable posters.

And zephyr or whatever you are calling yourself this week, I only see sluts where they present themselves. So your courageous attempt at piling on with the other bleeding heart is not so impressive as you had hoped.

To the OP... My opinions haven't changed but at least you have a couple of buddies to lean on. GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO TEAM!!!!!!


Aw... tough guy fighting back the oppressive forces of politically correct bullshit. People disagree. If there was no room for disagreement, discussions here would get dull very quickly. I think your opinion perfectly illustrated why she is getting certain responses. As such, it was a very informative, if entirely loathsome, contribution. I assure you that my sense of security has never been threatened by somebody on the internet. Your response to my comment suggests that you could not honestly say the same thing.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:13:00 AM   
DesFIP


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xBullx

However I see a needy slut in most of your pics. This could be the reason you get all the "offensive" mail you are getting.



I presume he's one of the ones you turned down.

I like the green nails, and the red, but I'm not that thrilled with the lavender. You seem to do better with strong colors than pastels judging by three pedi pics.

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:13:02 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

DarkSteven: are you going to enter the McGuyver contest at Sanctuary this Saturday?


Huh?  What McGuyver contest?  Is that where Doms use duct tape, dental floss, and a pair of old shoes to make a full dungeon complete with St. Andrews cross?

I attend the Enclave... never been to the Sanctuary.  But Sanctuary much for the invitation...


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:15:22 AM   
breatheasone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

DarkSteven: are you going to enter the McGuyver contest at Sanctuary this Saturday?


Huh?  What McGuyver contest?  Is that where Doms use duct tape, dental floss, and a pair of old shoes to make a full dungeon complete with St. Andrews cross?

I attend the Enclave... never been to the Sanctuary.  But Sanctuary much for the invitation...


Ok seriously....this is one of the funniest posts i've read in a while! LMAO!


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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:17:23 AM   
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quote:

And zephyr or whatever you are calling yourself this week, I only see sluts where they present themselves. So your courageous attempt at piling on with the other bleeding heart is not so impressive as you had hoped.


I'm disappointed "Bull" I had somehow expected better than this. Oh on the subject of her pics, your comments might....might...carry more weight if it weren't for the not-quite-accuracy of yours. But then camera angles are everything aren't they?

I assure you that I'm not a bleeding heart, which seems to be your catch words for "does not agree with my opinion" *shrugs* I'll try to find a way to go on.


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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:23:11 AM   
xBullx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucienne


Aw... tough guy fighting back the oppressive forces of politically correct bullshit. People disagree. If there was no room for disagreement, discussions here would get dull very quickly. I think your opinion perfectly illustrated why she is getting certain responses.



Your passive aggressive retort shouldn't be fooling anyone. I origanally responded to the OP. You chose to accost my reply therefore encouraging a response. It's altogether possible you had that intent at heart.

My response to the OP wasn't brought on by me trolling profiles, but rather her choice to whine aloud here on the boards over something that has been discussed countless times before. It seems funny though, if a man had made this thread he would have gotten this brand of reply by most, but since it's some cutesy wenchlette, she needs defended from the mean ole Gorean.

quote:



As such, it was a very informative, if entirely loathsome, contribution. I assure you that my sense of security has never been threatened by somebody on the internet. Your response to my comment suggests that you could not honestly say the same thing.



Opinions vary...

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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:24:12 AM   
xBullx


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This was at least funny...

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I presume he's one of the ones you turned down.




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RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and po... - 11/15/2009 10:28:24 AM   
xBullx


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The OP made an inquiry as to why she gets the mail she does...

I responded to as much with my reply, at least in my opinion.

And now I'm not gonna debate irrelevent semantics with a desperate and bitter old maid.

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