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Zevar -> RE: a question from a Mistress to an intelligent and polite Master. (11/15/2009 12:16:26 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum
as stated in the subject, i'm a mistress and, dispite my age, have been in the BDSM scene for quite a few years. to make absolutely sure i was a domme, even though i have been dominate since i could interact with others, i tried to play submissive in a relationship. it didn't last long since i was lying to myself about my role in a relationship. i haven't looked back since.
anyway, lately,(or since i joined collarme last year) i have been approached in some of the most disgusting, degrading, and overall foul ways that i could imagine by male doms. even though it says DOMINATE in my profile, all of us have encountered fakes and liars, so i don't completely fault them. but when i tell these doms “i'm happy in my position, so i have to say no to us getting together in that way, but thanks for your interest and good luck!”, i am disrespected and bitched at by those trying to “help” me realized my true self. i have even had to block certain people and had to go so far as to report them for threats and harassment.
i dont think all of you are evil (lol), but i'm not really understanding whats going on here. can somebody shed some thoughtful and helpful insight?
seriously, those of you who are legit are getting a bad rep because of these people.
Greetings Asylum:
To begin not all definitions of terms are at all times uniformly shared as perhaps you might well know. As far as your questioning why certain comments have been made by others toward you here on this site is not a question that anyone has a specific answer to. There is not anyway that a certain answer can be determined why certain individuals, men and women, behave in ways that are less than respectful without asking them directly.
Clearly the human condition is not always expressed in ways that might be viewed as acceptable. While to others certain comments and mannerism might be viewed as simply differently expressed and not offensive at all.
In the nutshell, offline and online it is certainly appropiate to adhere to personal guidelines or otherwise boundaries which each individual enforces in their own way. When it comes to online here at CM one can always utilize the blocking feature provided to deal with the unwanted rude and disrespectful self appointed know it all ones who are found to be otherwise rude and altogether unacceptable.
Perhaps a solution is simply making a choice of click - click - click. YES indeed You could always choose to block the foolishness and move on with your precious time and living life as it works for you, regardless of what others might say.
Do take good care of you. Don't fret the small stuff of the online foolishness else you might become distracted thus unintentionally forget to define that which is of real importance in living fully on your journey.
Fail-safe remedy: Don’t hesitate to click BLOCK when required. Settled and solved, IMO!
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